Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship? (37)

Sep 8, 2010 6:05 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
Bikerboy750
Bikerboy750Bikerboy750Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 63 Posts
I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people confused dunno
Sep 8, 2010 6:06 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
delamer
delamerdelamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people


6 months to a year. JMO

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Sep 8, 2010 6:07 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people


depends on how serious , length of time together and the person in general !!! professor
Sep 8, 2010 6:07 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
lisalashes
lisalasheslisalasheswexford, Wexford Ireland1 Threads 53 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people



everyone is different some people get over there exs quicker than others it also depends on how & why the relationship broke up professor
Sep 8, 2010 6:07 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
NewIn2010
NewIn2010NewIn2010County, Galway Ireland15 Threads 196 Posts
I think it depends on the person and on the past relationship. One took me 15 years, another took me 2 years and my most recent although it lasted 3 years, I was over it in about 3 hours!
Sep 8, 2010 6:08 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people



How can there be a set time for everyone, we are all different.
It can also depend on how the relationship ends IMO.

I was over my ex husband as soon as the door closed behind him as things had been bad for a number of years. But the next relationship I had took my 2 years to get over.
Sep 8, 2010 6:09 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
lisalashes
lisalasheslisalasheswexford, Wexford Ireland1 Threads 53 Posts
ellimere: depends on how serious , length of time together and the person in general !!!



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing got in before me but great minds think a like
Sep 8, 2010 6:10 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people


As long as it takes to get to the front door!! Seriously though it also varies from the person who ends it to the one who is dumped...
Sep 8, 2010 6:10 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
rosii
rosiirosiilongford, Longford Ireland149 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people


there is no time limit.... it depends on the people and what happened in the relationship.... some people need time to get over their ex whilst others need time to recover from the relationship
Sep 8, 2010 6:10 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
lisalashes: got in before me but great minds think a like


and fools seldome differ as mammy wud say laugh
Sep 8, 2010 6:18 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
sarah4ever
sarah4eversarah4everCarlow, Ireland1 Threads 24 Posts
At least a year in my opinion. getting over my ex for me was not getting over him as a person as much but getting out of habits and routines and shaking off the anger an resentment and stuff. I'm no Dr phil but thats when I could easily say I was over someone. yay
Sep 8, 2010 6:20 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
lisalashes
lisalasheslisalasheswexford, Wexford Ireland1 Threads 53 Posts
they do say the best way to get over ur ex is to get under someone else devil
Sep 8, 2010 6:21 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
Bikerboy750
Bikerboy750Bikerboy750Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 63 Posts
i know there would be different times for everyone but it got me thinking.. it took me alost two years but we were together for almost ten and things in my eyes were great but i was teh one who was cheated on?

thing is i got a call yesterday from the ex saying that she wasnt over me and still loved me so on and so forth and i couldnt get her away from the door quick enough.. this is not almost two and a half years later with minimal contact..

I'm over her and what she did i;ve put it behind me and moved on but it has me thinkning why the hell would she says SHE wasnt over ME? dunno
Sep 8, 2010 6:23 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
Bikerboy750
Bikerboy750Bikerboy750Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 63 Posts
sarah4ever: At least a year in my opinion. getting over my ex for me was not getting over him as a person as much but getting out of habits and routines and shaking off the anger an resentment and stuff. I'm no Dr phil but thats when I could easily say I was over someone.


Thats the kinda answer i was after thank you very much lol thumbs up
Sep 8, 2010 6:29 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
delamer
delamerdelamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Posts
lisalashes: they do say the best way to get over ur ex is to get under someone else


thumbs up I like your optimism... dunno grin
Sep 8, 2010 6:37 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
sarah4ever
sarah4eversarah4everCarlow, Ireland1 Threads 24 Posts
lisalashes: they do say the best way to get over ur ex is to get under someone else



here here
Sep 8, 2010 6:37 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Bikerboy750: Thats the kinda answer i was after thank you very much lol



Ah fek so the rest of us got the answer wrong did we?




laugh
Sep 8, 2010 6:39 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
Bikerboy750
Bikerboy750Bikerboy750Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 63 Posts
vonney: Ah fek so the rest of us got the answer wrong did we?

Yes.. yes you did.. now write this down fifty times...

We must answer like Sarah.... hahahaha rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 8, 2010 6:42 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
galwaydave
galwaydavegalwaydaveGalway, Ireland30 Threads 2 Polls 590 Posts
Bikerboy750: I was just wondering because some people think they aren't over their exes alot and i know it took me a good while to get over mine but the question was put to me earlier today and i now put it to you good people


2 years 6 months 13 days 2 hours 15 minutes and 8 seconds
Sep 8, 2010 6:43 PM CST Whats the average amount of time it takes someone to move on from a serious relationship?
sarah4ever
sarah4eversarah4everCarlow, Ireland1 Threads 24 Posts
Bikerboy750: Thats the kinda answer i was after thank you very much lol


no problem...she is prob only wanting to be back with you now because she has realised that the grass is not greener on the other side and she is not getting the same attention she got from you. some girls think that all has to be perfect but do not realise that there will always be something that couples do to annoy each other, problem is, you may find someone without the same annoying habit as your ex will seem great until the new partner does something different to annoy you. everyone has there thing and she prob see's that now. or not. I don't know it all
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