Winking on dating sites (70)
waverider....... i was too gobsmacked to reply to you before
"why should they be gratefull?????.......because some stranger sent them a flower on a datin site????....really....."
its nothing to do with being grateful
but more about GOOD MANNERS,if someone takes the time to look at and read your profile then makes contact it is only polite to thank them, it doesnt mean you have to keep in touch, arrange to meet or commit to the guy(or girl), I have had many 'flowers' from lots of people who for one reason or another are not quite right for me, however, i always say thank you.the only time i do not reply is when a message is offensive in anyway.
if your not sure what
etiquette is then i suggest you Google it and find out.. i will give you a few lessons if you wish.
please do not bother trying to reply to me with some 'smart' pt 'rude' reply as i will not answer you, nor take any notice as i have no desire to start 'cyber' slanging matches on here.. good honest debates yes, but insult swapping NO THANK YOU
"why should they be gratefull?????.......because some stranger sent them a flower on a datin site????....really....."
its nothing to do with being grateful
but more about GOOD MANNERS,if someone takes the time to look at and read your profile then makes contact it is only polite to thank them, it doesnt mean you have to keep in touch, arrange to meet or commit to the guy(or girl), I have had many 'flowers' from lots of people who for one reason or another are not quite right for me, however, i always say thank you.the only time i do not reply is when a message is offensive in anyway.
if your not sure what
etiquette is then i suggest you Google it and find out.. i will give you a few lessons if you wish.
please do not bother trying to reply to me with some 'smart' pt 'rude' reply as i will not answer you, nor take any notice as i have no desire to start 'cyber' slanging matches on here.. good honest debates yes, but insult swapping NO THANK YOU
What are you talking about little boy? It's not even worth replying to you.
Oh, and I am NOT A KID!
Grrrr....Why do people like that even bother writing to forums?
Oh, and I am NOT A KID!
Grrrr....Why do people like that even bother writing to forums?
Thanks for your support with that idiot Siren and Ickle. 
when women flower me, i will always flower them back with a thank you for the flower"s message, even though i am not going to write to them again, i think it is just good manner"s....
Same here. I don't even mind if a women doesn't reply to a wink. My objection, and my point at the start of this thread, was how some women will automatically ignore you simply because you've winked, and they are so full of themselves that they even tell you they'll do that in their profile. That makes no sense to me. So in other words they want you to make an effort to write to them properly, even though there's not much chance they'll be interested anyway. I bet it's those same women who don't reply to say "no thanks" even when someone does write a proper message to them.
personally i would rather write a brief message to anyone i am
interested in, it is far more personal, it show"s a bit of effort,
after all to send someone a wink is just one lazy click of the mouse...
interested in, it is far more personal, it show"s a bit of effort,
after all to send someone a wink is just one lazy click of the mouse...
I understand where you're coming from, but the way I see it is that I could spend hours going through writing to lots of people, all for nothing. If I wink first, then they can wink if they're interested, then I'll take the time to write properly. So I don't see it as a lazy click, but more a logical way to see who's interested. Sometimes I do send proper messages to people, but then I barely ever get a reply, not even a 'no thanks', so then I wonder why I bother.
My other point is that if I just got a wink, I'd be very flattered, rather than feeling hard done by because someone couldn't be bothered to write to me.
My other point is that if I just got a wink, I'd be very flattered, rather than feeling hard done by because someone couldn't be bothered to write to me.
what am i talkin about zedy boy.....i think thats clear.....
you are old enough.....to understand.....that when a woman doesnt want you.....she just doesnt......
and she doesnt have to explain it to you either......you see.....when you approach a woman in public......and she .....has no interest......she just ignores you.....and walks off.....
thats exactly what happens here on this site.......
if they ignore you.....they dont want you....
but you seem to think.....that they should jump up and down.....and scream....YES....YES....YES....zedy sent me a rose.......
...i dont think so........you need to get a reality check......
so you see.....you must be a kid....because a man would understand this.....but you dont...
no need to send me a rose.....its my pleasure...
you are old enough.....to understand.....that when a woman doesnt want you.....she just doesnt......
and she doesnt have to explain it to you either......you see.....when you approach a woman in public......and she .....has no interest......she just ignores you.....and walks off.....
thats exactly what happens here on this site.......
if they ignore you.....they dont want you....
but you seem to think.....that they should jump up and down.....and scream....YES....YES....YES....zedy sent me a rose.......
...i dont think so........you need to get a reality check......so you see.....you must be a kid....because a man would understand this.....but you dont...
no need to send me a rose.....its my pleasure...
waverider if your tring to become the forum bad boy dont waste your time we already have one, the seld-confessed bad boy, who works very hard for the title is stu..bless him
Yet again you have misunderstood what I'm saying. You really don't get my point at all. You're obviously too immature to even want to try and understand me. You seem like the sort of idiot who simply wants to cause arguments but you don't actually have a point to make.
If personal insults such as calling me a kid and referring to me as "zedy boy" is your only way to respond, then you're just showing how immature you are so YOU are the kid, not me.
By the way, you'll find that everyone else on these forums will agree with me, and I can say that with confidence. Test that if you like, you're very welcome to.
So in fact, after thinking about it more, I actually feel sorry for you because you clearly have problems. You think that having digs at strangers is a way to help yourself feel better, but you'll find that it doesn't work long-term. I can't suggest an organisation that's appropriate for you but I'm sure they exist somewhere.
So allI can say is good luck in the future, and when you're feeling like you're capable of mixing with mature adults again, please feel free to come back to me and apologise, and I promise not to hold a grudge.
If personal insults such as calling me a kid and referring to me as "zedy boy" is your only way to respond, then you're just showing how immature you are so YOU are the kid, not me.
By the way, you'll find that everyone else on these forums will agree with me, and I can say that with confidence. Test that if you like, you're very welcome to.
So in fact, after thinking about it more, I actually feel sorry for you because you clearly have problems. You think that having digs at strangers is a way to help yourself feel better, but you'll find that it doesn't work long-term. I can't suggest an organisation that's appropriate for you but I'm sure they exist somewhere.
So allI can say is good luck in the future, and when you're feeling like you're capable of mixing with mature adults again, please feel free to come back to me and apologise, and I promise not to hold a grudge.
Yo dude where did you get that hat...
Come on leave our zeddy alone, hes a good egg and we all like him.
Come on leave our zeddy alone, hes a good egg and we all like him.
Thanks dude, I appreciate that. I've done something about him now anyway so he can write whatever he likes, I've seen through him and won't let him bother me anymore. :) 
Did you chuck another wave on the barbie, pucka mate.........
I sure did. I'm not sure what you mean but I'm sure I probably did it anyway!
did they mean winking or w*nking lol 
Its bringing in some winkers though........
defintly babe
does that make me one..........
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