WHAT WOULD YOU DO (71)
unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Postssalanky: well its a day you should both look back on and say how you told everyone just how much you loved eachother and how committed you were to spending your lives together. i dont think anyone gets married with a view to doing it again further down the line, if thats the case theres something wrong to start with but for some people its worth the expense just to have a good day you will never forget, then again, you have the others who do it because they need to for whatever reason which i think is wrong but then again i cant see myself doing the whole marriage and kids thing but thats just me
well id probably say i want kids but then again i dont no
unouwantme2: well id probably say i want kids but then again i dont no
see i know i dont want kids and theres no wavering there at all, if it was to happen it wouldnt be planned though and id not give it up but ill never plan to have a baby, again though just me and who i am, thankfully my OH accepts that and is fine with it 
@xxheartofgoldxx
aww thank you its just sinking in at the moment, its kind of Amazing.
never thought I would be Mrs anyone, it just happended and I'm delighted it did.
aww thank you its just sinking in at the moment, its kind of Amazing.
never thought I would be Mrs anyone, it just happended and I'm delighted it did.
vinny1967: Do as I say not as I do
hear no see no speak no evil, what monkey see monkey do..
rescipe to a perfect relationship
salanky: see i know i dont want kids and theres no wavering there at all, if it was to happen it wouldnt be planned though and id not give it up but ill never plan to have a baby, again though just me and who i am, thankfully my OH accepts that and is fine with it
thats hugely important but it ain really something you talk about at the begginnin of the relationshiopur welcome,
u just gave me a reason to believe in this online dateing thing,
thank u,x
u just gave me a reason to believe in this online dateing thing,
thank u,x
unouwantme2: thats hugely important but it ain really something you talk about at the begginnin of the relationshiop
all depends on the circumstances of the relationship and where both people are in their lives at the time along with previous relationships 
unouwantme2: we dont all get what we want in life
what
now thats news to me 
Amazing_Eyes: Don't understand why she had not tested the water so to speak, dropped a few hints and brought it up in conversation.
Before my fiancée proposed he brought it up in round about ways for ages so to speak, you can never be sure. Therefore it’s best to chat about it.
Off course the supprise it fantastic, but if I’m being 100% honest, he dropped few hints, before asking me to be his wife
Before my fiancée proposed he brought it up in round about ways for ages so to speak, you can never be sure. Therefore it’s best to chat about it.
Off course the supprise it fantastic, but if I’m being 100% honest, he dropped few hints, before asking me to be his wife
Congrats Amazing Eyes.........Delighted for you and wish you the best of luck in the future.
salanky: all depends on the circumstances of the relationship and where both people are in their lives at the time along with previous relationships
ill put it this way if you got with someone and started a proper relationship, would saying you dont want kids be something you would say at the beginninitchywitch: what now thats news to me
sorry to break it to u 
unouwantme2: ill put it this way if you got with someone and started a proper relationship, would saying you dont want kids be something you would say at the beginnin
for me yes but thats because im definite in my decision and i couldnt let myself be with someone that wanted kids knowing i dont as it wouldnt be fair on themsalanky: for me yes but thats because im definite in my decision and i couldnt let myself be with someone that wanted kids knowing i dont as it wouldnt be fair on them
exactly, if you dont or do want kids it should be said early in a relationshipitchywitch: no worries i'm just glad someone finally told me
your welcome 
@vinny1967
awww thanks, you too, wish you all the best in the future,
you always seem very nice postee, and seem true to yourself and your beliefs,
all the best with it
Amazing_Eyes
AE
awww thanks, you too, wish you all the best in the future,
you always seem very nice postee, and seem true to yourself and your beliefs,
all the best with it
Amazing_Eyes
AE
unouwantme2: exactly, if you dont or do want kids it should be said early in a relationship
i thought you said its not something you should talk about early in a relationship though 
Amazing_Eyes: @vinny1967
awww thanks, you too, wish you all the best in the future,
you always seem very nice postee, and seem true to yourself and your beliefs,
all the best with it
Amazing_Eyes
AE
awww thanks, you too, wish you all the best in the future,
you always seem very nice postee, and seem true to yourself and your beliefs,
all the best with it
Amazing_Eyes
AE
best of luck for the future and hope you have many happy years together
salanky: i thought you said its not something you should talk about early in a relationship though
if i did say that i ment it is something you should discuss 
unouwantme2: if i did say that i ment it is something you should discuss
makes a wee bit more sense now 
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