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unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 PostsLiamMG: no if you dont see someone you attracted to you dont really have a reason to talk to her nothing has made you notice her and also im shy round girls so i wouldnt do it alot
lol thats what i mean when i say attraction outways personality lol if i see a girl i fancy ill go and try speak to her, if i look at her and say oh not i dont really fancy her i wont 
Fraya: I think you`re still stunned he agreed with you
he actually said it how it is lol
LiamMG: no if you dont see someone you attracted to you dont really have a reason to talk to her nothing has made you notice her
and also im shy round girls so i wouldnt do it alot
and also im shy round girls so i wouldnt do it alot
By the same token you could deem her too good looking and decide you didnt stand a chance, not talk to her and never know. Its all circumstance
unouwantme2: lol thats what i mean when i say attraction outways personality lol if i see a girl i fancy ill go and try speak to her, if i look at her and say oh not i dont really fancy her i wont
Dont mind them Uno...all that guff the women are feeding you is crap. I got near flung out of here for this in another era but its true....
Fraya: By the same token you could deem her too good looking and decide you didnt stand a chance, not talk to her and never know. Its all circumstance
Yep, I've done that too. Its a lifetime of conditioning.
unouwantme2: lol thats what i mean when i say attraction outways personality lol if i see a girl i fancy ill go and try speak to her, if i look at her and say oh not i dont really fancy her i wont
yea but she could end up being the stupidest person in the world when you talk to herFraya: By the same token you could deem her too good looking and decide you didnt stand a chance, not talk to her and never know. Its all circumstance
that is true tooLiamMG: yea but she could end up being the stupidest person in the world when you talk to her
and she might be the most intelligent, then you have a girl who you can intellect with and you fancy skyblue43: Yep, I've done that too. Its a lifetime of conditioning.
What the worst that can happen? People are people, people like people. Social conditioning can be challenged...its allowed.
unouwantme2: and she might be the most intelligent, then you have a girl who you can intellect with and you fancy
and that be great if happened at the end of the day looks and personality both have a part to play but your not gonna be with someone just because they are good looking
Fraya: What the worst that can happen? People are people, people like people. Social conditioning can be challenged...its allowed.
Agreed. But its wrong to get on to Uno for saying he has to consider a woman good looking before he will talk to her with a view to it going further. I've seen numerous women here, as is there right in my opinion, say that they wouldn't date a bald man, a short man, a man with hair on his back, a smoker, a drinker...the list goes on. No consideration for what the person might be like. When a guy then says he wouldn't date someone he considers unattractive or, god forbid, chubby he is attacked for being shallow...
skyblue43: Agreed. But its wrong to get on to Uno for saying he has to consider a woman good looking before he will talk to her with a view to it going further. I've seen numerous women here, as is there right in my opinion, say that they wouldn't date a bald man, a short man, a man with hair on his back, a smoker, a drinker...the list goes on. No consideration for what the person might be like. When a guy then says he wouldn't date someone he considers unattractive or, god forbid, chubby he is attacked for being shallow...
Ya, I took a few mins to consider that. Why would a guy of Unos age and experience sign up to a dating site unless he had a particular "type" in mind. And needless to say, all the stunning 19yr old godesses sign up here
LiamMG: yea i know that but its gotta be the type of personality you like
again i think most would say a jolly happy go lucky personality would sufface Fraya: Ya, I took a few mins to consider that. Why would a guy of Unos age and experience sign up to a dating site unless he had a particular "type" in mind. And needless to say, all the stunning 19yr old godesses sign up here
i like women that i physically fancy BUT i dont have 1 TYPE 
Fraya: Ya, I took a few mins to consider that. Why would a guy of Unos age and experience sign up to a dating site unless he had a particular "type" in mind. And needless to say, all the stunning 19yr old godesses sign up here
He has no experience..he is here to dip his toe in the water. No shame in that...
jeez lads
one mans owl is another mans nightingale
it really is all about the "click"
so looks dont come into it......i might think a girl is drop dead gorgeous,and ye three lads might have me sectioned....!!!
so as fraya said...its there to be challenged....and it is ....all the time
one mans owl is another mans nightingale
it really is all about the "click"
so looks dont come into it......i might think a girl is drop dead gorgeous,and ye three lads might have me sectioned....!!!
so as fraya said...its there to be challenged....and it is ....all the time
Fraya: Ya, I took a few mins to consider that. Why would a guy of Unos age and experience sign up to a dating site unless he had a particular "type" in mind. And needless to say, all the stunning 19yr old godesses sign up here
I have a type in mind too....is that wrong?
skyblue43: I agree totally with you. I have a sister ... dude, let me stop you just there!
bmcg1: jeez lads
one mans owl is another mans nightingale
it really is all about the "click"
so looks dont come into it......i might think a girl is drop dead gorgeous,and ye three lads might have me sectioned....!!!
so as fraya said...its there to be challenged....and it is ....all the time
one mans owl is another mans nightingale
it really is all about the "click"
so looks dont come into it......i might think a girl is drop dead gorgeous,and ye three lads might have me sectioned....!!!
so as fraya said...its there to be challenged....and it is ....all the time
No argument there...but you have to find her attractive. Thats my only point. Its kinda blindingly obvious, to the point of not being worth saying it, that different people will have different ideas as to what is attractive...
unouwantme2: lol thats what i mean when i say attraction outways personality lol if i see a girl i fancy ill go and try speak to her, if i look at her and say oh not i dont really fancy her i wont
Phyiscal attraction comes first. There has to be something to grab ones attention in the first place. Personality is what will get you coming back the next time.Let face it... A guy could look like Brad Pitt on the outside and be a complete plank on the inside. Same for women with Angelina as the Model.
'Life' does not exist in a vacuum.
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