sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
justy27: If you forget.....it will happen again...
You will never learn...
hi jus
I cant say I agree with you .
To truly forgave a person is to forget as well. Atleast that's how I see it. How can you forgave and not forget what that person has done . It calls for total relinquishing of any resentment or anger you may feel for that person and I agree, its not an easy thing to do but its the only way we can learn from what happened to be able to move on.
ididitmyway1: depends on the "crime" ......if i could forgive but not forget, then i would end up miserable ..........if i could forget but not forgive, then i would end up a flashback amnesiac with issues soooo.....either forgive AND forget.....or just move on to the next hot totty
ididitmyway1: depends on the "crime" ......if i could forgive but not forget, then i would end up miserable ..........if i could forget but not forgive, then i would end up a flashback amnesiac with issues soooo.....either forgive AND forget.....or just move on to the next hot totty
joelle2107: do you? or just forgive but can't forget?
I have always been told by a very wise Sunday School Teacher, that if U have not forgotten then U have not forgiven....If when the memory of the incident causes U pain, then forgiveness has not taken place. Once U have truly forgiven a person, God will take away the pain...Always sounded bout right to me....sighhhh
I dont think the forget really means forget! I think it means forgive and dont hold it against the wrongdoer! like keep bringing up what someone has done wrong after u forgive them
sultryash: hi jus
I cant say I agree with you .
To truly forgave a person is to forget as well. Atleast that's how I see it. How can you forgave and not forget what that person has done . It calls for total relinquishing of any resentment or anger you may feel for that person and I agree, its not an easy thing to do but its the only way we can learn from what happened to be able to move on.
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