When u feel being make use of by the other party in terms of financial + unable to take decision when comes to relationship matter, depending on people's advices and dont have any plan for the future. Selfcentre Sori to say such as can be disheartened.
Sep 12, 2010 4:00 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: What makes you decide you won't be able to ever love a certain person enough to be with them?
When you loose respect for them. Honesty, trust, integrity are the foundation of any relationship and when that it gone, there's very little that can keep the relationship going, even though you may love the person. But it takes a lot of courage to walk out of a relationship, when you still in love with the person, and you know that it can only bring you heartache. "2 in company in a marriage, 3 is a crowd........."
Sep 12, 2010 4:18 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 posts
RDM59: I loved her enough and she loved me but sadly her anger managment problems were just too much for me to accept..... Walking on eggshells sucks.
There are "Anger Management Workshops" that help with this I'm told.......Cant say Im a fan of anger management, its an energy vampire and drains me............but can understand Walking on egg shells requires loads of .......and patience
Medsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy1,682 posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Hi Medsummer How are u on this glorius sunday?
Doing great though spending too much time on here! i'm gettig ready to get out into the city as it's festival time here and there is a lot going on somewhere...just have to find it! How are you doing?
Sep 12, 2010 4:23 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 posts
Medsummer: Doing great though spending too much time on here! i'm gettig ready to get out into the city as it's festival time here and there is a lot going on somewhere...just have to find it! How are you doing?
Im doing fabulous thanks. I've decided to spend the day indoors, too much partying the last few days so need to recuperate and make up for some of my lost beauty sleep Im quite sure u will have no problems finding that party spot, especially if your party skills are as good as your CS comm skills
Prettyuptowngirl: There are "Anger Management Workshops" that help with this I'm told.......Cant say Im a fan of anger management, its an energy vampire and drains me............but can understand Walking on egg shells requires loads of .......and patience
She did recognize her problem and suggested herself so seek some help but it never happened. We split for a few years, then gave it another try but there was no change so I quickly got out of it again.
Not to be in love....this is one of those questions that is, take a deep breath...and try to answer when you are not sure yourself. I can admire, I can adore, I can respect and I can love a man but if I can't see myself giving the whole of me to him..I can't be in love. I am not saying lose yourself, no, I am saying be yourself..show the true you and he will either love this or not. Being compatible, communicating, feeling totally comfortable. Wanting to be near this person always. And staying when bad times come, for they will....I am sure there is much more to consider....but it is a start.
Sep 12, 2010 5:50 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
PrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 posts
scottyburd: When the fizzle fizzles out
In every relationship the fizzle will fizzle out, hence its important that you have more then the fizzle to keep it together. The unfortunate thing these days, is no one is prepared to hang around once the fizzle is worn on. Relationships take time, energy, endurance, love, acceptance, commitment etc. Its a full time job, if you want to fizzle in the drizzle, as they put it
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Sori to say such as can be disheartened.