Whats with 45 (31)
bonsaiseymour, Victoria Australia18 Threads 510 PostsWhy is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number. 
Well Im not sure that I completely agree with you. I dont think that 45 is considered old by most men who are around that age bracket say 42 onwards. Most guys do seem to want to date within their age range a few years younger or older, thats been my experience anyway. Of course if they can snaffle a wee bit of 'eye candy' 10 years younger, they will, and why not I say.
In saying that, I've found that alot of men around my age range 47 are O L D. They may think they are not, but they are ... they seem to have very fixed notions on things, little or no understanding of the responsibilities of a single parent, are unable to 'let their hair down' and muck around, or always complaining about their dicky knees, ticker, shoulder, whatever the dicky item is.
I think we just have to keep sifting - looking for that person who is our match - for me its the fella who likes to sit and watch the waves and enjoy the sunset, run up and down the beach having a water kicking fight, and just laugh.
the recuperative powers of a rodent are a huge plus too
In saying that, I've found that alot of men around my age range 47 are O L D. They may think they are not, but they are ... they seem to have very fixed notions on things, little or no understanding of the responsibilities of a single parent, are unable to 'let their hair down' and muck around, or always complaining about their dicky knees, ticker, shoulder, whatever the dicky item is.
I think we just have to keep sifting - looking for that person who is our match - for me its the fella who likes to sit and watch the waves and enjoy the sunset, run up and down the beach having a water kicking fight, and just laugh.
the recuperative powers of a rodent are a huge plus too
Nothing wrong with being 45. 
bonsai: Why is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number.
Dunno - You look pretty good to me!
Hey Shell you got it right about some guys guys acting OLD before thier time. At my time in life the kids have gone and its time for me to have some fun but not babysit. There is such a thing as too young. Cougars like eye candy too lol. 
bjsss: Nothing wrong with being 45.
That should of read 45 +bonsai: Hey Shell you got it right about some guys guys acting OLD before thier time. At my time in life the kids have gone and its time for me to have some fun but not babysit. There is such a thing as too young. Cougars like eye candy too lol.
bonsai: Why is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number.
right...age is only a number, nothings wrong with that.
bonsai: Why is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number.
Hey 45 is good!!! heaps of experience is good.
Yeah whats wrong with the 45 age number...
nutten wrong with 45 at all 
i think it all comes down to compatibility in the end
i think it all comes down to compatibility in the endohnuts1: nutten wrong with 45 at all i think it all comes down to compatibility in the end
Compatibility in the END,is very important Ohnutsawesome71: Compatibility in the END,is very important Ohnuts
Compatibility is IT, I mean lets be honest here, regardless of someones age, no one wants to be caught up with someone they have major issues with. Thats just common sense.
In saying that age is important. Consider the older woman who falls for a younger man. Sure age isnt an issue until he wants kids
then age can be a major issue. Adoption may not be an option if the woman is over certain age limits. I guess that it all boils down to what one wants ...
but in the mean time, its always fun to sample the menu
Shell225: Compatibility is IT, I mean lets be honest here, regardless of someones age, no one wants to be caught up with someone they have major issues with. Thats just common sense.
In saying that age is important. Consider the older woman who falls for a younger man. Sure age isnt an issue until he wants kids then age can be a major issue. Adoption may not be an option if the woman is over certain age limits.
I guess that it all boils down to what one wants ... but in the mean time, its always fun to sample the menu
especially in the end,witch end I don't know?In saying that age is important. Consider the older woman who falls for a younger man. Sure age isnt an issue until he wants kids then age can be a major issue. Adoption may not be an option if the woman is over certain age limits.
I guess that it all boils down to what one wants ... but in the mean time, its always fun to sample the menu
bonsai: Hey Shell you got it right about some guys guys acting OLD before thier time. At my time in life the kids have gone and its time for me to have some fun but not babysit. There is such a thing as too young. Cougars like eye candy too lol.
there's no space for youngster to get involve?... thats what you trying to say?...
bonsai: Why is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number.
your profile says your 51, has this been bothering you for 6 years???. you need to speak up a little earlier perhaps, so the team can get down and consider all the possible answers to your querie, before you go nuts wondering, what on earth is wrong with me??
Shell225: Well Im not sure that I completely agree with you. I dont think that 45 is considered old by most men who are around that age bracket say 42 onwards. Most guys do seem to want to date within their age range a few years younger or older, thats been my experience anyway. Of course if they can snaffle a wee bit of 'eye candy' 10 years younger, they will, and why not I say.
In saying that, I've found that alot of men around my age range 47 are O L D. They may think they are not, but they are ... they seem to have very fixed notions on things, little or no understanding of the responsibilities of a single parent, are unable to 'let their hair down' and muck around, or always complaining about their dicky knees, ticker, shoulder, whatever the dicky item is.
I think we just have to keep sifting - looking for that person who is our match - for me its the fella who likes to sit and watch the waves and enjoy the sunset, run up and down the beach having a water kicking fight, and just laugh.
the recuperative powers of a rodent are a huge plus too
In saying that, I've found that alot of men around my age range 47 are O L D. They may think they are not, but they are ... they seem to have very fixed notions on things, little or no understanding of the responsibilities of a single parent, are unable to 'let their hair down' and muck around, or always complaining about their dicky knees, ticker, shoulder, whatever the dicky item is.
I think we just have to keep sifting - looking for that person who is our match - for me its the fella who likes to sit and watch the waves and enjoy the sunset, run up and down the beach having a water kicking fight, and just laugh.
the recuperative powers of a rodent are a huge plus too
I didn't get my dicky knee and rooted shoulder from being a good boy Baby. You should of known me when I was young and had the recouperate powers of a rodent. If you did You would be whinging about your dicky parts now, to.
bonsai: Why is over 45 considered old to most guys. Age is only a number.
\\Well my dear, I consider you quite young actually. It is all a question of perspective - where you are in relation to what you are looking at. For me there is another factor that would rule you out for me. You have red hair - so did my first wife lol. - Oh and i prefer small in the chest area lol. So perspective and personal taste/ preferrence governs most people's choices
vbirdbali: there's no space for youngster to get involve?... thats what you trying to say?...
There is such a thing as too young sweetheart. 
psuedonym: your profile says your 51, has this been bothering you for 6 years???. you need to speak up a little earlier perhaps, so the team can get down and consider all the possible answers to your querie, before you go nuts wondering, what on earth is wrong with me??
I may be a litte nuts lol but i dont think there is to much wrong with me and i dont wonder or stress about it. I go with the flow. More Threads
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