I would have to check facts but I don't believe the US actually has an official language. If it does, it would be English. If it doesnt then English is accepted as the language. In either case then, yes I believe people who move here should have the courtesy to learn the language of the land. I grew up in Europe. I didn't go into public places expecting people to cater to me or know what I wanted. If I needed to communicate, I learned how to say it.
Obviously it's a song for a girl...but some of it applies.....
Girl, you're looking, fine tonight, and every guy has got you in his sights. What you're doing, with a clown like me, is surely one of life's little, mysteries
So tonight I'll ask the stars above, "How did I ever win your love?" What did I do? What did I say, to turn your angel eyes my way?
Well, I'm the guy who never learned to dance, never even got one second glance Across a crowded room was close enough, I could look but I could never touch
So tonight I'll ask, the stars above, "How did I ever win your love?" What did I do? What did I say, to turn your angel eyes my way?
Don't anyone wake me, if it's just a dream 'Cause she's the best thing, ever happened to me
All you fellows, you can look all you like, but this girl you see, she's leavin' here with me tonight
There's just one more thing that I need to know, if this is love why does it scare me so? It must be somethin only you can see, 'cause girl I feel it when you look at me
So tonight I'll ask the stars above, "How did I ever win your love?" What did I do? What did I say, to turn your angel eyes my way? hey, hey, hey, yeah, awww
I have trouble talking to men also. I clam up and never know what to say. I try to just be myself and listen to what they have to say. WHen they talk about something I know a little about, I comment.
As for here....don't come on to strong. Just say what is on your mind. You'll be fine.
Xstacy you are the most beautiful woman I have ever laid eyes on. I can't sleep because I am afraid I won't wake up and see your beautiful face. I can't eat because I do not want to waste the food that keeps you alive. What have I done this long without you?
I don't know the specifics of your question, but unless they are hurting you or your way of life directly, I would say leave them alone. Be happy that they are getting the same oppurtunites that you were blessed with.
I do agree with Sheila, though. We talk about everything here and help with all different types of problems and concerns. I am very surprised with some responses.
Secondly....sometimes opinions are important...sometimes they don't do a bit of good...the trick is to learn when they will help you or hurt you. I am very opinionated also but in my "old age" have learned when to just keep my mouth shut and watch the other person shoot themselves in their own foot.
I'm assuming you are asking how do you feel as a father when your kid doesn't want to visit you?? I am not a father so I don't know how it feels. I would refect back on myself though, and figure out if there is anything I could have done and could be ding differently to help my child have a better connection to me.
RE: Here's the sad part
U r the Shiznit!!!