Time does heal all. ( Archived) (26)

Dec 4, 2010 9:49 PM CST Time does heal all.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
If you use the time wisely to recover from a broken heart, you can move on and with very little baggage. It takes 1 year for every 5 years that you were in a relationship, to heal. Some choose to hang on to the negative feelings forever, it's a slow poison that will affect you and your next relationship.

I say this from experience. 10 years ago I was devastated, but chose to feel the pain in its every aspect. By facing the pain head on, every hour, week, month and year became a little easier. You can't side-step, bury, put-off or repress a broken heart.

If you're in pain; feel it, make friends with it. It will dissolve over time.
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Dec 4, 2010 9:56 PM CST Time does heal all.
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
thumbs up ... Good post. I can recover from the break up with an individual but never from the break up of my family.
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Dec 4, 2010 9:57 PM CST Time does heal all.
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
somethings can never be replaced .....blues
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Dec 4, 2010 9:59 PM CST Time does heal all.
it took 54 freaking long years to heal...WTF?doh
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Dec 4, 2010 10:02 PM CST Time does heal all.
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
RDM59: ... Good post. I can recover from the break up with an individual but never from the break up of my family.
thumbs up thats why.I smitten uteddybear
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Dec 4, 2010 10:04 PM CST Time does heal all.
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
starshinebright: thats why.I smitten u




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing bouquet hug lips wave
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Dec 4, 2010 10:07 PM CST Time does heal all.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
RDM59: ... Good post. I can recover from the break up with an individual but never from the break up of my family.


I also had a family, pain doesn't count the casualties.
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Dec 4, 2010 10:09 PM CST Time does heal all.
RDM59: ... Good post. I can recover from the break up with an individual but never from the break up of my family.

My family was broken, before I got their!
Good post!grin
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Dec 4, 2010 10:09 PM CST Time does heal all.
oranges2apples
oranges2applesoranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Posts
purple heart
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Dec 4, 2010 10:10 PM CST Time does heal all.
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Time does heal all eventually but the scars keep the memory alive sigh cheers
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Dec 4, 2010 10:10 PM CST Time does heal all.
machosissy
machosissymachosissytopeka, Kansas USA99 Posts
paws4: If you use the time wisely to recover from a broken heart, you can move on and with very little baggage. It takes 1 year for every 5 years that you were in a relationship, to heal. Some choose to hang on to the negative feelings forever, it's a slow poison that will affect you and your next relationship.

I say this from experience. 10 years ago I was devastated, but chose to feel the pain in its every aspect. By facing the pain head on, every hour, week, month and year became a little easier. You can't side-step, bury, put-off or repress a broken heart.

If you're in pain; feel it, make friends with it. It will dissolve over time.


"Me and time against any two" one of my favorite quotes and I don't even know who'sthumbs up
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Dec 4, 2010 10:10 PM CST Time does heal all.
paws4: I also had a family, pain doesn't count the casualties.

Oh, but the family does!
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Dec 4, 2010 10:13 PM CST Time does heal all.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
2intrigued: Time does heal all eventually but the scars keep the memory alive


A memory doesn't have to be painful.
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Dec 4, 2010 10:13 PM CST Time does heal all.
cinderella77
cinderella77cinderella77saintfield, Down Ireland77 Posts
it is true that time heals all wounds......the rebound ppl who get caught in the healing process however are just casualties of war im afraid.....been there done that and broke a few hearts in the process which im not particularly proud of....but then again i dont actually regret either....SUE ME! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



hmmm hole
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Dec 5, 2010 12:05 AM CST Time does heal all.
Sweet_Cherry
Sweet_CherrySweet_CherryMarysville, Michigan USA21 Posts
paws4: If you use the time wisely to recover from a broken heart, you can move on and with very little baggage. It takes 1 year for every 5 years that you were in a relationship, to heal. Some choose to hang on to the negative feelings forever, it's a slow poison that will affect you and your next relationship.

I say this from experience. 10 years ago I was devastated, but chose to feel the pain in its every aspect. By facing the pain head on, every hour, week, month and year became a little easier. You can't side-step, bury, put-off or repress a broken heart.

If you're in pain; feel it, make friends with it. It will dissolve over time.



hug I wouldn't necessarily put a time limit on the healing process, but you are right, if you face it, it does go away with time, and sometimes, you can even begin to laugh about it.uh oh I'm not quite laughing yet, but I feel the giggles starting to bubble up insideteddybear
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Dec 5, 2010 12:09 AM CST Time does heal all.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
Sweet_Cherry: I wouldn't necessarily put a time limit on the healing process, but you are right, if you face it, it does go away with time, and sometimes, you can even begin to laugh about it. I'm not quite laughing yet, but I feel the giggles starting to bubble up inside


Yes. When my sense of humour returned, I knew I was on my way.
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Dec 5, 2010 12:11 AM CST Time does heal all.
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
paws4: If you use the time wisely to recover from a broken heart, you can move on and with very little baggage. It takes 1 year for every 5 years that you were in a relationship, to heal. Some choose to hang on to the negative feelings forever, it's a slow poison that will affect you and your next relationship.

I say this from experience. 10 years ago I was devastated, but chose to feel the pain in its every aspect. By facing the pain head on, every hour, week, month and year became a little easier. You can't side-step, bury, put-off or repress a broken heart.

If you're in pain; feel it, make friends with it. It will dissolve over time.


Sometimes not easy to heal the pain but its has too. cos your life not always feel how suffer of your life cos the pain but it has to move on.
I need over 10 year the heal that pain.

Btw good post & thanks for share it thumbs up
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Dec 5, 2010 12:14 AM CST Time does heal all.
Sweet_Cherry
Sweet_CherrySweet_CherryMarysville, Michigan USA21 Posts
paws4: Yes. When my sense of humour returned, I knew I was on my way.



cheers Cheers to that!teddybear
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Dec 5, 2010 12:19 AM CST Time does heal all.
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada3 Threads 869 Posts
I healed a long time ago, but I am afraid my children (though they are adults) might be a little sad.sigh
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Dec 5, 2010 12:25 AM CST Time does heal all.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
Christmas1: I healed a long time ago, but I am afraid my children (though they are adults) might be a little sad.


That is also my concern.
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