mnowsa: And the more a woman is jealous, the more she is passionate.
Oh dear... I admire that you think so, but IMO it´s totally naive. A jealous person can totally wreck a good relationship, it´s not harmless at all, if you ask me...
It's hard to find the right words but something like wanting to belong to each other without it being forced. Having the comfort of knowing the other person is there and wanting them to feel the same.
The way you feel when you hold them close even when you are not touching them.
katt1017: It's hard to find the right words but something like wanting to belong to each other without it being forced. Having the comfort of knowing the other person is there and wanting them to feel the same.
The way you feel when you hold them close even when you are not touching them.
what u describe here is a feeling of connecting and not possessing... there is a huuuuge difference in my opinion... one is based on the intention of protecting ourselves from fear and hurt and the other is based on the intention to be open for learning... the choice we have is to allow ourselves to do through LOVE (connecting) or to do through FEAR (possessing) JMO
You have all taken chapter 1 in pycology.. A man or women will find any excuse to do what they wanted to do in the first place Chapter 10 in common sense pycology
Healthy possessive means you love and care. Unhealthy means you want to control. You posess your wife because she wants you to? But she is her own person always. Surrender your sovereignty in love and you both enjoy it?
Why didn't ya tell me you were seeing someone? How long have ya known her? Wotz her name? Do you know where she's been? Lemme check your collar. Wot's that fragrance, cos it ain't yours?
Danny48: Healthy possessive means you love and care. Unhealthy means you want to control. You posess your wife because she wants you to? But she is her own person always. Surrender your sovereignty in love and you both enjoy it?
No-one posseses anyone.
If you love someone, set them free....Even though it hurts.
Danny48: Healthy possessive means you love and care. Unhealthy means you want to control. You posess your wife because she wants you to? But she is her own person always. Surrender your sovereignty in love and you both enjoy it?
daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
demonfairy: What degree of possessiveness do you think is healthy in a relationship?
It depends on who you are dating. I know some couples who don't even know how much money their partner earns. Others I know are totally inseperable in word action and thought.
There's a difference between wanting to be someone's favourite person and wanting to inhabit their every thought and action. A lot of it comes down to self confidence and trust I guess.
Danny48: Healthy possessive means you love and care. Unhealthy means you want to control. You posess your wife because she wants you to? But she is her own person always. Surrender your sovereignty in love and you both enjoy it?
True, but the word "possessive" has that hint on a right to control what you "possess".
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).