Who is a friend? (37)

Dec 30, 2010 6:13 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
Hi guys

This is my first thread so be gentle with me. Only been here for a few weeks but thought i had made some good friends, talked every day, good craic etc. Feeling really low tonight so needed them to cheer me up. They r online but not replying to my msg (not hassling them, only 1 msg each asking did they want to talk). Is there anyway of knowing who is sincere, or is it just the luck of the draw?
Dec 30, 2010 6:14 PM CST Who is a friend?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Geri11: Hi guys

This is my first thread so be gentle with me. Only been here for a few weeks but thought i had made some good friends, talked every day, good craic etc. Feeling really low tonight so needed them to cheer me up. They r online but not replying to my msg (not hassling them, only 1 msg each asking did they want to talk). Is there anyway of knowing who is sincere, or is it just the luck of the draw?


come here for a cuddle girlie....teddybear teddybear teddybear


skinny and the gang shall be along for cuddles shortly....
Dec 30, 2010 6:15 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
Neenaw: come here for a cuddle girlie.... skinny and the gang shall be along for cuddles shortly....


Would luv a cuddle. Thanks
Dec 30, 2010 6:17 PM CST Who is a friend?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Geri11: Would luv a cuddle. Thanks


dont be sad girl, are you talking about frinds online or actual real fiends?
Dec 30, 2010 6:18 PM CST Who is a friend?
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
Geri11: Hi guys

This is my first thread so be gentle with me. Only been here for a few weeks but thought i had made some good friends, talked every day, good craic etc. Feeling really low tonight so needed them to cheer me up. They r online but not replying to my msg (not hassling them, only 1 msg each asking did they want to talk). Is there anyway of knowing who is sincere, or is it just the luck of the draw?


Its not luck, its trial and error. But believe me there are plenty of good friends to be made here. Some truly remarkable and wonderful people to be met. Including herself above me! wave
Dec 30, 2010 6:19 PM CST Who is a friend?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Hi Geri cswelcome

Maybe they have just left their comp on and have not got message dunno

Either way there are no hard and fast rules really. It can be more difficult in this medium to suss out who is more genuine than others.

Either way heres a few hugs hug hug hug

Hope your feeling better soon.

Vinny
Dec 30, 2010 6:19 PM CST Who is a friend?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
skyblue43: Its not luck, its trial and error. But believe me there are plenty of good friends to be made here. Some truly remarkable and wonderful people to be met. Including herself above me!



thanks shuga......
Dec 30, 2010 6:20 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
Neenaw: dont be sad girl, are you talking about frinds online or actual real fiends?


Friends online...don't have any real close friends so this has been my lifeline lately conversing
Dec 30, 2010 6:20 PM CST Who is a friend?
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
There are friends and friends. Having a bit of craic with someone doesn't mean they will necessarily be able to help when you're really down. We all have different experiences. Some people are good at 'talking' some aren't. It doesn't make anyone good or bad. But plenty of good listeners here and people you can talk to. I hope it's not too serious and here's a virtual hug for you.hug
Dec 30, 2010 6:21 PM CST Who is a friend?
VodkaDrinker
VodkaDrinkerVodkaDrinkerEnnis, Clare Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 300 Posts
Geri11: Hi guys

This is my first thread so be gentle with me. Only been here for a few weeks but thought i had made some good friends, talked every day, good craic etc. Feeling really low tonight so needed them to cheer me up. They r online but not replying to my msg (not hassling them, only 1 msg each asking did they want to talk). Is there anyway of knowing who is sincere, or is it just the luck of the draw?


Its just like real life, You have snakes everywhere
beware of the people who are over friendly, they are the ones who are most Disingenuous
Dec 30, 2010 6:22 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
Thanks for the hugs guys teddybear
Dec 30, 2010 6:23 PM CST Who is a friend?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Geri11: Friends online...don't have any real close friends so this has been my lifeline lately


well now have have some more firnds girl, give it time and you shall have loads, stick with the forums, its a great way to get to know people....
Dec 30, 2010 6:23 PM CST Who is a friend?
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
Hi Geri

Maybe they have just left their comp on and have not got message

Either way there are no hard and fast rules really. It can be more difficult in this medium to suss out who is more genuine than others.

Either way heres a few hugs

Hope your feeling better soon.

Vinny[/quote

Hiya Vinny honeywave I was going to say the same about leaving the computer on. I do that all the timedoh hug

Hiya Geriwave welcome to the mad house, it sure helps if you are mad and have a great sense of humour. Now as for feeling sad well a few hours hanging around here will soon lift that feeling.comfort

heres a hug hug
Dec 30, 2010 6:24 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
scriobhneoir: There are friends and friends. Having a bit of craic with someone doesn't mean they will necessarily be able to help when you're really down. We all have different experiences. Some people are good at 'talking' some aren't. It doesn't make anyone good or bad. But plenty of good listeners here and people you can talk to. I hope it's not too serious and here's a virtual hug for you.


Lovin all the hugs, and no, not serious, just old baggage....
Dec 30, 2010 6:26 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
Feelin better already...u guys r the bizz cheering don't know how u all keep up to date tho, this forum craic is hard work laugh laugh
Dec 30, 2010 6:26 PM CST Who is a friend?
Neenaw: well now have have some more firnds girl, give it time and you shall have loads, stick with the forums, its a great way to get to know people....



To be honest you can be disappointed by people on here sometimes too, just like real life. Stick with it and it'll work out though!wave
Dec 30, 2010 6:30 PM CST Who is a friend?
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
Welcome ......wave One bit of advice I'd give ya go to the meets ...whether its a breakfast meet or the one coming up in Louth ,you meet genuine people there.... yay
Dec 30, 2010 6:33 PM CST Who is a friend?
Geri11
Geri11Geri11Donegal, Ireland5 Threads 267 Posts
boredguy: Welcome ...... One bit of advice I'd give ya go to the meets ...whether its a breakfast meet or the one coming up in Louth ,you meet genuine people there....


Thanks for that. was thinking about Louth meet, might just do it...
Dec 30, 2010 6:34 PM CST Who is a friend?
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
Geri11: Thanks for that. was thinking about Louth meet, might just do it...


Take the plunge! applause
Dec 30, 2010 6:36 PM CST Who is a friend?
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
Don't think about it ....doh Just do it.........grin
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