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Nov 29, 2010 11:59 PM CST I belive that most men and women actually
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
could have a working relationship. It's just so difficult for both to be in the right place and in the same stage of personal development. Usually one is more mature then the other and it screws things up. I think when a person is content with his/hers lot in life he/she is the perfect marrige material. As long as there is this drive to find greener pasture on the other side of the creek it's not gonna work. Then it doesn't matter if you live in a Trailer or a Castle, is 20 or 80 years old, things could work out anyway.
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Nov 30, 2010 12:01 AM CST I belive that most men and women actually
NCC1968
NCC1968NCC1968Van Nuys, California USA3 Threads 3 Polls 839 Posts
"Greener pasture" implies I have a less green pasture when right now I just have DIRTlaugh
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Nov 30, 2010 12:13 AM CST I belive that most men and women actually
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
jovisst: could have a working relationship. It's just so difficult for both to be in the right place and in the same stage of personal development. Usually one is more mature then the other and it screws things up. I think when a person is content with his/hers lot in life he/she is the perfect marrige material. As long as there is this drive to find greener pasture on the other side of the creek it's not gonna work. Then it doesn't matter if you live in a Trailer or a Castle, is 20 or 80 years old, things could work out anyway.


well, if you when one is happy with oneself then one attracts love, it is quite true. If the relationship will work or not is altogether a different matter because sometimes very good partnerships can break down and at the same time I have seen very unusual marriages work. Why, because when two people realizes, that they might not always have same feelings, when they fell in love and life can be bit mundane. But any relationship grows and becomes stronger when people decide to stick together and solve whatever problems they might have and help each other. Any relationship becomes stronger and have a chance when they work together for a common goal and realize that a word compromise- thank you and sorry and discussing things in an open manner will take any relationship much further then anyone can expect::)wine
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Nov 30, 2010 12:16 AM CST I belive that most men and women actually
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
NCC1968: "Greener pasture" implies I have a less green pasture when right now I just have DIRT


I live in the PNW, everything is green here, even the rocks have moss growing on them.
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Nov 30, 2010 12:42 AM CST I belive that most men and women actually
yes seems many want a Relationship, but Open For greener pastures, this depletes a relationship, as one is not Sincere, and just waiting for something better to come along...

Two with the same thinking of staying togather forever in a sound relationship, are on the right thinking pattern for it to work...

This Mindset, can Hurt and devistate anothers life, by this thinking pattern.... It dont hurt the one looking for greener pastures, as they are in it for wrong reasons, but the sincere one allways gets tho live with the hurt...

so the same Mindset is important...VERY IMPORTANT...wink
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