Plz give me tips for seeking a dating woman. (142)
cherrygc: OUCH!
That happens when I'm not sure if I really know that person even if the face looks familiar . . .
Thank you
That happens when I'm not sure if I really know that person even if the face looks familiar . . .
Thank you
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SummerUK: I feel guilty now for being mean to you yesterday when I was having a hormonal meltdown
I am sorry and I hope you do find someone and I don't blame you for wanting to be in any of the coutries that you mentioned either..
Good luck hon
I am sorry and I hope you do find someone and I don't blame you for wanting to be in any of the coutries that you mentioned either..
Good luck hon
Hi Summer.....Like you did in your post, I have used the word "hon" quite often in the forums. I like using the word because I want to show fondness to the person I am responding to but I have been told it's not a good idea to use words of endearment in an international forum. I don't know why. I would think most people like it when someone shows fondness towards them.Here we are telling him not to use the word "dear" but we turn around and use words of endearment on him.
I'm not trashing you Summer. Your post was the perfect example of a point I wanted to make.
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montecito: Hi Summer.....Like you did in your post, I have used the word "hon" quite often in the forums. I like using the word because I want to show fondness to the person I am responding to but I have been told it's not a good idea to use words of endearment in an international forum. I don't know why. I would think most people like it when someone shows fondness towards them.
Here we are telling him not to use the word "dear" but we turn around and use words of endearment on him.
I'm not trashing you Summer. Your post was the perfect example of a point I wanted to make.
Here we are telling him not to use the word "dear" but we turn around and use words of endearment on him.
I'm not trashing you Summer. Your post was the perfect example of a point I wanted to make.
I think we tend to use terms of endearment with people that we did have some kind of initial contact by posting to on the forums. Things are however different when you adress that way in a message to someone you have no previous contact with.
JMO
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montecito: Hi Summer.....Like you did in your post, I have used the word "hon" quite often in the forums. I like using the word because I want to show fondness to the person I am responding to but I have been told it's not a good idea to use words of endearment in an international forum. I don't know why. I would think most people like it when someone shows fondness towards them.
Here we are telling him not to use the word "dear" but we turn around and use words of endearment on him.
I'm not trashing you Summer. Your post was the perfect example of a point I wanted to make.
Hey Monte Here we are telling him not to use the word "dear" but we turn around and use words of endearment on him.
I'm not trashing you Summer. Your post was the perfect example of a point I wanted to make.
Well I didn't actually say anything about him using the word dear.. lolI was apologising for being completely unreasonable yesterday.. It happens when I have an unexpected episode of PMS
I agree with you completely, I like it when people use lil pet names and I don't reserve them only for people I know.
I use them in real life so why stop here? I'm a naturally warm affectionate person (apart from PMS meltdown
) so Sometimes its nice to use lil terms of endearment too so the other person knows you are being sincere. I don't care what other people say lolDon't let anyone stop you hon
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Liebe2: I think we tend to use terms of endearment with people that we did have some kind of initial contact by posting to on the forums. Things are however different when you adress that way in a message to someone you have no previous contact with.
JMO
JMO
Good point Liebe. I've never responded to Zeb's threads because I'm not sure if he's playing a game to get people riled up. Giving him the benefit of doubt that he really wants advice, if someone on here hasn't had contact with him before, then why would that person post a term of endearment towards him. The respect has to work both ways.
I'm uncomfortable using Summer's post. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body, it's just her post that is my example.
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SummerUK: Hey Monte Well I didn't actually say anything about him using the word dear.. lol
I was apologising for being completely unreasonable yesterday.. It happens when I have an unexpected episode of PMS
I agree with you completely, I like it when people use lil pet names and I don't reserve them only for people I know.
I use them in real life so why stop here? I'm a naturally warm affectionate person (apart from PMS meltdown ) so Sometimes its nice to use lil terms of endearment too so the other person knows you are being sincere. I don't care what other people say lol
Don't let anyone stop you hon
I was apologising for being completely unreasonable yesterday.. It happens when I have an unexpected episode of PMS
I agree with you completely, I like it when people use lil pet names and I don't reserve them only for people I know.
I use them in real life so why stop here? I'm a naturally warm affectionate person (apart from PMS meltdown ) so Sometimes its nice to use lil terms of endearment too so the other person knows you are being sincere. I don't care what other people say lol
Don't let anyone stop you hon
I agree with you completely hon 
When the clerk in the supermarket gives me my change I might say, thanks hon. When I'm talking to my insurance rep, to end the call I might say thanks hon. It's just a nice way of saying, thanks for your help, or as in some cases on here, trying to comfort someone....
