Being Dumped. ( Archived) (29)

Jun 11, 2011 3:41 PM CST Being Dumped.
Zimzane
ZimzaneZimzaneManhattan, Kansas USA40 Threads 2 Polls 352 Posts
Why would somebody do this? I had a friend who was in a relationship for a long period of time. His honey told him she loved him one night and then the next day dumped him like he was a piece of trash into a garbage can. She left him.



My friends heart is broken. Talk about a shattered man. I think that is the worst hurt anybody can go through.
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Jun 11, 2011 8:41 PM CST Being Dumped.
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
Who know Zim why these things happen, but they do...All the time male and females tell this story, and say they never saw it coming....I just don't get how someone lives with a mate and never saw the evil side of them....never suspected for one minute that they were not truly loved by their mate. Sometimes it is easier to let the chips fall, when they fall, and then deal with the mess when ur forced to.
Regardless, it is a lesson, a terrible lesson, but none the less a lesson. Be there for your friend, and assure him that all women r not like this....Good luck to u both.handshake
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Jun 11, 2011 9:09 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
women dump when they are done. the best strategy is to have several GF , so when dumps u , u have 4 more..
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Jun 11, 2011 9:10 PM CST Being Dumped.
daisy333
daisy333daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia28 Threads 7 Polls 514 Posts
Zimzane: Why would somebody do this? I had a friend who was in a relationship for a long period of time. His honey told him she loved him one night and then the next day dumped him like he was a piece of trash into a garbage can. She left him.
My friends heart is broken. Talk about a shattered man. I think that is the worst hurt anybody can go through.


There's no law against ending a relationship if you're not happy. She may well have meant it when she said she loved him but as the song goes, sometimes love just ain't enough.

Why did she end it the way she did? There's always a reason - always. Hopefully she gave him her reasons so that he has some closure. She may have tried to subtlely let him know that she wasn't happy quite a few times - women often forget that guys don't really get subtle hints. Sometimes they bottle up their disappointment and frustration until something happens and they just can't contain it anymore.

It's always ideal to try and treat the person you are breaking up with with decency and respect. If she didn't do this - and especially if she didn't give a reason for ending it - that tells him everything he needs to know.
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Jun 11, 2011 9:10 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Ladefoss23: women dump when they are done. the best strategy is to have several GF , so when dumps u , u have 4 more..



I am not being sarcastic, but being realistic..
they don't just dump, they dump ruthlessly, they just turn around and leave without even saying why
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Jun 11, 2011 9:11 PM CST Being Dumped.
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Ladefoss23: women dump when they are done. the best strategy is to have several GF , so when dumps u , u have 4 more..


I really admire you on this laugh
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Jun 11, 2011 9:12 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
There's no law against ending a relationship if you're not happy. She may well have meant it when she said she loved him but as the song goes, sometimes love just ain't enough.

oh yes there is mam, it is called the law of honesty fairness, humanity, respect etc..
u can't just spit a person out..universe will get back at ya
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Jun 11, 2011 9:13 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
manroe23: I really admire you on this


I have never done that myself, but i wish I had, i wouldn't be hurt so bad
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Jun 11, 2011 9:15 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Zimzane: Why would somebody do this? I had a friend who was in a relationship for a long period of time. His honey told him she loved him one night and then the next day dumped him like he was a piece of trash into a garbage can. She left him.
My friends heart is broken. Talk about a shattered man. I think that is the worst hurt anybody can go through.


