Thalassa: No, Larry, I don't think we choose to love. If love was a clear choice...a thought process...I would not have loved the last man that I did. All signs pointed against its possibility to last and thrive, yet I fell deeply in love with him, anyway. Had I been able to pay attention only to my mind (the thought process, the "choosing" aspect), and had I been able to eliminate what I was feeling...the emotional, heart-tugging, libido-charging aspect... I would have chosen NOT to fall in love with him. But it just doesn't work that way. At least, it didn't for me.
And, quite honestly, I'd really rather follow my heart, even if the end result is not what I would hope for.
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You implying that you want to stuff something in my mouth big boy..