WHAT WOULD YOU DO (71)
unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Postssaw this on a little snippet on a newspaper about an overseas couple today!! the women proposed to the man and he turned her down saying he didnt want to get married but that he still loved her.. she called his bluff and dumped him!! what would you doi in a case like this?? personally i dont think its a cause for the relationship to end 
unouwantme2: saw this on a little snippet on a newspaper about an overseas couple today!! the women proposed to the man and he turned her down saying he didnt want to get married but that he still loved her.. she called his bluff and dumped him!! what would you doi in a case like this?? personally i dont think its a cause for the relationship to end
i would have thought it would be something that as a couple you would have talked about before and then she would have known his views. plenty of people dont want to get married cause for some its just a piece of paper and for others its a mere formality as they feel its what they are 'meant' to do. unouwantme2: saw this on a little snippet on a newspaper about an overseas couple today!! the women proposed to the man and he turned her down saying he didnt want to get married but that he still loved her.. she called his bluff and dumped him!! what would you doi in a case like this?? personally i dont think its a cause for the relationship to end
It is if she wants to get married
If I loved her I would marry her if its what she really wanted.
unouwantme2: saw this on a little snippet on a newspaper about an overseas couple today!! the women proposed to the man and he turned her down saying he didnt want to get married but that he still loved her.. she called his bluff and dumped him!! what would you doi in a case like this?? personally i dont think its a cause for the relationship to end
i think he burst her bubble
why rush someone into something and if things were going good ruin what ye had!!
a ring doesnt change how someone feels for u
bubbles85: i think he burst her bubble
why rush someone into something and if things were going good ruin what ye had!!
a ring doesnt change how someone feels for u
couldnt put it better myself.. there is so much rubbish in this day and age about marrige, its crazywhy rush someone into something and if things were going good ruin what ye had!!
a ring doesnt change how someone feels for u
unouwantme2: saw this on a little snippet on a newspaper about an overseas couple today!! the women proposed to the man and he turned her down saying he didnt want to get married but that he still loved her.. she called his bluff and dumped him!! what would you doi in a case like this?? personally i dont think its a cause for the relationship to end
http://youtu.be/Ug2hLQv6WeYvinny1967: It is if she wants to get married
If I loved her I would marry her if its what she really wanted.
why not say to her if you trust me you will believe me that i love you and that a piece of paper is not needed to prove thisIf I loved her I would marry her if its what she really wanted.
unouwantme2: couldnt put it better myself.. there is so much rubbish in this day and age about marrige, its crazy
a relationship is about what ye both want,it doesnt just go the one way
and u should never push someone into anything because in the end its just not going to work
bubbles85: a relationship is about what ye both want,it doesnt just go the one way
and u should never push someone into anything because in the end its just not going to work
exactly but see the mindset of some personnell is oh if he/she wont marry me then they dont love me and want to be with me, thats pure crapand u should never push someone into anything because in the end its just not going to work
bubbles85: how can one day show how much someone loves u
all that money put in just to show them that
yep, piece of paper doesnt prove your love for someoneall that money put in just to show them that
unouwantme2: why not say to her if you trust me you will believe me that i love you and that a piece of paper is not needed to prove this
You obviously haven't seen a woman who knows what she wants and is determined to get it
Its no biggie for me to be honest. All things being equal I wont marry again but if its that important to my partner and its something she really wanted....... why not
xxheartofgoldxx: its ment to b what u both want and not just a 1sided thing..
Who says
Compromise is important in any relationship and it wouldnt change the fact that I still loved her.
vinny1967: You obviously haven't seen a woman who knows what she wants and is determined to get it
Its no biggie for me to be honest. All things being equal I wont marry again but if its that important to my partner and its something she really wanted....... why not
because its not something you want Its no biggie for me to be honest. All things being equal I wont marry again but if its that important to my partner and its something she really wanted....... why not
vinny1967: Who says
Compromise is important in any relationship and it wouldnt change the fact that I still loved her.
Compromise is important in any relationship and it wouldnt change the fact that I still loved her.
every1 is differant ,but me,i would rather it would b what we both would want,coz by makeing sum1 happy by giveing them sumtin that they want does'nt mean that u will b happy 2.....
unouwantme2: because its not something you want
If I'm in a relationship I will end up doing things I don't want.
Something you will get used to in the future I'm sure
vinny1967: If I'm in a relationship I will end up doing things I don't want.
Something you will get used to in the future I'm sure
so your her carpet are ya??Something you will get used to in the future I'm sure
xxheartofgoldxx: every1 is differant ,but me,i would rather it would b what we both would want,coz by makeing sum1 happy by giveing them sumtin that they want does'nt mean that u will b happy 2.....
I would be happy because I would be making the decision and not being forced into it. That only leads to resentment.
I wouldn't do anything like that without weighing up the pros and cons and I certainly wouldn't make someone feel guilty over a decision I made. It wouldnt be an issue.
And besides she would be happy, and if she is happy so am I
Don't understand why she had not tested the water so to speak, dropped a few hints and brought it up in conversation.
Before my fiancée proposed
he brought it up in round about ways for ages so to speak, you can never be sure. Therefore it’s best to chat about it.
Off course the supprise it fantastic, but if I’m being 100% honest, he dropped few hints, before asking me to be his wife
Before my fiancée proposed
he brought it up in round about ways for ages so to speak, you can never be sure. Therefore it’s best to chat about it. Off course the supprise it fantastic, but if I’m being 100% honest, he dropped few hints, before asking me to be his wife
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