Possessiveness in a Relationship? (102)
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Postsdemonfairy: Yea,the ones that accuse you of cheating,are usually the ones that are doing the cheating.Do you think its because they have a guilty concuss.
true. My ex used to taunt me with "is there something you have to tell me?" i just laughed it off and now i know i should have read between the lines because I later learned it was him who had something to say. I wonder what i was doing in psych class when the prof was discussing projection. 
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ebony4you: none............0
Hey Eb! long time no see how are you?
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carmaxin: I live being possessed
and?
does it hurt?
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ebony4you: none............0
good to see you my friend 
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carenza: and?
does it hurt?
does it hurt?
why should it?
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carmaxin: why should it?
don't know....that's why I'm asking.
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In response to: What degree of possessiveness do you think is healthy in a relationship?
i m so not saying anything...i know how u ladies launch the most ruthless group attack on men
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I dont think any form of possessiveness is healthy in any relationship
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plainlyjune: true. My ex used to taunt me with "is there something you have to tell me?" i just laughed it off and now i know i should have read between the lines because I later learned it was him who had something to say. I wonder what i was doing in psych class when the prof was discussing projection.
I think it must be a unwritten law that we have to go threw that once in a life time,
Helps us see the signs the next time i guess
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Amity: I dont think any form of possessiveness is healthy in any relationship
i agree,now get back to the cooking! 
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Hi DF!
We all voluntarily give up some independence when we are in a relationship. I kinda like the joint sharing of control in that way.
Because of this, there is ALWAYS going to be SOME possessiveness, in both directions. The "He's mine/She's mine" thing.
Mostly, for me, that is a mental frame of mind. Happy in the thought that I'm "hers" and she's "mine". That knowledge is sufficient. I have no need to give her a visible hickie, or to muscle in on some guy giving her the eye. If she's with ME, then I accept that, and trust accordingly.
We all voluntarily give up some independence when we are in a relationship. I kinda like the joint sharing of control in that way.
Because of this, there is ALWAYS going to be SOME possessiveness, in both directions. The "He's mine/She's mine" thing.
Mostly, for me, that is a mental frame of mind. Happy in the thought that I'm "hers" and she's "mine". That knowledge is sufficient. I have no need to give her a visible hickie, or to muscle in on some guy giving her the eye. If she's with ME, then I accept that, and trust accordingly.
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time4fun4u: i agree,now get back to the cooking!
git 
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I live being possessed[/quote
]Everything about indicates u may be possessed............ 
]Everything about indicates u may be possessed............
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Amity: git
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In response to: What degree of possessiveness do you think is healthy in a relationship?
None.I wouldn't consider it love.
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mnowsa: i m so not saying anything...i know how u ladies launch the most ruthless group attack on men
You wish all us ladies would attack you,you would love it,i can see the smile on your face now,i can hear you saying come and get it ladys Morning Amity
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Ccincy: None.I wouldn't consider it love.
you would do as you were told!
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carenza: and?
does it hurt? RE: carmaxin: I live being possessed
does it hurt? RE: carmaxin: I live being possessed
Nah, it's pretty painless getting down from the pole to walk to the back room...
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venusenvy: I cant stand it. Its controlling and turns me completely off. Also if someone cant trust me, I know I cant trust them
i agree if you can't trust then don't merry.------ This thread is Archived ------
illu_66: Hi DF!
We all voluntarily give up some independence when we are in a relationship. I kinda like the joint sharing of control in that way.
Because of this, there is ALWAYS going to be SOME possessiveness, in both directions. The "He's mine/She's mine" thing.
Mostly, for me, that is a mental frame of mind. Happy in the thought that I'm "hers" and she's "mine". That knowledge is sufficient. I have no need to give her a visible hickie, or to muscle in on some guy giving her the eye. If she's with ME, then I accept that, and trust accordingly.
We all voluntarily give up some independence when we are in a relationship. I kinda like the joint sharing of control in that way.
Because of this, there is ALWAYS going to be SOME possessiveness, in both directions. The "He's mine/She's mine" thing.
Mostly, for me, that is a mental frame of mind. Happy in the thought that I'm "hers" and she's "mine". That knowledge is sufficient. I have no need to give her a visible hickie, or to muscle in on some guy giving her the eye. If she's with ME, then I accept that, and trust accordingly.
I remember those hickey days.... Wouldn't mind getting another one where no one could see it
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