jvind: You are right to look at both sides of the story. There was one line in her story that stuck with me about her feeling as if he didn't care what she had to say.
I too find that I can feel some things that maybe I dont like for a partner maybe, fairly quickly.....eg. like someone talking over you and dominating the whole conversation...or being rude and obnoxious to others,who they barely know...or it might be something else... But one must try not to judge too quickly...as people act differently when they are nervous or uncomfortable and can be totally different around people they know or are comfortable with... People here have given you some sound advice...from their own experiences which is what life gives us and how we learn and become a better person for it....hopefully...
justy27: I too find that I can feel some things that maybe I dont like for a partner maybe, fairly quickly.....eg. like someone talking over you and dominating the whole conversation...or being rude and obnoxious to others,who they barely know...or it might be something else... But one must try not to judge too quickly...as people act differently when they are nervous or uncomfortable and can be totally different around people they know or are comfortable with... People here have given you some sound advice...from their own experiences which is what life gives us and how we learn and become a better person for it....hopefully...
justy27: I too find that I can feel some things that maybe I dont like for a partner maybe, fairly quickly.....eg. like someone talking over you and dominating the whole conversation...or being rude and obnoxious to others,who they barely know...or it might be something else... But one must try not to judge too quickly...as people act differently when they are nervous or uncomfortable and can be totally different around people they know or are comfortable with... People here have given you some sound advice...from their own experiences which is what life gives us and how we learn and become a better person for it....hopefully...
Maybe he's n0t really interested with you, distance matters but as u said b4 ur in the same state, and Id like to emphasized that its n0t go0d to a guy very talkative, just m0ve and leave ths situati0n, even at the age of 40, u stil have ample time to enjoy life, best wishes!
Some times people act like they are listening when they haven't heard a word you have said. Example:Tom will you take out the garbage Ok in a minute, you get tired of waiting take it out yourself,tom see's you says,why didn't you say some thing i would have taken that out!
demonfairy: Some times people act like they are listening when they haven't heard a word you have said. Example:Tom will you take out the garbage Ok in a minute, you get tired of waiting take it out yourself,tom see's you says,why didn't you say some thing i would have taken that out!
Very true!
Reminds me of an old song- very funny song- "Put another long on the fire".
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