how do YOU approach a person in public? ( Archived) (88)

Apr 17, 2011 2:25 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
cherrybrandy: i dont remember approaching a guy myself,the most i can do is smile to someone(providing i ve had enough drink)


hey cherry.....looking good today wave

tell me....what if you REALLY like a man sitting on the other side....and he doesn't do anything?

will you smile at him all night?

just that?
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Apr 17, 2011 2:25 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
scottyburd: Hey there lass
Ive never felt the inclination to approach a guy...they approach me..


you're a lucky lass.....

must be them eyes....
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Apr 17, 2011 2:26 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
tstone61: I would just get a closer look first if they had no ring on there hand id just go up and say somthing like is it hot today or is that just you .or excuse me miss has any one told you that you are look totaly awsome today most times it gets the lady blushng but most inportantly it starts the conversation oh and how are you today pritty lady ?


doing just fine thank you...wave

and you?
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Apr 17, 2011 2:27 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
carenza: hey cherry.....looking good today

tell me....what if you REALLY like a man sitting on the other side....and he doesn't do anything?

will you smile at him all night?

just that?
me i am too damm shy......thats my problem......laugh laugh
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Apr 17, 2011 2:27 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
carenza: OMG...!

I can almost taste the embarassment...


I was so embarrassed I'll admit. Didn't bother with starters or dessert. I just wanted to get out of there and quickly.

I made sure that they didn't have to pay for their meal or drinks, as they were a lovely couple.

Oh, and she said yes as well. mumbling
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Apr 17, 2011 2:28 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
azull: here is one tip for men:
always approach a women from behind, women love surprises. Gently swing your arm around her should and smoothly whisper in her ear 'you are hot babe'

This one works good as well:
Corner her with both arm stretched and say to her 'welcome to my world, you are mine now'


hey azull wave

fellow dutchman...handshake

is this what you do? or is this what you have done in the past and now are rethinking to change?
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Apr 17, 2011 2:29 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
carenza: hey cherry.....looking good today

tell me....what if you REALLY like a man sitting on the other side....and he doesn't do anything?

will you smile at him all night?

just that?
afraid so..laugh and im not really shy..
just i dont like a man who wouldnt make an effort and try some original approach,why make it so easy for them...cool
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Apr 17, 2011 2:30 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
carenza: doing just fine thank you...

and you?
Doing just fine thanx .cheers peace
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Apr 17, 2011 2:30 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
richfrench: Young MC: Bust A Move Lyrics
Songwriters: Matt Dike; Marvin Young

Now you know what to do just bust a move


hiya richfrench...wave

wonderful song....thank you.
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Apr 17, 2011 2:31 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
tallman51: Marry me Cynical !!!!

I would crawl over 2 mine fields and 27 miles of broken glass just to use mt lens cleaner on your sunglasses !!

Now that's real love !!


hiya tallman! wave

aren't you just lovely?

flirty
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Apr 17, 2011 2:32 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
tallman51
tallman51tallman51Limerick, Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 3,327 Posts
carenza: hiya tallman!

aren't you just lovely?

Hi there Car !!

wave
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Apr 17, 2011 2:32 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
slodrvr64
slodrvr64slodrvr64mexico, Missouri USA69 Posts
Most women who take time to clothe themselves nicely and are meticulous about applying makeup do it for a reason. They want to be noticed! I always compliment a woman on her choice of attire, her hair style or color, etc. Building her self confidence is key in making her feel safe with a total stranger, at that point introduce yourself and if she asks show her some form of I.D. Remember guys, she could just as easily start hollering for the law if she doesn't like your appearance or demeanor.
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Apr 17, 2011 2:33 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
trueheart1941: me i am too damm shy......thats my problem......


Never be shy. If a smile is made across a room, do something about it rather than grinning like a special needs person all night at each other.

The very worst that can happen is a "No". On average, a new friend will be made, at best you may have found your partner.

Look upon it as sending a mail on here to someone. You do it, and it can either work, or it won't.
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Apr 17, 2011 2:34 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
trueheart1941: me i am too damm shy......thats my problem......


hiya trueheart wave

sorry to hear that.

comfort
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Apr 17, 2011 2:35 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
tallman51: Marry me Cynical !!!!

I would crawl over 2 mine fields and 27 miles of broken glass just to use mt lens cleaner on your sunglasses !!

Now that's real love !!


There isn't any minefields around this area, so I'm afraid it will have to be another test.

I know! Sale day at Harrods! Last 20mins in there without being mauled, and it's a blessing.
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Apr 17, 2011 2:36 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
scottyburd: I wouldnt approach a guy no matter how much i liked the look of him...
I Have chocolate. cool
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Apr 17, 2011 2:37 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
slodrvr64: Most women who take time to clothe themselves nicely and are meticulous about applying makeup do it for a reason. They want to be noticed! I always compliment a woman on her choice of attire, her hair style or color, etc. Building her self confidence is key in making her feel safe with a total stranger, at that point introduce yourself and if she asks show her some form of I.D. Remember guys, she could just as easily start hollering for the law if she doesn't like your appearance or demeanor.


hiya slodrvr wave

that is a good one. I think peeps always respond good to a well meant compliment.

thanks for sharing
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Apr 17, 2011 2:38 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Jeeepers: I Have chocolate.



Jeepers....! yay

good to see you man!

and how do you approach hot women?

devil
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Apr 17, 2011 2:48 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
NosleeptillStL
NosleeptillStLNosleeptillStLSt Louis, Missouri USA5 Threads 228 Posts
carenza: hiya nosleep



you're good man!


Hiya cutie,

it takes a good woman to notice...laugh
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Apr 17, 2011 2:50 PM CST how do YOU approach a person in public?
Conorco
ConorcoConorcoMaynooth, Kildare Ireland646 Posts
carenza: Jeepers....!

good to see you man!

and how do you approach hot women?


I usually slip my hand up her dress, if she opens her legs i'm in and if she screams I run.
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