Finding someone (62)
Antjo39: Is it finding someone to love the biggest achievement?
Personally I think there is a lot of confusion about that. Too much invested usually for just a bloody lottery.
Personally I think there is a lot of confusion about that. Too much invested usually for just a bloody lottery.
Well, if there was a logical, scientific approach to it, it would be pretty boring, wouldn´t it!
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invinciblemuse: Well, if there was a logical, scientific approach to it, it would be pretty boring, wouldn´t it!
I never thought of it. 
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nope,i gave up on that.It takes chemistry and attraction,how can you tell on line...i am here for the forums,if i happen to meet someone along the way that's great,if not no big deal,life is and adventure worth living every day to the fullest.
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demonfairy: nope,i gave up on that.It takes chemistry and attraction,how can you tell on line...i am here for the forums,if i happen to meet someone along the way that's great,if not no big deal,life is and adventure worth living every day to the fullest.
Yes. Actually I had in mind when I posted this. It seems there is an excessive fixation in finding a partner in many people, when life is open and there are many good thigns we can fulfill just to live life to the fullest. And maybe, but just maybe, after achieving other things that make us feel more stable, we can achieve love. ------ This thread is Archived ------
demonfairy: nope,i gave up on that.It takes chemistry and attraction,how can you tell on line...i am here for the forums,if i happen to meet someone along the way that's great,if not no big deal,life is and adventure worth living every day to the fullest.
How have you been ? how were your holidays
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gemeh22: How have you been ? how were your holidays
I love the holidays ,but i am glad when their over,alls good here,how about you,haven't seen you much. ------ This thread is Archived ------
Hay gem, hows it going, We have another snow storm coming threw. did you survive that last one that blew from here down to you.
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Antjo39: Yes. Actually I had in mind when I posted this. It seems there is an excessive fixation in finding a partner in many people, when life is open and there are many good thigns we can fulfill just to live life to the fullest. And maybe, but just maybe, after achieving other things that make us feel more stable, we can achieve love.
That's what I'm working on. Enjoying my life (with or without a partner) ... discovering new things about myself, learning to be more loving to me, and I'm also working on establishing more friendships. A partner/spouse would be the bonus but one can certainly have a fulfilling life regardless of that occurring.------ This thread is Archived ------
langleygirl: That's what I'm working on. Enjoying my life (with or without a partner) ... discovering new things about myself, learning to be more loving to me, and I'm also working on establishing more friendships. A partner/spouse would be the bonus but one can certainly have a fulfilling life regardless of that occurring.
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langleygirl: That's what I'm working on. Enjoying my life (with or without a partner) ... discovering new things about myself, learning to be more loving to me, and I'm also working on establishing more friendships. A partner/spouse would be the bonus but one can certainly have a fulfilling life regardless of that occurring.
I agree, and enjoy life too, but isn't it so much better to share with someone. Whatever people say about being happy alone, we humans are designed for being WITH other humans, that is my experience anyway
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tomcatwarne: I agree, and enjoy life too, but isn't it so much better to share with someone. Whatever people say about being happy alone, we humans are designed for being WITH other humans, that is my experience anyway
Of course, and hopefully by networking I'll find some wonderful man to share my life with, but I'm not letting the lack of his presence in my life now, determine my level of happiness. I'm learning to be content, either way.------ This thread is Archived ------
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langleygirl: That's what I'm working on. Enjoying my life (with or without a partner) ... discovering new things about myself, learning to be more loving to me, and I'm also working on establishing more friendships. A partner/spouse would be the bonus but one can certainly have a fulfilling life regardless of that occurring.
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I admit it was easier to find a male when I was young and pretty. Now it is hard as there are too many males for the number of females here. I wish I had a magic wond.
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ellibab: I admit it was easier to find a male when I was young and pretty. Now it is hard as there are too many males for the number of females here. I wish I had a magic wond.
o come on...i am in my early 70's and i still think i will soon find a gorgeous and sweet woman to love me. so don't worry about ur age at all. who knows we can hook up with other and make a great couple
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mnowsa: o come on...i am in my early 70's and i still think i will soon find a gorgeous and sweet woman to love me. so don't worry about ur age at all. who knows we can hook up with other and make a great couple
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hw can u tell, anyway if i get 2 hook up i will luv it
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invinciblemuse:
oh..sorry...my profile says i a bit younger than that. my bad....it was just a mistake
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mnowsa: oh..sorry...my profile says i a bit younger than that. my bad....it was just a mistake
so you are 80
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Personally I think there is a lot of confusion about that. Too much invested usually for just a bloody lottery.