I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
Completely agree. People begin to accept being single after a certain time & they find it harder to get back into the dating game
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
summertanMedan, Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia46 posts
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
Not sure about the amount of years but sure thing is don't involve in a new relationship if you only look for replacement partner.
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
I agree - the longer you are out of a relationship, you become (well I became) more selfish, a little more uncompromising, and even though I enjoy being with friends and family, I also enjoy my own company.. which is why I responded with I want a man, but I don't need a man!!! and if that makes me shallow so be it ....
Babies are the easiest people to date. Their size, degree of physical and linguistic development, allows most of them to be dated to within a year of their actual age.
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
islandgirl62: I agree - the longer you are out of a relationship, you become (well I became) more selfish, a little more uncompromising, and even though I enjoy being with friends and family, I also enjoy my own company.. which is why I responded with I want a man, but I don't need a man!!! and if that makes me shallow so be it ....
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
wayward19: I've discovered the easiest dates to get are people who have been out of a relationship for 1-5 years. After 5 years it seems that people (including myself)are more comfortable with themselves and more selective in who they choose to date. Whereas less than 5 years out of a relationship you are more lonely and willing to find a replacement partner. What do you think?
Only 1,5 years out of my last relationship ... I'm in no hurry to hook up with anyone just so as not to be single...
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