I think this society has become a throwaway society.Dump one get another.Next.
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Jun 11, 2011 9:16 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Zimzane: Why would somebody do this? I had a friend who was in a relationship for a long period of time. His honey told him she loved him one night and then the next day dumped him like he was a piece of trash into a garbage can. She left him.
My friends heart is broken. Talk about a shattered man. I think that is the worst hurt anybody can go through.


look, we men must face the reality...women leave, the minute they find someone better, richer, more handsome,etc etc..

and there are exceptions ofcourse, but very very few
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Jun 11, 2011 9:17 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Ccincy: I think this society has become a throwaway society.Dump one get another.Next.
thumbs up thumbs up

it is not just dumping, it is how one dumps another.
one can always act like human, even in dumping
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Jun 11, 2011 9:19 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Ladefoss23: it is not just dumping, it is how one dumps another.
one can always act like human, even in dumping


I know Ladefoss.But some people wouldn't know the meaning of being human.This world has become a pretty sad palce.
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Jun 11, 2011 9:21 PM CST Being Dumped.
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Ccincy: I know Ladefoss.But some people wouldn't know the meaning of being human.This world has become a pretty sad palce.


We gonna need help to save this world grin
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Jun 11, 2011 9:21 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Ccincy: I know Ladefoss.But some people wouldn't know the meaning of being human.This world has become a pretty sad palce.


as long as you know you are good, down deep in ur soul, it doesn't mater wat goes on around the world..
yes we get hurt, but at the end of the day, u can put ur head on ur pillow , knowing that u didn't hurt anyone, and tht's a great feelingthumbs up
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Jun 11, 2011 9:22 PM CST Being Dumped.
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Ladefoss23: I have never done that myself, but i wish I had, i wouldn't be hurt so bad


Damn wow go find them now laugh
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Jun 11, 2011 9:24 PM CST Being Dumped.
B38Q39
B38Q39B38Q39Ridgewood, New York USA26 Threads 147 Posts
Ladefoss23: women dump when they are done. the best strategy is to have several GF , so when dumps u , u have 4 more..
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Jun 11, 2011 9:25 PM CST Being Dumped.
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
Ladefoss23: I am not being sarcastic, but being realistic..
they don't just dump, they dump ruthlessly, they just turn around and leave without even saying why


Ur right of course, but U also realize that men do the same exact thing to women.....and sometimes with a few kids.....often for a younger sweet thing.....JUST SAYINGdoh
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Jun 11, 2011 9:25 PM CST Being Dumped.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Ladefoss23: as long as you know you are good, down deep in ur soul, it doesn't mater wat goes on around the world..
yes we get hurt, but at the end of the day, u can put ur head on ur pillow , knowing that u didn't hurt anyone, and tht's a great feeling


Yes it is a great feeling.I can go to bed tonight with both my eyes shut knowing that I didn't hurt anyone.I never have to sleep with one eye open so to speak.
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Jun 11, 2011 9:30 PM CST Being Dumped.
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Without knowing why she dumped him it is impossible to make a guess as to why she ended the relationship.Did they have any ongoing problems that they were trying to overcome? Maybe she finally decided that some problems in a relationship can't be fixed no matter how much you love each other?





Listen we are all adults here and almost all of us have been through more then one long term relationship.Sometime we have been the one to end the relationship and sometimes it was the other person.Pain is a part of life,a necessary part.If there was no pain then how would we know how good joy feels?


You're friend will eventually get over his pain unless he refuses to let go of the hurt and anger.Most of us here have had our heart stomped on a time or two,and we are still standing.


I am glad I had my heart broken before,and am not with a certain past fiancee,because if were still together we would still be trying to hold together a relationship that was never going to work.In the end he saved me even more heart break by ending the relationship.Also if we were still together I would not presently be with my current fiancee who is a perfect match for me in every way.
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Jun 13, 2011 6:49 PM CST Being Dumped.
thelatinodancer
thelatinodancerthelatinodancerLeuven, Flemish Brabant Belgium9 Posts
Zimzane: Why would somebody do this? I had a friend who was in a relationship for a long period of time. His honey told him she loved him one night and then the next day dumped him like he was a piece of trash into a garbage can. She left him.
My friends heart is broken. Talk about a shattered man. I think that is the worst hurt anybody can go through.



Some people are not serious enough good at pretending and most important selfish. They want to do whatever they want to do at any time.It doesnt even matter if they are in relationship or not .I think your friend should be happy .At least that woman could have make him lose more time ..You dont need someone like that in your life...It is really bad luck..You cant know people exactly...
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