Men's and Women's lies in their profiles (61)

May 19, 2011 3:10 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: That is why I have a fragment of Spanish Literature in my profile. Otherwise I would have to say:
I am bossy with hot temper,........ooooooooooooooops

So, no lies.


wave

Temperature? Matrimonial fever or just a common cold?

grin
May 19, 2011 4:42 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
As you say,meeting the person,if someone is fake,will be revealed.Why then disappoint the person you meet and the same time,make a fool of yourself??? Be dishonest does not pay in the end,honesty does.
Uvita: Dear Members,

I would like to share my and my friends' experience about dating sites.
According to it, men usually add some extra centimeters to their height, and ladies are not always honest about their weight and their age (to say nothing of putting 10-year old pictures on their profiles).

My question is - what for?

anyway it will be revealed during a real meeting and disappointment is not the best thing to feel when you meet a person for the first time .. Or is it more about some role playing, when you want to feel younger, taller, more beautiful , even virtually? Lie, game or self-deciept? Please revert !
May 19, 2011 7:54 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Temperature? Matrimonial fever or just a common cold?

Matrimonial fever??

What is that?crying

I have forgotten about it. I need to register for a "matrimonial fever class" at the State University.

laugh

I guess my answer would be "fever"

wave
May 19, 2011 7:56 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
rytcharlie: i lie on my profile cos if i told you the truth it'd blow your mind

liar

wave
May 20, 2011 7:16 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
taxidiotis
taxidiotistaxidiotisnicosia, Nicosia Cyprus23 Threads 2 Polls 811 Posts
Tulefel: Were they much better?
hello you hug ,i still got nightmares , does this answer laugh
May 20, 2011 9:49 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
chris27292729: As you say,meeting the person,if someone is fake,will be revealed.Why then disappoint the person you meet and the same time,make a fool of yourself??? Be dishonest does not pay in the end,honesty does.


See post above mine – honesty leads to nightmares

laugh
May 20, 2011 1:15 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
Uvita: Dear Members,

I would like to share my and my friends' experience about dating sites.
According to it, men usually add some extra centimeters to their height, and ladies are not always honest about their weight and their age (to say nothing of putting 10-year old pictures on their profiles).

My question is - what for?

anyway it will be revealed during a real meeting and disappointment is not the best thing to feel when you meet a person for the first time .. Or is it more about some role playing, when you want to feel younger, taller, more beautiful , even virtually? Lie, game or self-deciept? Please revert !
Lies have a strange way of bitting one on the rear end!
I have encountered people with photos that were 20yrs old lacking in self confidence being the underlying problem JMO.
Why lie if they ever intend to meet it will be uncovered then and results disaster.
Many are just players and have no intentions of ever meeting anyone so just using and wasting the time of the recipient! Shame!
I try to update my pics every couple of months. I may not be looking much longer though. wave
May 20, 2011 5:05 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: Matrimonial fever??

What is that?

I have forgotten about it. I need to register for a "matrimonial fever class" at the State University.
I guess my answer would be "fever"


wave
Hope, nothing serious. Get better soon!

hug
May 20, 2011 5:15 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Sailfree: Lies have a strange way of bitting one on the rear end!
I have encountered people with photos that were 20yrs old lacking in self confidence being the underlying problem JMO.
Why lie if they ever intend to meet it will be uncovered then and results disaster.
Many are just players and have no intentions of ever meeting anyone so just using and wasting the time of the recipient! Shame!
I try to update my pics every couple of months. I may not be looking much longer though.


wave

Looks like I’ve missed a whole chapter in dating as I never met anyone who lied about their weight or height. Have to meet one like this, just to fill that significant gap in my education.

But seriously, do you meet people just because of their appearance? Is there any correspondence/ phone calles that precedes a date? And wouldn’t the correspondence reveal one or another fact about your counterpart that would make you wonder if the person really is what he claims? Of course, the information we get about each other via internet is scarce and biased. But you do keep that in mind when appointing a date, don’t you.

cheers
May 20, 2011 7:52 PM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Hope, nothing serious. Get better soon!

I am ok, just kidding but thanks Tat
hug
May 21, 2011 7:02 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
taxidiotis
taxidiotistaxidiotisnicosia, Nicosia Cyprus23 Threads 2 Polls 811 Posts
taxidiotis: hello you ,i still got nightmares , does this answer
I cant remember who was it that once said "honestly leads to nightmares"roll eyes
May 21, 2011 9:01 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
taxidiotis: hello you ,i still got nightmares , does this answer


Just wait ‘till you’ve grown up and get married. grin Oh, thén you’ll get the real thing: the missus prancing along your home, no hairdo, no make-up, all the cellulites revealed, telling you bitter truths that everything you do is wrong. You’ll cry and beg:”Honey, please, conceal at least something for one time’s sake…” But there’ll be no merci, only the bare truth!

You will remember your current nightmares as the sweetest dreams.

laugh
May 21, 2011 9:49 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Just wait ‘till you’ve grown up and get married. Oh, thén you’ll get the real thing: the missus prancing along your home, no hairdo, no make-up, all the cellulites revealed, telling you bitter truths that everything you do is wrong. You’ll cry and beg:”Honey, please, conceal at least something for one time’s sake…” But there’ll be no merci, only the bare truth!

You will remember your current nightmares as the sweetest dreams.


uh oh

laugh
May 22, 2011 3:25 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
PATY5371
PATY5371PATY5371Bruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium3 Posts
Dear Members,

Indeed, I put a picture from some time ago, as I don't like my pictures nowadays (I don't feel that they 'represent' me).
Indeed i lied first about my kilo's as I feared that nobody will stop to my profile, just when they'll see my wheight(In fact my mussels and my breast make half of my body wheight-cause this is my constitution-so I can't do anyhing about)What I would suggest to all ladies is to find a 'proffessional photographer' who finds the 'position' which underline their most beutifull physical qualities: 'the eyes' and 'the smile' for example cause in their interest to put here the most beutifull and 'actual' pictures of them, to don't risk dissapoinments.

