How do you feel when you see an ex? (31)

Aug 11, 2011 5:32 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
Just saw my ex in town today, we made eye contact for 2 seconds before I looked away, I felt uneasy and nervy for a few minutes afterwardsconfused what happens when you see an ex? is it just like looking at a stranger? or is it different for you?
Aug 11, 2011 5:39 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
darkie23: I know that feeling your on about with past ex's but I'm glad to say my ex is a great friend & gives me advise on men now plus he got me to join this site..so, I'm always glad to see him & have an old natter
So, how do you feel now that your back home??


am grand ya, just thought it was unusual to be like that after seeing an ex
Aug 11, 2011 6:25 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
I'm good friends with 1 of my ex's.........if i see any others when i'm out it's all good and we have a laughthumbs up
Aug 11, 2011 6:34 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
My ex and i get on fine,he comes and goes like anyone else.I have met his new wife and have no issues with her as she wasn't around when we split up,she is a good stepmum also like he has always been an extremely good Dad.
Aug 11, 2011 6:40 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
Must be just me who parts with exs on bad terms, I'm friends with none of mineuh oh all stormy relationshipsdunno
Aug 11, 2011 6:47 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
darkie23: Not being nosey but what makes you end a relationship???
Maybe thats why its stormy??


cheating and other unforgivable things like that
Aug 11, 2011 7:06 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
Envy51: Are you hot headed, fiery ? Would that have anything to do with it?


I am ya, sure so r they
Aug 11, 2011 7:08 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
vinny1967: I always feel good when I see an ex of mine. Clean conscience Am pretty easy going and I liked/loved them before and they are pretty much the same people. Just because it didn't wo9rkm out between us doesn't mean they are a bad person or someone I need to avoid. Would like to see more of them actually


I have a clean conscience too mate, its not like I ever behaved like an animal to any of my exs, we rowed liked normal people would, had ups and downs, I just felt uneasy earlier because of the history we had together thats all, anyway onwards and upwards
Aug 11, 2011 8:00 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
i only ignore 1 of my ex's coz it ended badly,and i no it gets to him,but if he did'nt do what he did i would still talk to him,i have no probs with any of my other ex's.
Aug 11, 2011 10:35 AM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
irish84
irish84irish84monaghan, Monaghan Ireland72 Threads 3 Polls 8,745 Posts
depends on where i see him
but i try and avoid him at all costs
Aug 11, 2011 12:27 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
Doesn't bother me.

I know they still want me !!



laugh
Aug 11, 2011 12:30 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
mollie90: Happy............

That I no longer have him in my life...we are strangers....
it all depends on how your relationship ends in the first place.. like if one person wanted to end it and the other didnt there will be animoisity there 4 a while then yel prob be mates again but if one cheats or something serious then it works the opposite way..
Aug 11, 2011 12:31 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
mollie90
mollie90mollie90Meath, Louth Ireland5 Threads 2,502 Posts
BannerMan53: Doesn't bother me.

I know they still want me !!



Heartbreaker............broken heart ...laugh
Aug 11, 2011 12:34 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
mollie90: Heartbreaker............ ...


laugh


smitten love smitten
Aug 11, 2011 12:34 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
Mesimarja
MesimarjaMesimarjaDrogheda, Meath Ireland6 Threads 502 Posts
mollie90: Happy............

That I no longer have him in my life...we are strangers....


rolling on the floor laughing Good one Mollie

I would say I feel about the same, even though the divorce was very civilized; I just can't be arsed listening to the same whine from him I've listened year in and year out... nothing has changed yawn

But his gf is grand, I'll visit them this weekend to see the new house, she and I get along like a house on fire - and deffo not talking about him! roll eyes
Aug 11, 2011 1:19 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
fitandfun79
fitandfun79fitandfun79Laois, Leix Ireland62 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
all depends on which ex i see... there are probably 2 or 3 that i do NOT want to see... probably a ton of them who don't want to see me, and 1 or 2 that i still talk to.
Aug 11, 2011 3:26 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
baldydude: nope never had a prob like that, still get on well with all me ex's, just because things didn't work out doesn't mean we've to hate eachother, life is wayyyyyy to short to hold grudges like that


I get one with most of them very well but there are two that I would love to send to throw stones at the Taliban.
Aug 11, 2011 4:27 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
SereneGreen
SereneGreenSereneGreenWexford, Ireland190 Threads 5 Polls 2,899 Posts
I see mine twice every second weekend to meet him with the kids and collect them from him but conversation short civil and is only relative to the children. I don't need to know what goes on in his life even though he grills my 9yr old for every detail about mine sigh roll eyes
Aug 11, 2011 4:33 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
mollie90
mollie90mollie90Meath, Louth Ireland5 Threads 2,502 Posts
unouwantme2: it all depends on how your relationship ends in the first place.. like if one person wanted to end it and the other didnt there will be animoisity there 4 a while then yel prob be mates again but if one cheats or something serious then it works the opposite way..


Good point...it sure does....blues Unfortunately they dont all end up great...no matter how you try...doh
Aug 11, 2011 4:37 PM CST How do you feel when you see an ex?
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
my ex nd kids moved upto the outback of co Clare with her new BF its a 2 nd a bit hours drive away from me, so when i go up to see my kids i'd stay at their place nd when they come down to cork they stay at my place, we never made a prob of it, aslong my kids are happy i'm happy dancing
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