when it starts from the woman (of USA), and the man finds her to be of same interests, that is to get a married life. and the relation continues for almost a year through cell phone,facebook and yahoo, as the man and woman live thousands of miles away and are of different culture,race and religion. but both have some feelings for each other. both like to receive emails/phone calls/text from each other. the man is not sure whether its love and a bit scared to ask her. sometimes she also talks about moving out of USA but nothing straight. i think women are very cofusing. both are now silent for more than a week. what does it mean and whats the next step?
JeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA815 posts
arman_khan81: when it starts from the woman (of USA), and the man finds her to be of same interests, that is to get a married life. and the relation continues for almost a year through cell phone,facebook and yahoo, as the man and woman live thousands of miles away and are of different culture,race and religion. but both have some feelings for each other. both like to receive emails/phone calls/text from each other. the man is not sure whether its love and a bit scared to ask her. sometimes she also talks about moving out of USA but nothing straight. i think women are very cofusing. both are now silent for more than a week. what does it mean and whats the next step?
The next step is to meet in person, spend time together face to face. You cannot know someone until you spend real time with them.
Silence is golden and speaks volumes,if she can't maintain regular contact and keep up with her obligations at some point, a person must ask if this is what he/she wants...and does it appear the other person is really pulling their weight here? Not in this case from what I see, maybe time to move on and cut losses..it happens, so sorry.
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