Checking your partner's phone... (35)

Feb 11, 2011 4:18 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??
Feb 11, 2011 4:19 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


TRUE!!!!

That does my head in frustrated
Feb 11, 2011 4:20 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
roseanneah
roseanneahroseanneahcork, Cork Ireland6 Threads 283 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


i would never go through anyones phone but i dont think id care if a fella went through mine,i know i wudnt have anythin to hidegrin
Feb 11, 2011 4:21 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


For me i dont think there is anything wrong in your partner going through your phone or you going through your partner's phone, if you dont have any skeleton in your cupboard then there is no need to be aggressive or mad over it..
Feb 11, 2011 4:21 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
roseanneah: i would never go through anyones phone but i dont think id care if a fella went through mine,i know i wudnt have anythin to hide


thumbs up
Feb 11, 2011 4:22 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
Sativa_Soul
Sativa_SoulSativa_SoulAthlone, Westmeath Ireland30 Threads 669 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


If you dont have anything to hide - then it shouldn't be a problem for them to read it. dunno

The last guy I was dating - we'd swap phones (alot of our contacts being the same) - we saw no issue with who saw what message or anything like that - we had nothing to hide so there was no problem.

If your paranoid and sneaking around to read your partners phone - yeah then you defo have issues for sure - check your own self before you check them thought I think.
Feb 11, 2011 4:22 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
It is wrong ... wrong ... wrong ... the paranoia of the technological age.
Feb 11, 2011 4:30 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
KingLeonidas
KingLeonidasKingLeonidasgalway, Galway Ireland9 Threads 200 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


DEPENDS! are you looking for a cool ringtone? or dirt on your misses? if its the latter you have issues and need dr phil laugh
Feb 11, 2011 7:03 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
forestshaks
forestshaksforestshaksgalway/dublin, Galway Ireland435 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


My fone is like my black book and very personal..I had a girl once who checked my fone after "A WARNING", the next time she did it was the last time i saw her..I don't care what people say it's My Fone and nobody's fone...I never bother with anybody's fone.
Feb 11, 2011 11:16 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
homegnome
homegnomehomegnomeBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand24 Threads 1 Polls 161 Posts
It's like opening someone's letters. That was and is a big no no. Reading someone's text messages is just the same thing.
Feb 12, 2011 3:35 AM CST Checking your partner's phone...
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


It is a sign of insecurity and I aint that insecure cool
Feb 12, 2011 3:37 AM CST Checking your partner's phone...
Eos11
Eos11Eos11Lost in ..., Lincolnshire, England UK24 Threads 4,016 Posts
pisces80: For me i dont think there is anything wrong in your partner going through your phone or you going through your partner's phone, if you dont have any skeleton in your cupboard then there is no need to be aggressive or mad over it..



If you feel you have to go through your partner's phone or other personal belongings, then there's no trust between you is there?

Doing those sort of things can be the start of a break up in the relationship. Just my opinion
Feb 12, 2011 3:48 AM CST Checking your partner's phone...
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
pisces80: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


I would never do it, and moreover if a partner of mine did it to me, they would no longer be a partner.... It's a gross intrusion of your privacy and a irreversable breach of trust.... If you're that worried that someone's cheating... then confront or leave with you self-respect intact
Feb 12, 2011 3:50 AM CST Checking your partner's phone...
Eos11
Eos11Eos11Lost in ..., Lincolnshire, England UK24 Threads 4,016 Posts
blarneykite: I would never do it, and moreover if a partner of mine did it to me, they would no longer be a partner.... It's a gross intrusion of your privacy and a irreversable breach of trust.... If you're that worried that someone's cheating... then confront or leave with you self-respect intact




well said thumbs up
Feb 12, 2011 1:05 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
Thanks to you all for your contribution..
Feb 12, 2011 1:35 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
trueword
truewordtruewordMidlands, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 104 Posts
If a partner went through my phone ... complete and absolute deal breaker tbh ... No longer my partner as Blarneykite said, trust and honesty are everything.
Feb 12, 2011 3:16 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
irish84
irish84irish84monaghan, Monaghan Ireland72 Threads 3 Polls 8,745 Posts
In response to: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??
if your going through your partners phone then i think its a sign that you dont trust them. and if you didnt trust them you shouldnt be with that person
Feb 12, 2011 3:20 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
irish84: if your going through your partners phone then i think its a sign that you dont trust them. and if you didnt trust them you shouldnt be with that person
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Feb 12, 2011 3:41 PM CST Checking your partner's phone...
trueword
truewordtruewordMidlands, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 104 Posts
Right on the button.....
Feb 13, 2011 5:21 AM CST Checking your partner's phone...
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
In response to: Many people say its wrong for your partner to read your text messages or go through your phone. True or False??


Its totally wrong to go through your partner's phone, wrong wrong wrong...
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