As a man you need to go after them......read the profile and write a respectable mssg that mentions something you read(proof of effort) and don't fill it with tons of compliments....seems fake.
The ones that like the mssg will read your profile - the ones that like your profile will reply......
NCC1968: As a man you need to go after them......read the profile and write a respectable mssg that mentions something you read(proof of effort) and don't fill it with tons of compliments....seems fake.
The ones that like the mssg will read your profile - the ones that like your profile will reply......
4Less: how do you start relating to a person online.
Be yourself - there is no one else better qualified. Be genuine and show that you have read their profile. Comment as to why you approached or wrote them. Don't get all gushy with "babe" and comments such as that - because personally I want those comments to come from someone who has bothered to get to know me first.
Give a brief bio of what you desire and PLEASE do not give a phone number, outside email address to correspond. You are a perfect stranger so just as if you would approach someone in real life, there are steps to take in order for people to feel comfortable.
I personally look for someone to be interested in me, ask questions, gives info about themselves as well. Its simply sharing, and I tend to stay away from those who simply talk at me. That to me is not showing interest. Hopefully you've gotten some good ideas and good luck with your search.
SaucyAsSomewhere in, Marlborough New Zealand723 posts
langleygirl: Be yourself - there is no one else better qualified. Be genuine and show that you have read their profile. Comment as to why you approached or wrote them. Don't get all gushy with "babe" and comments such as that - because personally I want those comments to come from someone who has bothered to get to know me first.
Give a brief bio of what you desire and PLEASE do not give a phone number, outside email address to correspond. You are a perfect stranger so just as if you would approach someone in real life, there are steps to take in order for people to feel comfortable.
I personally look for someone to be interested in me, ask questions, gives info about themselves as well. Its simply sharing, and I tend to stay away from those who simply talk at me. That to me is not showing interest. Hopefully you've gotten some good ideas and good luck with your search.
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