Am i right?? (102)
bluebelle4000: yeah pretty much.... dont mind chat but the one i got this morning well now thats just it.. no more.. next one to send me a mail like that is getting reported
scandalous behaviour lol mailin an oap like that lol ;)
right ill have a boring chill out chat with you if you want 
In response to: rite here goes always wanted girls opinions to this.. why wont any of ye just come on here and have a boredom chill out chat?? it seems 2 me that women will only talk to u if they see summat potentionally happening from it.. Be it age, location etc women have an excuse not 2 chat.. ill give an example. if i mailed a 40 yo askin do u fancy a chat no strings attached just a boredom chat she will reply and say no sorry ur 2 young lol and im thinkin jesus christ its only a chat im not lookin 2 get in ur bed haha.... also i think women need 2 specify more in their profiles what they want
unouwantme2: scandalous behaviour lol mailin an oap like that lol ;)
ye little bo***cks!!!!!!!!
If your just looking for chat why mail them why not just chat back and forward on the forums...I think most women mail back saying theyre not interested because at thje end of the day theyre on here looking for dates not conversations(nsa chat) with guiys that theyre not interested in JMO
Meant to add sometimes mailing like you would a text can put people off
I'm in my late 40's and on a few occasions I have been approached on here by men in their early 20's looking to chat.
I have to say I would wonder why they approach me....when there are so many more closer to their own age, where they would have far more in common.
Would a 25 year old, approach a 48 year old in a bar/pub.....they wouldn't be seen dead.....so why here???
I have to say I would wonder why they approach me....when there are so many more closer to their own age, where they would have far more in common.
Would a 25 year old, approach a 48 year old in a bar/pub.....they wouldn't be seen dead.....so why here???
offsetpaddy: It's very hard to invest in a message that says hey hows you though. Comment on something that speaks to them, A photo, there style, movies, interestes in there profile. There's a million things you can notice if you just pay attention. Chances are you could be miles wrong or you could be spot on and notice something that not alot of people normally notice either way it gives you a starting point.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
offsetpaddy: It's very hard to invest in a message that says hey hows you though. Comment on something that speaks to them, A photo, there style, movies, interestes in there profile. There's a million things you can notice if you just pay attention. Chances are you could be miles wrong or you could be spot on and notice something that not alot of people normally notice either way it gives you a starting point.
What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
agree with the first part cause its very hard to start a new conversation with someone when all you get is hi, how are you to which you reply good, and you etc and to me it just feels awkward where i know for me there is one fella iv been talking to for months and the first thing he asked was what animals i had, to me this showed he had read my profile and actually mailed me cause he was interested in talking about a common interest and while theres no attraction there for either of us we do chat away no problem What ya gotta reliease that most women have had at least 3 or 4(sometimes more and usually drunk) guys coming on to them when out in a nightclub since they were 18. So say a woman of 25 who goes out a modest once a week will have thousands of guys chance there arm on nights out and most times these experinces have been bad (not always) so ya gotta bring something to the table other then hey hows you.
the second part though doesnt fully ring through for me at all in the way that iv never had anyone come up to me in a club etc trying it on but thats just me. i try to reply to every mail i get but i have to say the ones that put a bit of effort in are more likely to get a better response for me.
I dont know im getting on great having conversations with all ladys at diffrent ages i think it depends on your confidence aswell.
Rule NO. 1: A man is never right !!
Ask any woman ??
Ask any woman ??
tallman51: Rule NO. 1: A man is never right !!
Ask any woman ??
Ask any woman ??
totally agree with you there tallman we never win a agruement
tallman51: Rule NO. 1: A man is never right !!
Ask any woman ??
you got that right Ask any woman ??
cremebrulee: I'm in my late 40's and on a few occasions I have been approached on here by men in their early 20's looking to chat.
I have to say I would wonder why they approach me....when there are so many more closer to their own age, where they would have far more in common.
Would a 25 year old, approach a 48 year old in a bar/pub.....they wouldn't be seen dead.....so why here???
id approach a 48yo in pub if she was hot lolI have to say I would wonder why they approach me....when there are so many more closer to their own age, where they would have far more in common.
Would a 25 year old, approach a 48 year old in a bar/pub.....they wouldn't be seen dead.....so why here???
maybe im rong but i just think women are 2 serious on here from the off.. like lots women in their l8 30's n 40's ave ''friends hang out so if a 25yo lad pms them a normal mess wats rong with that
unouwantme2: maybe im rong but i just think women are 2 serious on here from the off.. like lots women in their l8 30's n 40's ave ''friends hang out so if a 25yo lad pms them a normal mess wats rong with that
Why dont you mail younger women then??
L1977C: If your just looking for chat why mail them why not just chat back and forward on the forums...I think most women mail back saying theyre not interested because at thje end of the day theyre on here looking for dates not conversations(nsa chat) with guiys that theyre not interested in JMO
L1977C: Why dont you mail younger women then??
i do lol i just maintain women take this site v v seriously from word go instead of just relaxin playin along(not in a dirty way) and just c wat happens
unouwantme2: maybe im rong but i just think women are 2 serious on here from the off.. like lots women in their l8 30's n 40's ave ''friends hang out so if a 25yo lad pms them a normal mess wats rong with that
I'd say it has a lot more to do with your "txt tlk" than anything......
Would you mail a massivly overweight and ugly 45 year old for a normal chat.....i doubt it......be honest
if yer lookin 4 datispecify it lol dont put friends/ hand out + wats rong with mailin opposed to chattin in the forums 2 ONE person??
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yeah pretty much.... dont mind chat but the one i got this morning well now thats just it.. no more.. next one to send me a mail like that is getting reported