Anyway, I'm much more concerned about people that think about themself that they have plenty of qualities, and in consequence they look for the 'most' beautiful and the 'most' intelligent woman, eventually 10-20 years younger...You realize if you like or not the physical threats of a person at the very first meeting, but it takes years to know the 'character' of somebody.
May 22, 2011 5:59 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
PATY5371: Dear Members,

Indeed, I put a picture from some time ago, as I don't like my pictures nowadays (I don't feel that they 'represent' me).
Indeed i lied first about my kilo's as I feared that nobody will stop to my profile, just when they'll see my wheight(In fact my mussels and my breast make half of my body wheight-cause this is my constitution-so I can't do anyhing about)What I would suggest to all ladies is to find a 'proffessional photographer' who finds the 'position' which underline their most beutifull physical qualities: 'the eyes' and 'the smile' for example cause in their interest to put here the most beutifull and 'actual' pictures of them, to don't risk dissapoinments.

Anyway, I'm much more concerned about people that think about themself that they have plenty of qualities, and in consequence they look for the 'most' beautiful and the 'most' intelligent woman, eventually 10-20 years younger...You realize if you like or not the physical threats of a person at the very first meeting, but it takes years to know the 'character' of somebody.


Yes, it takes ages to learn what a person’s real weight is. And, in the end of the day, it’s all what matters.

wave
May 22, 2011 8:32 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
taxidiotis
taxidiotistaxidiotisnicosia, Nicosia Cyprus23 Threads 2 Polls 811 Posts
Tulefel: Just wait ‘till you’ve grown up and get married. Oh, thén you’ll get the real thing: the missus prancing along your home, no hairdo, no make-up, all the cellulites revealed, telling you bitter truths that everything you do is wrong. You’ll cry and beg:”Honey, please, conceal at least something for one time’s sake…” But there’ll be no merci, only the bare truth!

You will remember your current nightmares as the sweetest dreams.
That was informativelaugh
May 22, 2011 9:53 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
PATY5371: Dear Members,

Indeed, I put a picture from some time ago, as I don't like my pictures nowadays (I don't feel that they 'represent' me).
Indeed i lied first about my kilo's as I feared that nobody will stop to my profile, just when they'll see my wheight(In fact my mussels and my breast make half of my body wheight-cause this is my constitution-so I can't do anyhing about)What I would suggest to all ladies is to find a 'proffessional photographer' who finds the 'position' which underline their most beutifull physical qualities: 'the eyes' and 'the smile' for example cause in their interest to put here the most beutifull and 'actual' pictures of them, to don't risk dissapoinments.

Anyway, I'm much more concerned about people that think about themself that they have plenty of qualities, and in consequence they look for the 'most' beautiful and the 'most' intelligent woman, eventually 10-20 years younger...You realize if you like or not the physical threats of a person at the very first meeting, but it takes years to know the 'character' of somebody.

I would not choose a professional photographer.

There are many traits much, much, much, more important that people's weight or looks, like: values, good heart, etc.

However, if a person is overweight and that person can not do some sports that can be a problem trying to make a match with a person who does enjoy sports.

coffee
May 22, 2011 11:16 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
In response to: Dear Members,

I would like to share my and my friends' experience about dating sites.
According to it, men usually add some extra centimeters to their height, and ladies are not always honest about their weight and their age (to say nothing of putting 10-year old pictures on their profiles).

My question is - what for?

anyway it will be revealed during a real meeting and disappointment is not the best thing to feel when you meet a person for the first time .. Or is it more about some role playing, when you want to feel younger, taller, more beautiful , even virtually? Lie, game or self-deciept? Please revert !



I haven't been on the Forums for a while....partly because I have only just come back on the site....but today, 2 threads caught my eye....this , and ' scammers ' .

To this , I would say, from personal experience , that the ' problem ' is much deeper than just appearance....but certainly people I have met have lied. In fact most of them have !

But it's not just about looks, because if you are looking for a friend or more....that's not the main thing. ( It helps, of course grin )
Isn't it more about who the person is ????

I read their profiles......and happy people turn out to be bloody miserable ! doh
People who work.....don't ; or it's a pittance / they are financially stuffed.
They are divorced....and they are still living in the same house or business as their ' Ex'...or their house is due to be sold !
They are looking for love.....and they are so desperate, they'll say anything to try to attract you.
etc, etc, yawn...yawn very mad

Yes, I have met all sorts...and maybe I have been unlucky ( or stupid ? ) but I reckon only maybe 1% of women I have met , really tell you the truth.......at least about things that matter !
AND YES....I AM SERIOUS...ONLY 1 PER CENT !!!!

Sorry......but I just don't get it !!
It takes a little while to know someone even if you agree to meet; and the B/S I have encountered is truly laughable.

My profile now says ' please don't contact me unless you look or are like the person you describe in your Profile ' .
It all seems like it should be so simple ...but guess that's life ?

Doesn't stop the scammers....but I know them from the first message by now.
May 23, 2011 1:59 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
lifeisadream: That is why I have a fragment of Spanish Literature in my profile. Otherwise I would have to say:
I am bossy with hot temper,........ooooooooooooooops

So, no lies.



if you come with a whip, get your coat - you're pulled dancing
May 23, 2011 9:06 AM CST Men's and Women's lies in their profiles
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
rytcharlie: if you come with a whip, get your coat - you're pulled


motorcycle

Wait!
Is that good?

hmmm

So sweet of you!

teddybear

I have not seen you for some time. I hope all is well with you, see you around!

hug
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