carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
okay,
I have read through the topic and the most people post that you must not look for love, because love will find you.
it makes me wonder. why do people act passive when it comes to finding the love of their life? the word 'finding' is not passive by character, is it?
suppose I wait for love to happen....and the man who is supposed to be the love of my life waits for love to happen...would we find each other then?
in other words.....if we both stay passive, waiting for love to happen... will it happen eventually?
I don't think so. I believe every individual should get out there, ready for all situations that might occur in the love department. make sure Love notices you.
I believe there is a saying about Death...when it looks you in the eyes and grins at you, the only thing you can do is to grin back. this goes for love as wel...when it grins at you, grin back.
yabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand1,692 posts
carenza: okay,
I have read through the topic and the most people post that you must not look for love, because love will find you.
it makes me wonder. why do people act passive when it comes to finding the love of their life? the word 'finding' is not passive by character, is it?
suppose I wait for love to happen....and the man who is supposed to be the love of my life waits for love to happen...would we find each other then?
in other words.....if we both stay passive, waiting for love to happen... will it happen eventually?
I don't think so. I believe every individual should get out there, ready for all situations that might occur in the love department. make sure Love notices you.
I believe there is a saying about Death...when it looks you in the eyes and grins at you, the only thing you can do is to grin back. this goes for love as wel...when it grins at you, grin back.
Thats pretty damn cool Carenza.....
I think people tend to think if they say they are looking for love...that they may appear desperate....maybe??
Or sometimes when you see needy or desperate people out and about sometimes....doing their damn best to be noticed by someone...it can look really uncool...
I like what you said... Just have to do it the right way maybe
LinhLinhOPHo Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam9 posts
carenza: okay,
I have read through the topic and the most people post that you must not look for love, because love will find you.
it makes me wonder. why do people act passive when it comes to finding the love of their life? the word 'finding' is not passive by character, is it?
suppose I wait for love to happen....and the man who is supposed to be the love of my life waits for love to happen...would we find each other then?
in other words.....if we both stay passive, waiting for love to happen... will it happen eventually?
I don't think so. I believe every individual should get out there, ready for all situations that might occur in the love department. make sure Love notices you.
I believe there is a saying about Death...when it looks you in the eyes and grins at you, the only thing you can do is to grin back. this goes for love as wel...when it grins at you, grin back.
totally agree w/u..Coz we dunno what will happen if we juz stay passive.And what if the right men out there are also stay passive like us and wait for true love
I have read through the topic and the most people post that you must not look for love, because love will find you.
it makes me wonder. why do people act passive when it comes to finding the love of their life? the word 'finding' is not passive by character, is it?
suppose I wait for love to happen....and the man who is supposed to be the love of my life waits for love to happen...would we find each other then?
in other words.....if we both stay passive, waiting for love to happen... will it happen eventually?
I don't think so. I believe every individual should get out there, ready for all situations that might occur in the love department. make sure Love notices you.
I believe there is a saying about Death...when it looks you in the eyes and grins at you, the only thing you can do is to grin back. this goes for love as wel...when it grins at you, grin back.
I'd have said exactly that, a few months, even weeks ago. I was of the belief that you have to help love to find you. I was wrong. Other than being on this site, I haven't done a thing, and I have been here for nearly 4 years. When things are right, it will arrive.
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