What makes you decide you can't love someone? ( Archived) (199)

Sep 12, 2010 2:12 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Kellycindi
KellycindiKellycindiEast, Singapore2 Threads 39 Posts
When u feel being make use of by the other party in terms of financial + unable to take decision when comes to relationship matter, depending on people's advices and dont have any plan for the future. Selfcentre
Sori to say such as can be disheartened.
doh
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Sep 12, 2010 4:00 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: What makes you decide you won't be able to ever love a certain person enough to be with them?


When you loose respect for them. Honesty, trust, integrity are the foundation of any relationship and when that it gone, there's very little that can keep the relationship going, even though you may love the person. But it takes a lot of courage to walk out of a relationship, when you still in love with the person, and you know that it can only bring you heartache. "2 in company in a marriage, 3 is a crowd........."hug sigh
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Sep 12, 2010 4:02 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Medsummer: that's just a joke really because snoring is a minor thing if there is real love in your heart.


Nice comeback rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 12, 2010 4:05 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Nice comeback


uh-huh...there's separate bedrooms too...with soundproof walls and noise canceling earbuds!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 12, 2010 4:16 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Medsummer: uh-huh...there's separate bedrooms too...with soundproof walls and noise canceling earbuds!


Hi Medsummer wave wave How are u on this glorius sunday?cool
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Sep 12, 2010 4:18 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
RDM59: I loved her enough and she loved me but sadly her anger managment problems were just too much for me to accept..... Walking on eggshells sucks.



There are "Anger Management Workshops"confused frustrated that help with this I'm told.......Cant say Im a fan of anger management, its an energy vampire and drains me............but can understanddancing Walking on egg shells requires loads of wine cheers .......and patiencehug
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Sep 12, 2010 4:19 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Hi Medsummer How are u on this glorius sunday?


Doing great though spending too much time on here! i'm gettig ready to get out into the city as it's festival time here and there is a lot going on somewhere...just have to find it!
How are you doing?
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Sep 12, 2010 4:23 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Medsummer: Doing great though spending too much time on here! i'm gettig ready to get out into the city as it's festival time here and there is a lot going on somewhere...just have to find it!
How are you doing?


Im doing fabulous thanks. I've decided to spend the day indoors, too much partying the last few daysdancing banana so need to recuperate and make up for some of my lost beauty sleep sleep sleep Im quite sure u will have no problems finding that party spot, especially if your party skills are as good as your CS comm skills hug
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Sep 12, 2010 4:46 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
tightboxers
tightboxerstightboxersbrighton, West Sussex, England UK6 Threads 650 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: What makes you decide you won't be able to ever love a certain person enough to be with them?

Self absorption.
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Sep 12, 2010 4:52 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
tightboxers: Self absorption.


LOL, grin grin grin I like this idea, doh bouquet
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Sep 12, 2010 5:01 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: There are "Anger Management Workshops" that help with this I'm told.......Cant say Im a fan of anger management, its an energy vampire and drains me............but can understand Walking on egg shells requires loads of .......and patience


She did recognize her problem and suggested herself so seek some help but it never happened. We split for a few years, then gave it another try but there was no change so I quickly got out of it again.
wave wine bouquet
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Sep 12, 2010 5:35 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
Not to be in love....this is one of those questions that is, take a deep breath...and try to answer when you are not sure yourself.
I can admire, I can adore, I can respect and I can love a man but if I can't see myself giving the whole of me to him..I can't be in love. I am not saying lose yourself, no, I am saying be yourself..show the true you and he will either love this or not.
Being compatible, communicating, feeling totally comfortable. Wanting to be near this person always. And staying when bad times come, for they will....I am sure there is much more to consider....but it is a start.teddybear
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Sep 12, 2010 5:40 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
When the fizzle fizzles out wow sigh
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Sep 12, 2010 5:45 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
scottyburd: When the fizzle fizzles out


Only fizzle I get these days in a can of beer. Oooh that reminds me, I'm supposed to be in the pub meeting the lads. laugh cheers cheers
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Sep 12, 2010 5:47 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
taff1: Only fizzle I get these days in a can of beer. Oooh that reminds me, I'm supposed to be in the pub meeting the lads.


Dont get too fizzled oops i mean sizzled...no...sozzled..laugh cheers
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Sep 12, 2010 5:49 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
I think someone has a case of insecurity.
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Sep 12, 2010 5:50 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
scottyburd: When the fizzle fizzles out


In every relationship the fizzle will fizzle out, hence its important that you have more then the fizzle to keep it together. The unfortunate thing these days, is no one is prepared to hang around once the fizzle is worn on. Relationships take time, energy, endurance, love, acceptance, commitment etc. Its a full time job, if you want to fizzle in the drizzle, as they put it smitten love
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Sep 12, 2010 5:52 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
samash90
samash90samash90invercargill, Southland New Zealand1 Threads 11 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: What makes you decide you won't be able to ever love a certain person enough to be with them?




i think sometimes you just know, weither or not you want to admit it to yourself is another story
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Sep 12, 2010 5:57 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Everyone's relationship staying power is different..cheers
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Sep 12, 2010 6:57 AM CST What makes you decide you can't love someone?
zdeathangelz
zdeathangelzzdeathangelzjacksonville, Florida USA22 Threads 3,743 Posts
dunno i hate no one,there are just some people i can't stand rolling on the floor laughing
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