Possessiveness in a Relationship? ( Archived) (102)

Jan 25, 2011 10:08 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
time4fun4u: you would do as you were told!



rolling on the floor laughing So would you.doh Or would that be without being told.laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:08 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
demonfairy: You wish all us ladies would attack you,you would love it,i can see the smile on your face now,i can hear you saying come and get it ladys
Morning Amity


oui...how dare u not willing to play my game!?tongue rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:08 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Ccincy: So would you. Or would that be without being told.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave bouquet
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:09 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
Anelenav
AnelenavAnelenavKaunas, Aukštaitija Lithuania235 Posts
Personaly, I admire TIH relationship and believe in traditional gender roles... but it's not for weak-heared men or control freak women. Everyone has their own likings and I respect that. professor
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:09 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
demonfairy: I remember those hickey days.... Wouldn't mind getting another one where no one could see it


In the wardrobe???? confused
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:10 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
illu_66: Hi DF!

We all voluntarily give up some independence when we are in a relationship. I kinda like the joint sharing of control in that way.

Because of this, there is ALWAYS going to be SOME possessiveness, in both directions. The "He's mine/She's mine" thing.

Mostly, for me, that is a mental frame of mind. Happy in the thought that I'm "hers" and she's "mine". That knowledge is sufficient. I have no need to give her a visible hickie, or to muscle in on some guy giving her the eye. If she's with ME, then I accept that, and trust accordingly.


Well said I think it goes hand in hand with trust wine teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:10 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Anelenav: Personaly, I admire TIH relationship and believe in traditional gender roles... but it's not for weak-heared men or control freak women. Everyone has their own likings and I respect that.
loltongue wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:10 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: I remember those hickey days.... Wouldn't mind getting another one where no one could see it



uh oh uh oh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:11 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
illu_66: In the wardrobe????
roll eyes rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:11 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
Anelenav
AnelenavAnelenavKaunas, Aukštaitija Lithuania235 Posts
viva007: lol


Is that all you have to say? tongue laugh wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:12 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Buffy327: I live being possessed[/quote

]Everything about indicates u may be possessed............


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:13 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
If a woman possessed me,does it mean all that whip and thigh length boots type of thingy blushing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:13 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Anelenav: Personaly, I admire TIH relationship and believe in traditional gender roles... but it's not for weak-heared men or control freak women. Everyone has their own likings and I respect that.



and i have my own likings tooblushing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:14 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
PandoraX: Nah, it's pretty painless getting down from the pole to walk to the back room...


cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:14 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
mnowsa: i m so not saying anything...i know how u ladies launch the most ruthless group attack on men



You're probably saying to yourself 'Please ladies do posess me.laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:15 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
To what degree does someone cross the line and become overly possessive. Is there such a thing in a relationship as a healthy possessive individual? Do we sometimes confuse possessive with obsessive? Insecurity, trust issues who is to blame? Just to lighten it up...laugh and get back to us.

------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:16 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Anelenav: Is that all you have to say?
am frightened of youuh oh grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:16 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
time4fun4u: If a woman possessed me,does it mean all that whip and thigh length boots type of thingy


Sure I think it would be a good look for you wink
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:17 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
Mountain_Cat
Mountain_CatMountain_Catspringfield, Missouri USA25 Threads 420 Posts
carmaxin: I live being possessed


i can clearly see that rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jan 25, 2011 10:17 AM CST Possessiveness in a Relationship?
ocean78382
ocean78382ocean78382Rockport- Corpus Christi area, Texas USA5 Threads 210 Posts
Jealousy is insecurity. People who are insecure want to pretend its love as to excuse their behavior.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here