What is up with these young people going onto singles sites when they should be worried more about there education than relationships. If you have an opinion on this subject please post it. thank you.
highplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA4,288 posts
well, shoot, I even saw one 20 year old that said she only wants to meet older men...that already have everything in life...what a level headed young lady...cough(goldigger)....
i know they need to start somewhere and i m not tring to be harsh but they have there whole life ahead of them why would they want to start a relationship so young.
I THINK I know where you're going with this, but I have to disagree a bit. You can want to have somebody special to spend your free time with and still worry about your education. That's like a 20 y/o telling you that you should be more worried about your career.
highplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA4,288 posts
Not all of the young gals on here are about that,though. I've had some interaction with some of the younger gals on here and they are pretty damn cool. That one profile just stuck out like a sore thumb, though.
not all younger women want to worry about college.. me, i wanted to graduate from highschool and start a family, that is what i did, when the man in my life didnt want that anymore he(they )left (no never more than one man at same time).. now i want to find a man(already did) and settle down with him..
not all of us younger people can afford to further our education but would like to but are willing to put it aside for now and be able to settle for a relationship now and be able to save up the money after a while to further our educations when it is easier for us. i want to get into a relationship and even get married. i plan on not wanting kids right away in marriage and be able to further my education first then have kids. is wrong to think that way??
Well, some of us know what we want out of life...in fact most of us do. Some people of any age want to have a career, some want to be social, and some, like me, happen to be very family oriented. Its the same as if I knew all my life that I wanted to be a lawyer, except Ive known all my life that I want a family. So what is so wrong with people my age who know what they want to increase thier chances of getting it? Young people get lonely too you know, it isnt just older people.
I'm sorry, I said that wrong, I meant that they may want a relationship that could go slow right now and after they have say completed college, can move further in it? sorry.
Its okay...I guess I know what you are trying to say. It just makes me mad that there are so many ignorant people out there who will judge a person just because they are younger or older or whatever. Completely unjustified.
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