Am i right?? (102)
unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Postsrite here goes always wanted girls opinions to this.. why wont any of ye just come on here and have a boredom chill out chat?? it seems 2 me that women will only talk to u if they see summat potentionally happening from it.. Be it age, location etc women have an excuse not 2 chat.. ill give an example. if i mailed a 40 yo askin do u fancy a chat no strings attached just a boredom chat she will reply and say no sorry ur 2 young lol and im thinkin jesus christ its only a chat im not lookin 2 get in ur bed haha.... also i think women need 2 specify more in their profiles what they want
You get out of it what you put in. Change your mindset slightly and you'll find women will be way more receptive to talking to you. Example - Everyone has had that conversation which starts with what do work at?
I don't know about you but I don't particluarly have an exicting job that I like talking about, most people fall into this category (not all) so a way to rephrase this would be how do you like spending your time? If your out in a pub and you ask this most people repeat the question to give them time to think and then they can talk about whatever interests them. Small tip but has avoided countless boring conversations that neither me or the person next to me wanted to have.
I don't know about you but I don't particluarly have an exicting job that I like talking about, most people fall into this category (not all) so a way to rephrase this would be how do you like spending your time? If your out in a pub and you ask this most people repeat the question to give them time to think and then they can talk about whatever interests them. Small tip but has avoided countless boring conversations that neither me or the person next to me wanted to have.
unouwantme2: no i dont think ur been smart but chatting 2 a 20yo and chatting to a 40yo are pretty similar like.. im just talking about a normal convo if u get me?
well i have to disagree there am sorry but for me talking to a 40 yr old or a 20 yr old is very different to be honest.. music tastes film tastes they all vary.. i love talking to all kinds of people but you do notice the age difference big time
offsetpaddy: You get out of it what you put in. Change your mindset slightly and you'll find women will be way more receptive to talking to you. Example - Everyone has had that conversation which starts with what do work at?
I don't know about you but I don't particluarly have an exicting job that I like talking about, most people fall into this category (not all) so a way to rephrase this would be how do you like spending your time? If your out in a pub and you ask this most people repeat the question to give them time to think and then they can talk about whatever interests them. Small tip but has avoided countless boring conversations that neither me or the person next to me wanted to have.
one the biggest annoying things here is if u try mail sumone and say hey hws u, im talking about older women in general they automatically think u want a dirty chat lol... if a girl mailed me here i might nt want 2 chat 2 her but id still respond i wudnt ignore her messI don't know about you but I don't particluarly have an exicting job that I like talking about, most people fall into this category (not all) so a way to rephrase this would be how do you like spending your time? If your out in a pub and you ask this most people repeat the question to give them time to think and then they can talk about whatever interests them. Small tip but has avoided countless boring conversations that neither me or the person next to me wanted to have.
bluebelle4000: well i have to disagree there am sorry but for me talking to a 40 yr old or a 20 yr old is very different to be honest.. music tastes film tastes they all vary.. i love talking to all kinds of people but you do notice the age difference big time
so ur sayin u cudnt have a ''normal'' convo with me on here??unouwantme2: one the biggest annoying things here is if u try mail sumone and say hey hws u, im talking about older women in general they automatically think u want a dirty chat lol... if a girl mailed me here i might nt want 2 chat 2 her but id still respond i wudnt ignore her mess
thats because they usually do
unouwantme2: so ur sayin u cudnt have a ''normal'' convo with me on here??
no !! you didnt read it properly...
i said i would notice the age difference... i didnt say i couldnt have a normal conversation it would just be different thats all... i have many friends of all different ages and i like them all but they are different between 20 and 40 thats all
bluebelle4000: thats because they usually do
but not always, ur using assumtion lolunouwantme2: but not always, ur using assumtion lol
forgive me i am going on past experience cause im an aul one
bluebelle4000: no !! you didnt read it properly...
i said i would notice the age difference... i didnt say i couldnt have a normal conversation it would just be different thats all... i have many friends of all different ages and i like them all but they are different between 20 and 40 thats all
oh ye sry i took u up wrong, there is differneces but it shudnt stop u chatting in a chatroomi said i would notice the age difference... i didnt say i couldnt have a normal conversation it would just be different thats all... i have many friends of all different ages and i like them all but they are different between 20 and 40 thats all
bluebelle4000: forgive me i am going on past experience cause im an aul one
i dont blame u cause most older women are the same lolunouwantme2: oh ye sry i took u up wrong, there is differneces but it shudnt stop u chatting in a chatroom
no it wouldnt stop me at all providing they were decent and funny.. if i wanted anything else i would ask...
i dont do the chat rooms so it has never been an issue.. not with me anyway .. u should use this opeing line.. " No am not looking for smutty chat just normal so be nice and say hi
"unouwantme2: i dont blame u cause most older women are the same lol
it happens all the time and i know younger fellas have this thing about older women but jesus surely not everyone of them lol... this is actually quite an interesting topic...
bluebelle4000: it happens all the time and i know younger fellas have this thing about older women but jesus surely not everyone of them lol... this is actually quite an interesting topic...
lol its a younger lads fantasy, dont say i told u that hahaIt's very hard to invest in a message that says hey hows you though. Comment on something that speaks to them, A photo, there style, movies, interestes in there profile. There's a million things you can notice if you just pay attention. Chances are you could be miles wrong or you could be spot on and notice something that not alot of people normally notice either way it gives you a starting point.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
unouwantme2: lol its a younger lads fantasy, dont say i told u that haha
its not is it !!!! I never knew that ... tks for filling me in
offsetpaddy: It's very hard to invest in a message that says hey hows you though. Comment on something that speaks to them, A photo, there style, movies, interestes in there profile. There's a million things you can notice if you just pay attention. Chances are you could be miles wrong or you could be spot on and notice something that not alot of people normally notice either way it gives you a starting point.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
dont get me wrong ur ideas are good but to me ur over complicating things i just try keep it simpleWhat ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
bluebelle4000: its not is it !!!! I never knew that ... tks for filling me in
lol no probs.. im sure ul get young lads tlkin to u at sum stage lolunouwantme2: lol no probs.. im sure ul get young lads tlkin to u at sum stage lol
you just made me sound 90 ye cheeky git
Oh I think i have had my fill of young lads talking to me..
bluebelle4000: you just made me sound 90 ye cheeky git
Oh I think i have had my fill of young lads talking to me..
sick of them eh?hahaOh I think i have had my fill of young lads talking to me..
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