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Feb 8, 2011 8:35 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
plainlyjune: i think the situation is you and your best friend likes the same person. It doesn't say who the person likes.
thumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 8, 2011 8:38 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Rumyet: how can u give up so easily?


It's not giving up....My friends are very important and if they want him, they can go for it....There are plenty more to choose from....That is one battle that I just prefer to avoid....wine wink
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Feb 8, 2011 8:40 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA11 Threads 713 Posts
a duel works betters. May the lucky survive.
chococherrie: let the guy decide who he wants and if she's a real friend she';; accept wotever the outcomes is and still be friends
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Feb 8, 2011 8:42 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
robsantiago15: a duel works betters. May the lucky survive.
i would never fight over a man..im no lady but im too classy for that!snooty
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Feb 8, 2011 8:44 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
Rumyet: thats what we did.good decision.but i m waiting some extra ordinary ideas ideas
well u never said u wanted extraordinary ones? thought u wanted the truth??confused
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Feb 8, 2011 8:57 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
venusenvy: Ummmm...grow up???
Dear Venus, I think it is admirable that you expect a mature approtch here. I also must remind you this is planet Earth and unfortunatly being reasonable is mostly a minority activity. Does seem a shame though . . . .
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Feb 8, 2011 9:00 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Frankinstien: Dear Venus, I think it is admirable that you expect a mature approtch here. I also must remind you this is planet Earth and unfortunatly being reasonable is mostly a minority activity. Does seem a shame though . . . .


How simple and uncomplicated it is to be honest and respect your partner in a relationship hug teddybear
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Feb 8, 2011 9:02 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
faded_dino: It's not giving up....My friends are very important and if they want him, they can go for it....There are plenty more to choose from....That is one battle that I just prefer to avoid....
Hi Dino ! I like your approach. He who fights and runs away, lives to fight another day ! . . . . motorcycle . . . . PS: thanks for the flower ! . . . . bouquet
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Feb 8, 2011 9:04 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
bittersweet28467
bittersweet28467bittersweet28467Calabash, North Carolina USA18 Threads 2 Polls 467 Posts
It's not really up to me is it? I would let the person I loved decide and live with their decision either way. Can't make someone love you if they don't.
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Feb 8, 2011 9:05 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
oly23
oly23oly23Dubai, United Arab Emirates1 Threads 1 Polls 48 Posts
Rumyet: it happens sometimes,and it happened to me twice in my teens and early twenties.but,we found good solution and sorted it out.what would u do?

rolling on the floor laughing
yeah, i also experienced...
and we gave up both..
cuz the friendship was worthier that time omgdoh how wrong i wasrolling on the floor laughing
and cuz we never liked boys who just waited for girls battlescold
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Feb 8, 2011 9:07 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
venusenvy: How simple and uncomplicated it is to be honest and respect your partner in a relationship
Yes I agree, however if we all did that then most of us wouldn't be here . We are all wounded birds in this nest ! . . . comfort
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Feb 8, 2011 9:09 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
faded_dino: It's not giving up....My friends are very important and if they want him, they can go for it....There are plenty more to choose from....That is one battle that I just prefer to avoid....


respect ur opinion.but i think love worht fighting for itgrin wine
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Feb 8, 2011 9:10 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
chococherrie: i would never fight over a man..im no lady but im too classy for that!


I agree CoCo I wouldnt either...how tasteless hug
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Feb 8, 2011 9:12 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
chococherrie: well u never said u wanted extraordinary ones? thought u wanted the truth??


actually i didnt mention it cos i wanted to see if someone would do the same as me.and that was u.

but love to here some funny and interesting solutions too.grin wine
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Feb 8, 2011 9:13 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
robsantiago15: a duel works betters. May the lucky survive.


have u ever heard abt Pushkin?cheers
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Feb 8, 2011 9:22 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
how pity that women dont fight for us anymoreblushing grin
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Feb 8, 2011 9:23 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA11 Threads 713 Posts
Rumyet: have u ever heard abt Pushkin?
not really...cheers
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Feb 8, 2011 9:38 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
well greatest Russian poet.he died in a duelgrin cheers
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Feb 8, 2011 9:48 AM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I'd leave the spoils to the winner.laugh
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Feb 8, 2011 8:44 PM CST what woul u do ,if u and ur best friend were in love with the one same person?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Rumyet: it happens sometimes,and it happened to me twice in my teens and early twenties.but,we found good solution and sorted it out.what would u do?

Nothing at all unless the person indicated to me strongly that they had no interest at all in the other person and only wanted to be with me.It would have to be that they had never dated my friend at all or even given them any hope of a possible relationship.
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