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Dec 16, 2010 3:43 PM CST Is it better
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
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Dec 16, 2010 3:44 PM CST Is it better
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
epicure: to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?



Absolutely.

The beautiful memories remain after the pain has passed.
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Dec 16, 2010 3:46 PM CST Is it better
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
I agree with Tennyson professor
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Dec 16, 2010 3:50 PM CST Is it better
iamwhoiamyousee
iamwhoiamyouseeiamwhoiamyouseeanywhere, Bavaria Germany18 Threads 2 Polls 962 Posts
epicure: to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?


now for some people that is true I think and for others not..
because I have run into people who even after a decade still have not gotten over a break up and they still feel miserable..

so I guess if a person has the tendency to regret things they have done..not having loved would be better...but that is just my opinion..
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Dec 16, 2010 3:50 PM CST Is it better
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: I agree with Tennyson
Who's he?
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Dec 16, 2010 3:50 PM CST Is it better
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
PandoraX: Absolutely.

The beautiful memories remain after the pain has passed.


thumbs up thumbs up

Also, you never have the 'what if...' thoughts.
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Dec 16, 2010 3:50 PM CST Is it better
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I guess it depends on the love and the loss. dunno
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Dec 16, 2010 3:50 PM CST Is it better
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
epicure: to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?


Yeah, but don't ever say that to the girl you're breaking up with...

(...my ex did) doh
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Dec 16, 2010 3:52 PM CST Is it better
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
I will answer if i ever fall in love,then lose her.
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Dec 16, 2010 3:52 PM CST Is it better
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
epicure: Who's he?

The guy who said: It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. doh
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Dec 16, 2010 3:52 PM CST Is it better
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
invinciblemuse: Yeah, but don't ever say that to the girl you're breaking up with...

(...my ex did)
sorry to remind u
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Dec 16, 2010 3:53 PM CST Is it better
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
cynicalorange: Also, you never have the 'what if...' thoughts.



The one kind of regret I find it hardest to live with is the regret of not daring to try for something I want. If I fail, fine. It's the what if's that scar your soul.
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Dec 16, 2010 3:53 PM CST Is it better
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
pierrot_le_fou: The guy who said: It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.
Ohhh Had someone sad this before me?laugh
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Dec 16, 2010 3:53 PM CST Is it better
tightboxers
tightboxerstightboxersbrighton, West Sussex, England UK6 Threads 650 Posts
epicure: to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?

I think so.
Without experience your growth as an individual is stiffled.
However,so many make the mistake of never really learning from it.
Way too shallow in our preferences me thinks.
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Dec 16, 2010 3:55 PM CST Is it better
tightboxers
tightboxerstightboxersbrighton, West Sussex, England UK6 Threads 650 Posts
PandoraX: The one kind of regret I find it hardest to live with is the regret of not daring to try for something I want. If I fail, fine. It's the what if's that scar your soul.

Go on.Admit it.You want to send me a ticket over for a few portions of my finest!
wink
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Dec 16, 2010 3:56 PM CST Is it better
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
epicure: sorry to remind u


No worries, it makes me laugh now... grin
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Dec 16, 2010 3:57 PM CST Is it better
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
tightboxers: Go on.Admit it.You want to send me a ticket over for a few portions of my finest!



Ummmm, did you forget to take your medication again? wow

rolling on the floor laughing wave rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 16, 2010 3:57 PM CST Is it better
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
tightboxers: Go on.Admit it.You want to send me a ticket over for a few portions of my finest!


You've got cherry cheesecake?? yay yay
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Dec 16, 2010 4:00 PM CST Is it better
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
invinciblemuse: No worries, it makes me laugh now...
u're a good girl but u don't eat celery

u don't have to eat

if u cook that's ok toolaugh
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Dec 16, 2010 4:04 PM CST Is it better
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Yes i believe it is better to love,
Can you imagine going through life not knowing what being in love feels like?
Sometimes things will end badly, but it cant take away that feeling of being so happy. I would gladly take the bad to experience the good.
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