Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one.. One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
shin_25: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one.. One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
If thats the way she wants to be...then she isnt a good friend, A good friend is someone who will understand no matter what.. We all think we have good friends but when it comes to the crunch its very easy to count your true friends
shin_25: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one.. One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
sounds like a bit of over reacting to me, maybe something has happened in her life she expected you to notice perhaps maybe give her a few days to calm down and talk to her properly and see whats going on. friends drift apart at times and sometimes its just the way things go so maybe its meant to be
In response to: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one.. One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
irish84: do you really need someone like that in life?
Doesnt seem like someone worth stressing over... real mates dont need constant contact or reassurance.. I have best mates that im in contact constantly,others that i might not talk to for months but when i do it's still the same,when you get older,your lives take you in different directions etc..
sugar77: Doesnt seem like someone worth stressing over... real mates dont need constant contact or reassurance.. I have best mates that im in contact constantly,others that i might not talk to for months but when i do it's still the same,when you get older,your lives take you in different directions etc..
i think there comes a time in your life when you want to get rid of the people that causes drama and have people around you that makes you laugh and makes you happy.
irish84: i think there comes a time in your life when you want to get rid of the people that causes drama and have people around you that makes you laugh and makes you happy.
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One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...