lilalia11: among many of my male friends from the West...their ladies are the boss,even if they don't do right things,being unfaithful,cheatin with their best friends behind their backs(N MEN FORGIVIN EM OVER N OVER AGAIN!!!),or refusing to have children proclaimng their jobs are more important thing in life,not cookin and sleepin peacefully at nights while their husbands ' r feedin babies late nights...runnin early in the morning to their offices to gain money for their families and comin back home with no dinner on their tables....and so on n on
Maybe the reason why men cheat and cheat more and more?? And women too??
PandoraX: Ooooh.... so this is why I don't get as many men trying to pick me up in bars as a lot of women do... that and the fact that I might be intimidating because I don't look or play dumb. I don't do that.. don't accept drinks from just anyone either.
Which is why when a guy who's interesting actually does approach me, he'll end up spending less money on alcohol (because I am sooooo not getting drunk) and more time on having an entertaining and interesting conversation with moi.
englishelegance: RD You know thats not true, you had a mom that was home for you....
As long as someone is at home, that is the important thing...
If my wife had been highly paid I would have done the domestic and child raising part. We kind of did anyway to some degree as she worked part time and my hours were flexible.
tomcatwarne: I agree with you and it is a problem which is out of control. In England prviously, the family was predominant: Chlidren had their mother and fathet, but also grandparents, uncles and aunts, and cousins to turn to. With the break up of the family sytem, a system which was beneficial to all, we now have feminist screaming for their rights, children left without proper familial support. Single parent families, more drug and crime ridden slums, a change for the better?????
englishelegance: And that sadly sweetie is TODAYS woman........ My boys used to say to me whilst on the scene ...."Mom, unless you drive a Farari, have loads in the bank, and your dad is minted NO girls wants to know!!!".... I would say to them at that young tender age of 17...... "You dont want THAT sort of girl...she cant cook, she looks orange, and you will never know where she is for the night"...Needless to say they listened and both are with homemaker "Stunners"...
RDM59: As long as someone is at home, that is the important thing...
If my wife had been highly paid I would have done the domestic and child raising part. We kind of did anyway to some degree as she worked part time and my hours were flexible.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
RDM59: As long as someone is at home, that is the important thing...
If my wife had been highly paid I would have done the domestic and child raising part. We kind of did anyway to some degree as she worked part time and my hours were flexible.
Yes RD,.. I was the same, had 7 years off with my boys till they were both at school, me and ex struggled but we both agreed that that is where a woman shoul be...with her babies. Material things just never came into it....
englishelegance: Yes RD,.. I was the same, had 7 years off with my boys till they were both at school, me and ex struggled but we both agreed that that is where a woman shoul be...with her babies. Material things just never came into it....
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Maybe the reason why men cheat and cheat more and more?? And women too??