How much can one person take? (16)

ive had a really bad 2 weeks and thought id share it with you....
last week i found out my dad hasnt long to live. He came home from hospital to basically die (to put it bluntly).He has cancer of the pancreus. My mum is really distaught and i try to keep her chin up. Then i tried to fix my washing machine and broke my toe, when it fell on me!! I lost my mobile phone when i was out and that same night,my ex threatened me in public. Then my car broke down 3 days ago, which is gunna cost a lot of money to fix. Lastly a guy i have been in contact with on here, is now snubbing me. We have talked loads on the phone and on here and all of a suddern he is just ignoring me. I dont no what i have done wrong. Everything was going great.What would you do in my situation. It feels like i have all these bad things happening to me and i really feel like all the fight in me has gone

Sorry to hear your having such a bad time of it.

It really does all seem to come all at once dosen't it!

You will manage to get through it all, despite how hard it becomes.

I hope you can be strong for your Dad and make the most of the time you have left with him. Mine died aged 53 when I was about 25, it was very sudden and I was just glad we were getting on so well when I could look back as it rationally.

As to the guy you were talking to, maybe he was talking to others too, or just changed his mind. It happens, but best to try and let it go, these things are usually unfathomable.

Take care...

Hi Meiowcats

I am so so sorry for all you are having to put up with right now, you must feel as if you have the weight of the world on your shoulders. I don't have any wise words of comfort, I am not much good at that. All I can say is that you have all of us, your forum friends, if ever you need an ear, to vent things.

I dont think there are any words that can help you through, but just the fact we are all here for you, please be strong, your fight will return and you will be stronger afterwards, enjoy your time with your dad and forget about the time with the guy on the phone, if he cant be here now when you need him then he has showed his true colours. Take care ok and you know where we are.

Ummmm .. Picture this in your mind ( can't write all of it down ..) After a romantic dinner-date you go somewhere romantic and ... then .. uuuhhhh .. Your passionate partner remembers the thins you said you like .. He roles you on your tummy and gently .. s... you on your b..... . The next day he serves you breakfast in bed .
Life is hard darling .. remember the good times when it is bad ..
I am with you in this x .

i agree with all setfree11 said .. and send you my love..and old cliche i know but it is so true.....THIS TOO SHALL PASS

sorry to hear about your dad love stay strong the washer me could fix 4 you the phone you better ov with out one and you ex keep him as a x as any man fretens a girl is not a man ' tell you mam to stay srong 4 you . you car me would probelly be able to fix that 4 you pretty cheep geraint

never despair

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