How does men see our body? (220)
heatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1 Threads 1,351 PostsLulibella: When men look at a womans body? I always heard he overlooks the flaws like cellulite. Is this true? Or does men expect a woman to have a perfectly fit body?
Men do not care most of the time. yet of course they look at every b u t ful woman they can get their eyes on. love is love
I know men respect a woman who tries and realizes having children and aging is cool, and also the personality and the fun is what is important. I never heard men sitting around speaking of cellulite. Thank goodness.
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heatherhuntsman: Men do not care most of the time. yet of course they look at every b u t ful woman they can get their eyes on. love is love I know men respect a woman who tries and realizes having children and aging is cool, and also the personality and the fun is what is important. I never heard men sitting around speaking of cellulite. Thank goodness.
thats cos we are pretty slick at making sure yall dont hear it....
trust me we all do.... i know every imperfection of my friends partners and they know every one of my partner's !!!
its a pretty safe bet that most women whose gotten neked for a dude has had their body (good or bad) described to another dude in great detail !!!!
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MetalMilitia: thats cos we are pretty slick at making sure yall dont hear it....trust me we all do.... i know every imperfection of my friends partners and they know every one of my partner's !!!its a pretty safe bet that most women whose gotten neked for a dude has had their body (good or bad) described to another dude in great detail !!!!
wow. I t seems to be true for you. I do not see it in the men I know. I am not important to speak of. I know for a fact my men and friends have no time for talking about me. maybe other women. If they talk about me they are not not talking about my body that is for sure. I know what they are saying and it is all good. I have had four kids and it would just be cruel to not talk about my good points. My friends are respecful and cool they would not degra or gossip I know I would not degrade them. that is why we have been friends for so long. We are respectful and discrete and have learned how great life is when we do the right thing. ------ This thread is Archived ------
heatherhuntsman: wow. I t seems to be true for you. I do not see it in the men I know. I am not important to speak of. I know for a fact my men and friends have no time for talking about me. maybe other women. If they talk about me they are not not talking about my body that is for sure. I know what they are saying and it is all good. I have had four kids and it would just be cruel to not talk about my good points. My friends are respecful and cool they would not degra or gossip I know I would not degrade them. that is why we have been friends for so long. We are respectful and discrete and have learned how great life is when we do the right thing.
well you may or may not be right... i dont know you nor your friends... im just saying that odds are someone at some point in your life likely will have described you to someone else...
but as i say... its cardinal rule #1.... you will never know what was said and if you were to ask there will be a resounding "no" given as the answer... we are fully aware of the consequences !!!!
trust me, yall have NO idea of what "locker room" talk is all about and yall never will..... i doubt there is another dude in here that will admit to have talked to other dudes about their woman.... but the fact remains most of us... if not all have at one point or another....
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there are these times of self doubt..when a man is complimenting me..im thinking"god,does he see what i see,or hes blind?"
and other times..
when the thought goes"do i care..its soooo good to be naked now and here.."
and thats the way its always been..when bod was young and perky and later..
and other times..
when the thought goes"do i care..its soooo good to be naked now and here.."and thats the way its always been..when bod was young and perky and later..
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MetalMilitia: what you think of my opinion still dont change the fact that yalls stuff gets saggy and cellulite and strech marks are inevitable after cooking one or two in the 'ol oven !!!!!
and that such things are rather unsightly and sometime downright disgusting !!!!!
but i do have to give to some of yall ... some either have great DNA or have taken good care of yerself afterwards cos for some of yall, one cant tell.....
unfortunately those are very small minority in my experience !!!!!
oh... and thank you for your words of encouragement !!!!!
and that such things are rather unsightly and sometime downright disgusting !!!!!
but i do have to give to some of yall ... some either have great DNA or have taken good care of yerself afterwards cos for some of yall, one cant tell.....
unfortunately those are very small minority in my experience !!!!!
oh... and thank you for your words of encouragement !!!!!
you wont want me then....ive got the A-Z of england on my belly, and i can even place objects in my cellulite that stay there when i walk...jello much.
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Amity: you wont want me then....ive got the A-Z of england on my belly, and i can even place objects in my cellulite that stay there when i walk...jello much.
well..... no need to worry about that....
we are also very good at closing our eyes and visualizing Megan Fox or someone like that !!!!!
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MetalMilitia: well..... no need to worry about that....we are also very good at closing our eyes and visualizing Megan Fox or someone like that !!!!!
you asshat
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MetalMilitia: well you may or may not be right... i dont know you nor your friends... im just saying that odds are someone at some point in your life likely will have described you to someone else...but as i say... its cardinal rule #1.... you will never know what was said and if you were to ask there will be a resounding "no" given as the answer... we are fully aware of the consequences !!!!
trust me, yall have NO idea of what "locker room" talk is all about and yall never will..... i doubt there is another dude in here that will admit to have talked to other dudes about their woman.... but the fact remains most of us... if not all have at one point or another....
the trick is to avoid the knobends wi the tendency to blabber trust me, yall have NO idea of what "locker room" talk is all about and yall never will..... i doubt there is another dude in here that will admit to have talked to other dudes about their woman.... but the fact remains most of us... if not all have at one point or another....
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The answer is glaringly obvious,men see what they want to see usually dependant on the focus level of the BEER GOGGLES,,,,,If by chance he has reac hed the 8 pint level every woman has the face of a Madonna and the body of a supermodel......Sadly this effect is only temporary and the focus level is not sustainable.....Hence the sight most ladies see the following morning of a weefatbaldhairyarsedlothario....running down the garden path trying desporately to get his trousers on ......As always JMO 
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Amity: this thread makes me feel crappy...
Oh Amity LOL there is only one answer...
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Amity: this thread makes me feel crappy...
well turn on the faucet and let the plumbing get a lil work and you'll feel better in no time....
and if its clogged, you can always use the ol "snake".... just make sure you work it in nice and slow.... wouldnt wanna cause bigger problems by breaking a seal or something ~!!!!!
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patmac: Oh Amity LOL there is only one answer...
nice one 
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MetalMilitia: well turn on the faucet and let the plumbing get a lil work and you'll feel better in no time....and if its clogged, you can always use the ol "snake".... just make sure you work it in nice and slow.... wouldnt wanna cause bigger problems by breaking a seal or something ~!!!!!
You beast!!
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can i open my eyes now 
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I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I havent been with a "perfect" man yet...but hes always perfect to me. 
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