Friends...who needs em? (35)

Mar 26, 2011 3:21 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
shin_25
shin_25shin_25Kildare, Ireland1 Threads 3 Posts
Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one..
One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
Mar 26, 2011 3:24 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
Sounds like a deama queen...dunno
Mar 26, 2011 3:24 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
Drama...
Mar 26, 2011 3:24 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sylvester001
sylvester001sylvester001Dublin, Ireland23 Threads 785 Posts
shin_25: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one..
One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...


If thats the way she wants to be...then she isnt a good friend,
A good friend is someone who will understand no matter what..
We all think we have good friends but when it comes to the crunch its very easy to count your true friends
Mar 26, 2011 3:25 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
sugar77: Sounds like a deama queen...
thumbs up ye it sounds like she likes a drama
Mar 26, 2011 3:25 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
sugar77: Sounds like a deama queen...
thumbs up ye it sounds like she likes a drama
Mar 26, 2011 3:25 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
shin_25: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one..
One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
sounds like a bit of over reacting to me, maybe something has happened in her life she expected you to notice perhaps dunno maybe give her a few days to calm down and talk to her properly and see whats going on. friends drift apart at times and sometimes its just the way things go so maybe its meant to be
Mar 26, 2011 3:28 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
irish84
irish84irish84monaghan, Monaghan Ireland72 Threads 3 Polls 8,745 Posts
In response to: Just wanted to get peoples advise on this one..
One of my "best" friends and I had a falling out.. To cut a long story short she was emailing me saying how much Ive changed & how I only wanna be a friend when it suits.. Il admit I hadnt reall been in contact with her for a few weeks due to my busy work schedule & my first nephew being born.. Everything she said on the emai I gave her an answer for , then she started to say that when her dad was very sick 2 years ago I wasnt there for her..which is totally a lie.. I was keepin an eye on her all the time cause I know she was vunerable at the time.. I always rang her to see if she was ok, I didnt see her much cause she was always in and out of the hospital.. She seems to have turned 2 other friends off me too.. Now shes gone & deleted me from a social network site which I thought was a bit harsh.. Everyone is telling me that she is over reacting&its not my fault but i just wanted to get peoples oppinion...
do you really need someone like that in life? dunno
Mar 26, 2011 3:31 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sylvester001
sylvester001sylvester001Dublin, Ireland23 Threads 785 Posts
irish84: do you really need someone like that in life?


No point running after her and making her feel important for being a Nag rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 26, 2011 3:32 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
irish84: do you really need someone like that in life?


thumbs up Doesnt seem like someone worth stressing over...dunno real mates dont need constant contact or reassurance..roll eyes I have best mates that im in contact constantly,others that i might not talk to for months but when i do it's still the same,when you get older,your lives take you in different directions etc..dunno
Mar 26, 2011 3:33 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
slap her in the head and tell her to cop on.
Mar 26, 2011 3:35 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
Dr_Hfuhruhurr
Dr_HfuhruhurrDr_HfuhruhurrCork, Ireland15 Threads 1 Polls 987 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 26, 2011 3:35 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
Maverick147: slap her in the head and tell her to cop on.
straight and to the point laugh
Mar 26, 2011 3:38 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
Dr_Hfuhruhurr
Dr_HfuhruhurrDr_HfuhruhurrCork, Ireland15 Threads 1 Polls 987 Posts
fake your own death and make her feel bad
Mar 26, 2011 3:40 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: fake your own death and make her feel bad


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 26, 2011 3:41 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sylvester001
sylvester001sylvester001Dublin, Ireland23 Threads 785 Posts
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: fake your own death and make her feel bad


By the sound of her,She wouldnt feel bad
Mar 26, 2011 3:47 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
salanky: straight and to the point

you know im right thoughlaugh
Mar 26, 2011 3:48 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
Maverick147: you know im right though
well you are a man rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 26, 2011 3:49 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
irish84
irish84irish84monaghan, Monaghan Ireland72 Threads 3 Polls 8,745 Posts
sugar77: Doesnt seem like someone worth stressing over... real mates dont need constant contact or reassurance.. I have best mates that im in contact constantly,others that i might not talk to for months but when i do it's still the same,when you get older,your lives take you in different directions etc..
i think there comes a time in your life when you want to get rid of the people that causes drama and have people around you that makes you laugh and makes you happy.
Mar 26, 2011 3:51 PM CST Friends...who needs em?
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
irish84: i think there comes a time in your life when you want to get rid of the people that causes drama and have people around you that makes you laugh and makes you happy.


Very true Irish..thumbs up
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