Relationships! ( Archived) (10)

After a painful break-up,its always better to let go and move on,but for some,that seems easier said than done,why?

We all want what we cant have,its hard to move on if you still love the other person,its true what they say that time is a great healer,you will never forget but will learn to let go and move on..

we all deal with stressors differently. In our own time.

It's not the letting go thats the problem, it's the not going back

Nothing easy or ain't hard too, but make it as apart & memory of your life & learn from what already happend to you. Keep forward & make something more meaningful for yourlife, cos time will always running

shot! right between the eyes

I've learned the hard way that it's important to look at the reality of what went wrong, rather than at the fantasy of the relationship I wanted all along.

If you keep thinking: "oh but he was so nice when we met/he said he'd love me forever" you can distress yourself so much you can't face the thought of another guy. Once I have straight in my head that the guy I have broken up with is not Mr Perfect from the first date, but a flawed human being I'm not compatible with, I'm okay. Holding on to the emotion of what you loved about them is ultimately, a way of holding onto them. I think so anyway.

What I think must be particularly hard is when people run into their exes all the time. Guys often move on very quickly too and this can be very painful for women, but we should probably take a leaf out of their books; they don't torture themselves for months like we do. JMO.