cynicalorange: Freaky is not the word I would have used. Outright scary would suffice. I left the location. It was all I could do without creating a scene, or putting my friend and myself into harms way.
You are aware that the site has meets?
Id hate to make light of anyones experiences...but knowing a lot of people that were there...do you think you could possibly have got the wrong end of the stick? Or if not, why not just have a word with a couple of the reg guys that post here...Id trust them implicitly!
solsticemoon: Id hate to make light of anyones experiences...but knowing a lot of people that were there...do you think you could possibly have got the wrong end of the stick? Or if not, why not just have a word with a couple of the reg guys that post here...Id trust them implicitly!
Was it not you Sol who mentioned (in the pic thread) something had happened to upset CO and she didn't stay? I don't remember the exact word ... working from memory here and it's not as good as it used to be ...
boomboom_uk: Amity mentioned it..but as I say sol the only guys there were darren and ralph and pat who are all in the pics
and like any of us could imagine ralph or pat or darren not stepping in to save a girlie... I dunno what occured here M but Im betting it wasnt with a CS member!
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
solsticemoon: Id hate to make light of anyones experiences...but knowing a lot of people that were there...do you think you could possibly have got the wrong end of the stick? Or if not, why not just have a word with a couple of the reg guys that post here...Id trust them implicitly!
Are you serious? Do you often confuse anger with humour when facing people in real life?
If it was humour, I'm sure as I know my own name, that once they saw I wasn't laughing and actually close to tears, that they would have commented on it only being a joke or whatever.
Maybe you mix with some really odd people, I don't know.
Boomboom: It was Friday. We didn't even get as far as going upstairs to you guys. Couldn't mail you that.
solsticemoon: and like any of us could imagine ralph or pat or darren not stepping in to save a girlie... I dunno what occured here M but Im betting it wasnt with a CS member!
you can see from the pics sol we all had a ball and got on brilliantly my sister and friend were well impressed with the group..there definitely was no trouble at all and we were there from start to finish on friday ...the mind boggles eh...
cynicalorange: Are you serious? Do you often confuse anger with humour when facing people in real life? If it was humour, I'm sure as I know my own name, that once they saw I wasn't laughing and actually close to tears, that they would have commented on it only being a joke or whatever.
Maybe you mix with some really odd people, I don't know. Boomboom: It was Friday. We didn't even get as far as going upstairs to you guys. Couldn't mail you that.
Im sorry you had that trouble CO...thats awful but I can assure you it certainly wasnt anyone in the cs group as I say you can see from the pics pat ralph and darren were the only 3 males who attended friday night
solsticemoon: exactly!...so why leave , I know if anything untoward had happened to any of the ladies at the benidorm meet, Steve or several of the other guys would have immediately got it sorted!
That is the point.You are giving the impression that you are doubtful of the validity of her statements. How insensitive of you!
boomboom_uk: Im sorry you had that trouble CO...thats awful but I can assure you it certainly wasnt anyone in the cs group as I say you can see from the pics pat ralph and darren were the only 3 males who attended friday night
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
solsticemoon: all I can say is, knowing the main organisers, it must have been someone on the sidelines or not with the group at all...but why didnt CO go to Ralph or Pat, have a quite word and get the joker removed?
To be honest, you walk into a bar...and are confronted by someone who states your not welcome. Do you A: make a scene? B: walk away C: GO find the organisers and make them feel embarrassed and uncomfortable too? I would say CO did the best thing..she left.
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
boomboom_uk: Im stunned amity because I was there too and there definitely were no other men there other than the 3 mentioned ...must have been some weirdo
I dont know what to say tbh. They knew her name from here so its likely they know her from here. Horrible really though..
patmac: Young Phillip as well and he is in some shots....
..forgot about him Pat but he is not a cs member so he wouldnt know her..Im wondering why this person never joined in the meet who ever he was ..do you think he seen me an my sis an shat it
Amity: To be honest, you walk into a bar...and are confronted by someone who states your not welcome. Do you A: make a scene? B: walk away C: GO find the organisers and make them feel embarrassed and uncomfortable too? I would say CO did the best thing..she left.
after travelling all that way amity I would have definitely found the organisers I certainly wouldnt have left without speaking to someone..that venue has door men on the doors who would have come and get anyone of us down to sort it Its just weird how this person didnt join the meet
boomboom_uk: ..forgot about him Pat but he is not a cs member so he wouldnt know her..Im wondering why this person never joined in the meet who ever he was ..do you think he seen me an my sis an shat it
Now there is a thought I wonde you and Mags and MMMMMMMMMMMM FORGOT
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
boomboom_uk: after travelling all that way amity I would have definitely found the organisers I certainly wouldnt have left without speaking to someone..that venue has door men on the doors who would have come and get anyone of us down to sort it Its just weird how this person didnt join the meet
I guess we all handle situations differently. You would have demanded to speak to someone.. I would have burst into tears and screamed everybody hates me.. And CO walked away.
She travels alot so i guess she just took her friend and they went and had drinks elsewhere.And i dont blame her tbh. Im just glad she had a friend with her.
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
solsticemoon: exactly!...so why leave , I know if anything untoward had happened to any of the ladies at the benidorm meet, Steve or several of the other guys would have immediately got it sorted!
I've only just noticed this post.
I left as I didn't know if he was part of the group or not. If he was part of the group, well, there goes a lovely evening as everyone's potentially feeling slightly awkward about any underlining pressure.
If not, well all's good. Now where did I leave my time machine?
I'm not one to spoil others nights. So it was easier to leave. We'd had a good 24hrs in the area, so left it as that. Why totally spoil something?
I have already stated that I've not noticed him in any of the photos uploaded so far, and if the photos show the males that were part of the group, then we can safely say that they weren't part of the group.
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I left the location. It was all I could do without creating a scene, or putting my friend and myself into harms way.
You are aware that the site has meets?
Id hate to make light of anyones experiences...but knowing a lot of people that were there...do you think you could possibly have got the wrong end of the stick?
Or if not, why not just have a word with a couple of the reg guys that post here...Id trust them implicitly!