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Dec 7, 2010 12:35 AM CST ok a relating thread
4Less
4Less4Lessidaho falls, Idaho USA6 Threads 7 Posts
how do you start relating to a person online.
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Dec 7, 2010 12:39 AM CST ok a relating thread
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
4Less: how do you start relating to a person online.



Just like I would as if I were face - face....Not sure exactly what you mean by relating...
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Dec 7, 2010 12:44 AM CST ok a relating thread
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Know who you are and what you want and stick to it....

You seem to have done that in your profile... so just be yourself. beer
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Dec 7, 2010 12:47 AM CST ok a relating thread
NCC1968
NCC1968NCC1968Van Nuys, California USA3 Threads 3 Polls 839 Posts
As a man you need to go after them......read the profile and write a respectable mssg that mentions something you read(proof of effort) and don't fill it with tons of compliments....seems fake.

The ones that like the mssg will read your profile - the ones that like your profile will reply......

....go from there.




EASY
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Dec 7, 2010 12:48 AM CST ok a relating thread
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
hello less, wave

grin angel
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Dec 7, 2010 12:51 AM CST ok a relating thread
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
NCC1968: As a man you need to go after them......read the profile and write a respectable mssg that mentions something you read(proof of effort) and don't fill it with tons of compliments....seems fake.

The ones that like the mssg will read your profile - the ones that like your profile will reply......

....go from there.

EASY


Absolutely right on thumbs up
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Dec 7, 2010 1:13 AM CST ok a relating thread
NCC1968
NCC1968NCC1968Van Nuys, California USA3 Threads 3 Polls 839 Posts
AND.......


.....you may have better luck w/ forum posters and women that have been online w/i a week...



2cents worth - the other part was pricelesslaugh
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Dec 7, 2010 1:21 AM CST ok a relating thread
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
4Less: how do you start relating to a person online.


Be yourself - there is no one else better qualified. Be genuine and show that you have read their profile. Comment as to why you approached or wrote them. Don't get all gushy with "babe" and comments such as that - because personally I want those comments to come from someone who has bothered to get to know me first.

Give a brief bio of what you desire and PLEASE do not give a phone number, outside email address to correspond. You are a perfect stranger so just as if you would approach someone in real life, there are steps to take in order for people to feel comfortable.

I personally look for someone to be interested in me, ask questions, gives info about themselves as well. Its simply sharing, and I tend to stay away from those who simply talk at me. That to me is not showing interest. Hopefully you've gotten some good ideas and good luck with your search.
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Dec 7, 2010 1:26 AM CST ok a relating thread
MetalgirlPlush
MetalgirlPlushMetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA15 Threads 875 Posts
4Less: how do you start relating to a person online.
I think you would say Hi for starters ,loldoh
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Dec 7, 2010 1:26 AM CST ok a relating thread
SaucyAs
SaucyAsSaucyAsSomewhere in, Marlborough New Zealand1 Threads 723 Posts
langleygirl: Be yourself - there is no one else better qualified. Be genuine and show that you have read their profile. Comment as to why you approached or wrote them. Don't get all gushy with "babe" and comments such as that - because personally I want those comments to come from someone who has bothered to get to know me first.

Give a brief bio of what you desire and PLEASE do not give a phone number, outside email address to correspond. You are a perfect stranger so just as if you would approach someone in real life, there are steps to take in order for people to feel comfortable.

I personally look for someone to be interested in me, ask questions, gives info about themselves as well. Its simply sharing, and I tend to stay away from those who simply talk at me. That to me is not showing interest. Hopefully you've gotten some good ideas and good luck with your search.


That's good advice, can I use it too.? uh oh
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Dec 7, 2010 1:33 AM CST ok a relating thread
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
SaucyAs: That's good advice, can I use it too.?
Hey, if it works for you - why not! Good luck.
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Dec 7, 2010 1:34 AM CST ok a relating thread
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
langleygirl: Hey, if it works for you - why not! Good luck.



Can I call you babe?grin laugh


wave
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Dec 7, 2010 1:36 AM CST ok a relating thread
SaucyAs
SaucyAsSaucyAsSomewhere in, Marlborough New Zealand1 Threads 723 Posts
langleygirl: Hey, if it works for you - why not! Good luck.


Thanks, I think.dunno
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Dec 7, 2010 1:36 AM CST ok a relating thread
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
kidatheart: Can I call you babe?
LOL ..... Mr. H I'd have to think about that! Depends on how much cake or pie you bring when you'd come to visit! laugh
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Dec 7, 2010 1:36 AM CST ok a relating thread
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
SaucyAs: Thanks, I think.
What's the confusion? confused
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Dec 7, 2010 1:39 AM CST ok a relating thread
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
langleygirl: LOL ..... Mr. H I'd have to think about that! Depends on how much cake or pie you bring when you'd come to visit!


Thought you were doing the baking?confused Or was that just wishful thinking?laugh
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Dec 7, 2010 1:42 AM CST ok a relating thread
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
kidatheart: Thought you were doing the baking? Or was that just wishful thinking?
Thought we were baking together and you were doing the dishes?????? lol I'd take a store bought cake/pie too - I'm easy! My fork is ready! wine
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Dec 7, 2010 1:43 AM CST ok a relating thread
SaucyAs
SaucyAsSaucyAsSomewhere in, Marlborough New Zealand1 Threads 723 Posts
langleygirl: What's the confusion?


No confusion, just a bit mew to all this. Need all the help I can get.
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Dec 7, 2010 1:44 AM CST ok a relating thread
SaucyAs
SaucyAsSaucyAsSomewhere in, Marlborough New Zealand1 Threads 723 Posts
SaucyAs: No confusion, just a bit mew to all this. Need all the help I can get.


blushing new.
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Dec 7, 2010 1:46 AM CST ok a relating thread
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
talk to them, lots of patience, understanding.. an open mindcool
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