Wow Is age a factor when it comes to friendship and relationship? ( Archived) (5)

hey what it do C/s? So I've kinda been out here keeping to myself since my last post.. But i have an honest question to ask.. The other day I was walking through the mall or what not and this woman thats 28 yrs of age approached me and was like.. Wow your really cute or what not.. And she said i would love to get to know you. And I though she was beautiful as well.. So we exchanged numbers or what not.. and we've talked she's going to college to study pre law.. WOW nice!! lol But my question is this I'm 24 and shes 28... I guess I'm thinking like ok me and her are friends. And if we really hit it off real well would their be an issue with a guy dating a 28 yr old.. She's got a mixed lil boy that's 11yrs old and i got 2 children.. And she had asked me about my past and I told her about things i wouldnt settle for and the things that worked for me.. And it's kinda weird cus she understood Exactly what i was saying... so if this friendship developed into something more.. is their an issue with a 24yr old man dating a 28 yr old woman... Cuz i don't believe in rushing into anything seeing that my 2yr relationship was nothing but pure hell...? I also am attracted to white women (which that's what she is) and she just handles her self alot differently then what i'm used to... Concerning, caring, and it's like we have this perfect vibe that's its almost unreal... The communication is thier, the values is their, She goes to church, the respect is their, it's almost like damn i actually have a good vibe about this... So my question is.. Is it possible for a 28 yr old woman and a 24 yr old to have a relationship... Comments please.. And Thanks:)

Age is never a factor in friendships. I have friends in all age brackets. In a relationship of BF/ husband....they need to be in my age bracket.

My rule is no more than a 5 yr age diff. unless there is an unbelievable amount of chemistry and compatiblity AND the how much of an ICK factor it is. It sounds like you have a great chance of making this somthing fantastic. 24 and 28 is a good range..yeah social convention has always been male older and female younger...but I don't think it really applies anymore. I think you should go for it! If it were more like 10 yrs I would hesitate but it's not..It's hard to find someone who shares your views and totally understands you..

Self interest is the only thing that rules choices....each person having their own interest to fill their lust of mind and flesh.....all other things are rationalized as needed.