Thing to say (and not to say) when sending someone a mail.... (21)
DasheDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 21 PostsSo what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
Dashe: So what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
just dont tell them your real name
Hey Buddy
i hate mails that just say "hi".. nothing else..
or mails that say love the profile but they havent actually looked at the profile..
or mails that have there email address attached..
Things to say..
Something along the lines of hey hows things.. seen your profile. had a look.. would love to know more. (then say a few things about yourself) at least then its a bit interesting and youve gone to the bother of actually writing a mail.. means there interested in getting to know you..
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or mails that say love the profile but they havent actually looked at the profile..
or mails that have there email address attached..
Things to say..
Something along the lines of hey hows things.. seen your profile. had a look.. would love to know more. (then say a few things about yourself) at least then its a bit interesting and youve gone to the bother of actually writing a mail.. means there interested in getting to know you..
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Dashe: So what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
i tend to keep it simple no essays, just short and sweet ask them how they are etc maybe mention something from their profileDashe: So what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
never ask what are you up to? makes no sense
Dashe: So what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
never ask what are you up to? makes no sense
yummyMum84: i hate mails that just say "hi".. nothing else..
or mails that say love the profile but they havent actually looked at the profile..
or mails that have there email address attached.. Things to say..
Something along the lines of hey hows things.. seen your profile. had a look.. would love to know more. (then say a few things about yourself) at least then its a bit interesting and youve gone to the bother of actually writing a mail.. means there interested in getting to know you..
.
or mails that say love the profile but they havent actually looked at the profile..
or mails that have there email address attached.. Things to say..
Something along the lines of hey hows things.. seen your profile. had a look.. would love to know more. (then say a few things about yourself) at least then its a bit interesting and youve gone to the bother of actually writing a mail.. means there interested in getting to know you..
.
gingernail: never ask what are you up to? makes no sense
what are you up to tonight?Dashe: Hi Friend :)
Why is that?
Why is that?
make a move on aims!
jbomf: what are you up to tonight?
talking to ye fine folk
u?
my name on the profile.
but hate short mail, like how are you?
or fancy a chat? 
but hate short mail, like how are you?
or fancy a chat? TwinkleStar_70: my name on the profile.
but hate short mail, like how are you? or fancy a chat?
but hate short mail, like how are you? or fancy a chat?
i have tried it all nothing works for me ha
women talk about men leaving short emails... when they are probably worse at sending mails.....one liners thats all anyone should do for first mail
its only an opener whats the piont in sending a long first mail to someone if they might not reply
anyway everyone on this site don't care about the size of mail its the picture 
its only an opener whats the piont in sending a long first mail to someone if they might not reply anyway everyone on this site don't care about the size of mail its the picture
Dashe: So what would people suggest to say (and not to say) when trying to start up a conversation with some people on here ?
I would say something like ' you look nice, fancy a chat sometime'.
I would not say 'you look just like my ex wife, fancy a date'
darren9030: I would say something like ' you look nice, fancy a chat sometime'.
I would not say 'you look just like my ex wife, fancy a date'
I would not say 'you look just like my ex wife, fancy a date'
Having said that Darren, there is a man on here that looks exactly like my ex husband, P.........f, is his name.
annaroach: Having said that Darren, there is a man on here that looks exactly like my ex husband, P.........f, is his name.
Right, that's awkward then if he takes your fancy in any way 
darren9030: Right, that's awkward then if he takes your fancy in any way
No, just saying
to the guys who say
"you look nice but i'm much younger than you is that a problem?"
Yes that question is a problem
"you look nice but i'm much younger than you is that a problem?"
Yes that question is a problem
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