Not looking forward to tonight! (41)

Nov 20, 2010 1:26 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
I should be looking forward to going out tonight but I've been dreading it all day. Why? My friends smart ar*e boyfriend is coming out as well. He thinks he is so funny but he is the only one who actually laughs at his jokes (which are usually at the expense of others). The last time he came out I had to tell him that 'I could do with out being man handled'. sigh
Nov 20, 2010 1:30 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
inprint: I should be looking forward to going out tonight but I've been dreading it all day. Why? My friends smart ar*e boyfriend is coming out as well. He thinks he is so funny but he is the only one who actually laughs at his jokes (which are usually at the expense of others). The last time he came out I had to tell him that 'I could do with out being man handled'.


Perhaps you need to stand back a bit. Do you resent him coming between you and your friend and are you fighting for her attention? I've been on both sides of that particular problem. But you really need to be honest with yourself if that is the case.conversing
Nov 20, 2010 1:31 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
inprint: I should be looking forward to going out tonight but I've been dreading it all day. Why? My friends smart ar*e boyfriend is coming out as well. He thinks he is so funny but he is the only one who actually laughs at his jokes (which are usually at the expense of others). The last time he came out I had to tell him that 'I could do with out being man handled'.


uh oh Difficult situation....as its your mates fella...does she know you feel like this?dunno
Nov 20, 2010 1:35 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
Godsgift: Perhaps you need to stand back a bit. Do you resent him coming between you and your friend and are you fighting for her attention? I've been on both sides of that particular problem. But you really need to be honest with yourself if that is the case.


Oh god, that's not the case at all. His smart comment are always personal and offensive and he has no right to man handle me. He is a very rude person who always passes inappropriate comments etc. He just isn't the type of person I like to spend time with.
Nov 20, 2010 1:37 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
sugar77: Difficult situation....as its your mates fella...does she know you feel like this?


I think she might know after I told him not to man handle me!!! The poor girl is always so embarrassed by him!
Nov 20, 2010 1:40 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
inprint: I think she might know after I told him not to man handle me!!! The poor girl is always so embarrassed by him!


A swift kick in the goolies will sort that out. You shouldnt have to put up with that so don't let him.
Nov 20, 2010 1:40 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
inprint: I think she might know after I told him not to man handle me!!! The poor girl is always so embarrassed by him!


Sounds like she needs her head tested then,sounds like a creep and you should never have to put up with that...quick knee to the goolies...or slap in the chops works for me...boxing
Nov 20, 2010 1:41 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
vinny1967: A swift kick in the goolies will sort that out. You shouldnt have to put up with that so don't let him.


Snaplaugh Great minds Vinny...grin hug
Nov 20, 2010 1:44 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
sugar77: Snap Great minds Vinny...


laugh Happy Saturday hon hug

I hate fellas like that, who treat women like a piece of meat. Gives us all a bad name.
Nov 20, 2010 1:44 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
vinny1967: A swift kick in the goolies will sort that out. You shouldnt have to put up with that so don't let him.


laugh Unfortunately he is very tall and I'm quite small so I don't think I could reach his goolies with my knee!!!
Nov 20, 2010 1:44 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
10FegsandaPint
10FegsandaPint10FegsandaPintForkill, Armagh Ireland188 Posts
inprint: Picking me up, slapping my bum! That isn't on in my opinion.

He is always like that. It's not just with drink. When you are the only one who laughs at you 'jokes' you should realise that you are not funny! It's not rocket science.


BTW is your Bum nicesmitten
Nov 20, 2010 1:50 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
inprint: Unfortunately he is very tall and I'm quite small so I don't think I could reach his goolies with my knee!!!


Well nut him, or a Glasgow kiss laugh

I understand its awkward for you but if he tries it on, and you put him in his place firmly and politely he may back off.

If he deosnt resort to option 1 laugh
Nov 20, 2010 1:51 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
10FegsandaPint: BTW is your Bum nice


Of course it islaugh but that's not the point.
Nov 20, 2010 2:33 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
inprint: Oh god, that's not the case at all. His smart comment are always personal and offensive and he has no right to man handle me. He is a very rude person who always passes inappropriate comments etc. He just isn't the type of person I like to spend time with.


I sympathise. I work with a girl like that. It's got to the stage that if she is going to a function I just don't go.

I know I shouldn't let her stop me but she annoys me so much I would be afraid that, after a few drinks, I might retaliate and say something I might regret.


hug hug
Nov 20, 2010 2:40 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
craized
craizedcraizedEnnis, Clare Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 1,473 Posts
wexlady41: I sympathise. I work with a girl like that. It's got to the stage that if she is going to a function I just don't go.

I know I shouldn't let her stop me but she annoys me so much I would be afraid that, after a few drinks, I might retaliate and say something I might regret.


aww thats terrible its such a shame,
Nov 20, 2010 2:49 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
inprint
inprintinprintAthlone, Westmeath Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
I've never slapped anyone in the face or poured my drink over anyone but there is a first time of everything cheers
Nov 20, 2010 2:59 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
inprint: I've never slapped anyone in the face or poured my drink over anyone but there is a first time of everything


Why not simply not go out with them? dunno
Nov 20, 2010 3:00 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
10FegsandaPint
10FegsandaPint10FegsandaPintForkill, Armagh Ireland188 Posts
inprint: I've never slapped anyone in the face or poured my drink over anyone but there is a first time of everything


Why not grab his nads and give a squeeze
that way you know if you could have some fun with him, if you like what you feel you meet him behind your friend back just for fun like , she doesn`t have to know ireland
Just think of Irelandireland
Nov 20, 2010 3:00 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
inprint: I've never slapped anyone in the face or poured my drink over anyone but there is a first time of everything


Ive done bothrolling on the floor laughing
Nov 20, 2010 3:02 PM CST Not looking forward to tonight!
10FegsandaPint
10FegsandaPint10FegsandaPintForkill, Armagh Ireland188 Posts
skyblue43: Why not simply not go out with them?


That would be the easy way out wally
shes not looking to run away from him, she wants us to help her find that power within herself to fight himdancing
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