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SummerUK: Hey Monte Well I didn't actually say anything about him using the word dear.. lol
I was apologising for being completely unreasonable yesterday.. It happens when I have an unexpected episode of PMS
I agree with you completely, I like it when people use lil pet names and I don't reserve them only for people I know.
I use them in real life so why stop here? I'm a naturally warm affectionate person (apart from PMS meltdown ) so Sometimes its nice to use lil terms of endearment too so the other person knows you are being sincere. I don't care what other people say lol
Don't let anyone stop you hon
I was apologising for being completely unreasonable yesterday.. It happens when I have an unexpected episode of PMS
I agree with you completely, I like it when people use lil pet names and I don't reserve them only for people I know.
I use them in real life so why stop here? I'm a naturally warm affectionate person (apart from PMS meltdown ) so Sometimes its nice to use lil terms of endearment too so the other person knows you are being sincere. I don't care what other people say lol
Don't let anyone stop you hon
Not to long ago Boban was in a thread I wrote and he posted something other then the subject. He wrote....I hope I haven't hijacked the thread. I respond.....no you haven't honey. After I posted it I thought maybe I shouldn't have done that but I wanted him to know that I didn't care that he went off subject. I didn't use the word as if I said it towards a b/f, I just wanted him to know it was okay...
BTW, hope you are feeling better Summer......
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montecito: Not to long ago Boban was in a thread I wrote and he posted something other then the subject. He wrote....I hope I haven't hijacked the thread. I respond.....no you haven't honey. After I posted it I thought maybe I shouldn't have done that but I wanted him to know that I didn't care that he went off subject. I didn't use the word as if I said it towards a b/f, I just wanted him to know it was okay...
BTW, hope you are feeling better Summer......
Oh and yes thank you I feel a lot better today lol... but I'll feel wonderful when the day comes when I can spread my wings and take off again BTW, hope you are feeling better Summer......
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ZEB113: Dear, I Start a new forum here. You give me positive tips for seeking a dating woman. I like dating woman. How i can seeing them.
give me perfect and positive tips.
lets start!!!!1
give me perfect and positive tips.
lets start!!!!1
just go and get married. it is easy to get a date that way..trust me
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mnowsa: just go and get married. it is easy to get a date that way..trust me
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ZEB113: you means i not say them "dear" only profile name?
You may call me Dear anytime and I won't be offended by it.
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drbombay: I was also lambasted for using dear which I really meant no offense but learned a lesson....
I think sometimes some people have too much of an ego. Not because of being arrogant but through self protection but they take it too far.. I'm not judging them though.. I dunno what they have been throughIf you called me Dear I'd probably just do this ....
and then tell you I prefer 'Babe' 
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SummerUK: I think sometimes some people have too much of an ego. Not because of being arrogant but through self protection but they take it too far.. I'm not judging them though.. I dunno what they have been through
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
I don't know about this word. I was though this word called for respectful. now i know about this word and not use
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ZEB113: I don't know about this word. I was though this word called for respectful. now i know about this word and not use
Its just a little old fashioned nowadays thats all and some people do use it in a condescending way so its not the most popular word to use but you weren't to know that.. 
Refering again to my post above though Please don't start calling anyone 'babe' either or you'll surely get into more trouble
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SummerUK: I think sometimes some people have too much of an ego. Not because of being arrogant but through self protection but they take it too far.. I'm not judging them though.. I dunno what they have been through
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
Ok-TY as I know now women from UK have a problem with the term for whatever reason but I will respect it BABE.. ------ This thread is Archived ------
SummerUK: I think sometimes some people have too much of an ego. Not because of being arrogant but through self protection but they take it too far.. I'm not judging them though.. I dunno what they have been through
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
If you called me Dear I'd probably just do this .... and then tell you I prefer 'Babe'
I think my dear is a term of endearment, my dear
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ZEB113: I don't know about this word. I was though this word called for respectful. now i know about this word and not use
You are doing fine. The more you read here in the forums the more you will learn.
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xonia420: i would only say one thing STOP SEEKING...
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That happens when I'm not sure if I really know that person even if the face looks familiar . . .
Thank you