Does Love Just Happpen? ( Archived) (106)

Mar 13, 2011 9:07 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Do we Search it, and Find it?

Or is Love a Choice from within every Individual? detective uncertain
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Mar 13, 2011 9:10 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
i think its a choice thats motivated by feeling...as sumone could fall in love with me, but it does not mean i would feel tha sameblues
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Mar 13, 2011 9:11 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I think love just happens and then we act on it.
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Mar 13, 2011 9:18 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy: I think love just happens and then we act on it.


So if it just Happens, and we act on it,
Isnt acting on it a choice?
or are we not aware that it is a choice, but just let ourselves fall in purposely?laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:23 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
HotrodLarrys: So if it just Happens, and we act on it,
Isnt acting on it a choice?
or are we not aware that it is a choice, but just let ourselves fall in purposely?


They do say love is blind.So we fall in love blindly.laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:25 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Sometimes it sneaks up when you're not looking and wallops you.

wine
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Mar 13, 2011 9:27 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy: They do say love is blind.So we fall in love blindly.


What if I Keep My Glasses On?wow uh oh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:27 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If we're speaking of marrigae then I think love's a choice.

Same with being unfaithful.It is a choice.
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Mar 13, 2011 9:30 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
HotrodLarrys: What if I Keep My Glasses On?


Glasses or no glasses I doubt if it really matter casue we fall in love and before we know we're hooked and have no idea what happened.laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:33 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
Ccincy: Probably someone who has never fallen blindly in love before..
laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:35 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Love happens and is a choice but in order to keep it healthy you have to do alot of work keeping it that way.Or it becomes unhealthy.
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Mar 13, 2011 9:38 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
I think it's both a choice and something that just happens. You can choose to let down your guard (loosen your emotional control) to let love in.

Not everyone is self aware enough to recognize that choice aspect of love. Ultimately, you have to be open to it on some level for it to happen.






teddybear
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Mar 13, 2011 9:44 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Ccincy: Glasses or no glasses I doubt if it really matter casue we fall in love and before we know we're hooked and have no idea what happened.




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

What Happened?typing laugh
just taking notes..laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 9:51 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Do we Search it, and Find it?

Or is Love a Choice from within every Individual?

Love happens.
We do search fot it.
We do not find it.
Love might find us!

wine

yay
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Mar 13, 2011 9:51 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Kattsrose
KattsroseKattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA52 Threads 4 Polls 911 Posts
PandoraX: I think it's both a choice and something that just happens. You can choose to let down your guard (loosen your emotional control) to let love in.

Not everyone is self aware enough to recognize that choice aspect of love. Ultimately, you have to be open to it on some level for it to happen.



Sometimes you are forced to make a choice though. Katt lived a long way from me when we first started to fall for each other. We had to decide if we wanted to deal with that and with with other issues as well.
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Mar 13, 2011 10:01 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Kattsrose: Sometimes you are forced to make a choice though. Katt lived a long way from me when we first started to fall for each other. We had to decide if we wanted to deal with that and with with other issues as well.


Then who are you behind cats Profile?playball laugh
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Mar 13, 2011 10:05 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
midnightbluebird
midnightbluebirdmidnightbluebirdManila, Metro Manila Philippines1 Threads 171 Posts
PandoraX: I think it's both a choice and something that just happens. You can choose to let down your guard (loosen your emotional control) to let love in.

Not everyone is self aware enough to recognize that choice aspect of love. Ultimately, you have to be open to it on some level for it to happen.



Indeed, love happens/comes. As soon as we see its validity (sincerity, attraction, possibility of the realtionship, etc), we let it in. So it's really a choice and most definitely up to the person whether to open the gate or not. grin wave
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Mar 13, 2011 10:43 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Kattsrose
KattsroseKattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA52 Threads 4 Polls 911 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Then who are you behind cats Profile?


I'm Katt1017's Rose and, she is my Katt. We also have a cat who is the original and true "Katt"
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Mar 13, 2011 11:19 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Tovarasha
TovarashaTovarashaNorth Hollywood, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 219 Posts
Love happens sometimes for some. I don't think we can go out there and plan what, and how, and with whom. One would need to be very arrogant to think that. And some are I suppose victims of their own arrogance.
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Mar 13, 2011 11:45 PM CST Does Love Just Happpen?
Kattsrose: I'm Katt1017's Rose and, she is my Katt. We also have a cat who is the original and true "Katt"


Thanksgiggle
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