A book being judged by its cover (45)
NoeloD076: Aw thanks Jimbo, pity your not a woman though.
And having met you I have to say you are a pretty sound bloke yourself as well.
ah here the women arent that bad that the only compliment you pick is a lads And having met you I have to say you are a pretty sound bloke yourself as well.
DUBLINGUY1973: Phew! I was beginning to get worried
me too
but I can feel my frozen mojo thawing out now
Massive libidos are sooooooo passe!!
NoeloD076: Why is it that women expect men to be the first to mail them and then when we pluck up the courage to put ourselves out there and mail someone they haven't the courtesy to reply.
I know i'm no oil painting but you know what i'm a good bloke who is worth getting to know. However the ladies on here take one look at pictures and don't think i'm worth their time. No wonder people don't bother putting up pics. Are people that shallow?? Is a bit of courtesy too much to ask for?
I know i'm no oil painting but you know what i'm a good bloke who is worth getting to know. However the ladies on here take one look at pictures and don't think i'm worth their time. No wonder people don't bother putting up pics. Are people that shallow?? Is a bit of courtesy too much to ask for?
i think ur not a bad looking fella if that helps
paphos: Massive libidos are sooooooo passe!!
you are right
I would like a kind man with a good sense of humour so
salanky: ah here the women arent that bad that the only compliment you pick is a lads
Very true Sal but i have replied to the ladies who left lovely comments in private mail.
And for those who i haven't got around to replying to yet, its on the way.
NoeloD076: Very true Sal but i have replied to the ladies who left lovely comments in private mail.
And for those who i haven't got around to replying to yet, its on the way.
my bad And for those who i haven't got around to replying to yet, its on the way.
NoeloD076: Why is it that women expect men to be the first to mail them and then when we pluck up the courage to put ourselves out there and mail someone they haven't the courtesy to reply.
I know i'm no oil painting but you know what i'm a good bloke who is worth getting to know. However the ladies on here take one look at pictures and don't think i'm worth their time. No wonder people don't bother putting up pics. Are people that shallow?? Is a bit of courtesy too much to ask for?
i hate that to so the way i deal with them is i just dont mail anyone anymore the most ill do is sent them a flower and if anything happens then it happens but they look at my picture and then i guess they just dont want to knowI know i'm no oil painting but you know what i'm a good bloke who is worth getting to know. However the ladies on here take one look at pictures and don't think i'm worth their time. No wonder people don't bother putting up pics. Are people that shallow?? Is a bit of courtesy too much to ask for?
forestshaks: Pot calling kettle black. I sent u an email u viewed me and never mailed back...Y r u complaining now..? What goes around comes around. Laws of karma.
When did you mail me?? I never delete contacts and I have checked over them twice and I couldn't find you on my list. Are you sure you contacted me???? I honestly didn't get one. Unless, you had a different profile name at the time.
LadyBlackAdder: When did you mail me?? I never delete contacts and I have checked over them twice and I couldn't find you on my list. Are you sure you contacted me???? I honestly didn't get one. Unless, you had a different profile name at the time.
oh M you are slipping - letting men slip through your net 
i think that if you open the lads online section after you look through the ladys and seen how many more blokes there are online you might see why your not getting replys, i mean to be fair i wouldn't expect to get replys from every sent mail, but my advice is to pick carefully and try pick up on something from the profile to grab her attention
CAITLIN765: oh M you are slipping - letting men slip through your net
I know, it's quite frightening to think I could have missed out on an intelligent, articulate man. Are there any more (from Ireland) that I haven't answered? Have I missed my one true love?
LadyBlackAdder: I know, it's quite frightening to think I could have missed out on an intelligent, articulate man. Are there any more (from Ireland) that I haven't answered? Have I missed my one true love?
Oh i hope not and I see SDB is back in action and got a spring in her step so move quickly before she swoops on your dreamboat LadyBlackAdder: When did you mail me?? I never delete contacts and I have checked over them twice and I couldn't find you on my list. Are you sure you contacted me???? I honestly didn't get one. Unless, you had a different profile name at the time.
I can't handle one profile, yet i would have another one...yeah rite..
forestshaks: I can't handle one profile, yet i would have another one...yeah rite..
Not suggesting you have another profile, merely that you had a different one at the time of mailing me so I wouldn't recognize your username. Quite a number of regular users have come back with different usernames from time to time. As you are a paleface, I could hardly be able to differentiate between your profiles,however honestly they were put up.
LiamMG: i hate that to so the way i deal with them is i just dont mail anyone anymore the most ill do is sent them a flower and if anything happens then it happens but they look at my picture and then i guess they just dont want to know
Liam it's their loss, i don't know why they r now complaining they don't get mails from we men anymore....Really i couldn't care less anymore...I don't know why some of them are on this site.
Too much attitude i'd say just ignore them all but one day u'll find some1...
I'll have to make up for that at the next one and go talk to more people! Sorry anyone I didn't get to talk toNoeloD076: Why is it that women expect men to be the first to mail them
Because the woman to man ratio on here works that way and
face it most ladies like a man to make the first move.
NoeloD076: and then when we pluck up the courage to put ourselves out there and mail someone they haven't the courtesy to reply.
Because some women think by replying to you even if they are not interested in you is sending the wrong signal.
Some men on here can turn abusive if a woman rejects them so they prefer to not reply.
Some women might receive a few mails from different men and read the all at once and only reply to the favorite mails.
NoeloD076: I know i'm no oil painting but you know what i'm a good bloke who is worth getting to know.
I disagree personally, I think your a good looking man, and ya judging from all the lovely comments from the people who met you at the meet, they all only have nice things to say about you......but......the women you mail havent met you and if they dont read the forums they wouldn't have a good idea of the sort of person you are. Your profile is....well......I could randomly pick 20 profiles from fellas on here slap yours in the middle and I guarantee you it would sound exactly the same as the others. There is nothing that stands out in your profile as different, its just a list of things you do, its not your thoughts.
NoeloD076: However the ladies on here take one look at pictures and don't think i'm worth their time.
How do you know that the reason they don't reply is because of your picture........it could be because of what you say in our mail, if it sounds like a boring mundane mail they may not reply......as I said before your profile doesn't stand out from others...... maybe they women don't want a fella with kids? Maybe they don't want a fella out of a certain distance from them........... there could be lots of reasons?
But anyhoo........as someone said .....try concentrate on the people that do send a reply
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Aw thanks Jimbo, pity your not a woman though.
And having met you I have to say you are a pretty sound bloke yourself as well.