What to do? ( Archived) (5)

I have been with someone for 2 months. Lately Ive realized he seems to be holding back from me, and not really letting our realtionship go anywhere. Like its at a standstill. Where there really is no emotional part in our relationship. I then asked him yesterday that it seems he is not letting me in as in "getting to know him" or "getting that trust factor." He then proceeds to tell me that he never really told me how bad his last ex hurt him and that he didn't want me to know cuz he didn't want me to think he wasn't over her. Well in my opinion is if someone is still going on about how bad there ex hurt them, they would be over them right? Then he tells me he just doesnt wanna get close and then get hurt. Why would someone go into a relationship if they are obviously not ready? I just asked him why are we here then... of course his response was Idk, but i never said I didnt want to date you. At the end of the conversation he tells me, you know I am who I am and I'm not gonna change, I'm sure feelings will show later on. So will I be a complete idiot and wait around? This is not who I am, I am only usually with someone who I know wants to go somehwere. So lets be plain and simple. Am I wasting my time? Is he a complete numskull? Just stay with him and see what happens? What?

I meant Wouldn't be over them above.

Just dump him and catch a plane to Oz