see part of the problem is its not just me that would have to share i would have to bring my animals with me, couldnt move out without them. i actually think id be happy living on my own, wouldnt have to answer to anyone or expect anything from anyone.
if i could afford to move out id be gone and they know that, hell iv told them often enough but i just cant and i hate it. i changed jobs a few months back and its more money with less expenses so maybe ill have my own place by the time im 40....not banking on it though
see another thing that puts men off me is i dont have my own place, finances just wont allow me to move out and while i am 31yrs old my parents dont always remember that and do think at times that im back to being 15 and meeting "boys" for the first time. im not sure what i use here for as it was a totally different place when i first joined 4 or 5 years ago but it does serve some sort of purpose i suppose
see another thing that puts men off me is i dont have my own place, finances just wont allow me to move out and while i am 31yrs old my parents dont always remember that and do think at times that im back to being 15 and meeting "boys" for the first time. im not sure what i use here for as it was a totally different place when i first joined 4 or 5 years ago but it does serve some sort of purpose i suppose
id say thats part of it, were here for the same reason and while some might not be as honorable in their intentions it can sometimes be nice to know you arent the only one feeling this way.
i guess if im honest about it im single 4 years now. while i was seeing the guy from mayo it was never a proper relationship sure how could it be with us only seeing each other for a few hours every two weeks or so. i know what i want and thats to find someone who actually wants me just as i am.....seems most fellas around my age either want a dolly bird to go clubbing with or arent interested in a proper relationship. im fairly used to being single now but theres still the odd time when it would be nice to have another human to share stuff with
ah I just figure I know myself I'm not everyone's cup of tea and im fine with that, would rather i actually found someone that was happy that im just me and there aint nothing special about me but sure theres plenty of time to be finding my knight in shining armor.....even if he is stuck up a tree somewhere
i wish that were the case. really thought i was onto a good thing and i was just as is always the case with me the timing just wasnt right and neither of us could do anything about the distance. shame really cause he was a lovely chap
never bought into the hype but a friend got the books and she couldnt put them down, read all three in about two days and then saw the film as soon as it came out in the states and totally regretted losing those hours of her life
You are warm and empathic with a heightened awareness of social responsibility and a strong sense of conscience. You like to carefully weigh up the pros and cons of a situation before you act and are generally averse to taking risks. You are very much a ‘people person’ and dislike conflict. ‘Do unto others…’ are your watchwords. But, although you avoid hurting others, those residing at the higher end of the psychopathic spectrum might not be as considerate, so stay vigilant to avoid being hurt unnecessarily.
yep one of the annoying things about online dating is loads of men seem to think they are 6ft when in reality they are closer to 5ft, i have met a few who were shorter than they said and their excuse was they didnt possibly think i was actually as tall as i say i am cause you know its super easy to hide the fact that you are a full foot shorter than your profile says you are
not when your just under 6ft tall and look like you are walking around with a child....that and its a pain in the neck having to bend down to kiss someone all the time......shallow i know but true
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RE: What's On Your Mind - Part 25
im not quite a goat worshiper but they are pretty awesome