NO I honestly do not know who you are talking about. If you're refering to Josh...you are wrong. We are friends. Period. You took yourself out of things for no reason at all.
I wonder about the people we skip over, though. How many times do you think that person can be skipped over by people they consider attractive before they develop a self-estam issue themselves?
I think the "out of league" saying is mainly said about your appearance. Just because somebody doesn't find themselves attractive enough for somebody doesn't mean they aren't worth dating. It just means they have an issue they need to work on. We all come to the table with different issues. You just have to decide what issues are worth accepting before you start a relationship.
Can everybody here say they have never been sent a msg from somebody and decided they weren't intersted simply because they weren't physically attracted to the person?? Is that not the same principle? Are you not placing yourself "out of their league" but being uninterested before you ever give them a chance to get to know them? I don't think that is shallow. Simply human nature.
SInce I honestly do see people and not speak to them because I feel deep inside that they would not be interested in me, I don't take this as an excuse. I think it is more of a self-esteam thing. I don't take it as a compliment either, though. If an unmarried Brad Pitt was beside you in a restaurant would you try to interest him or would you just assume he wouldn't be interested in you in that way? I would choose the latter for myself. I am no ANgelina Jolie or Jennifer ANiston. He is out of my league.
You are right, Paws. I love the different humour I find on this site. I think everybody has their moments but there are a few people that I can count on to make me laugh when I am down.
I hate this expression but hear it and think it a lot. I recently talked to somebody who said he had me in his favorites for a month but didn;t have the nerve to speak to me because I was way "out of his league". I started laughing and told him I had HIM in my favorites for about the same length of time and it took all the courage I had to write him because he was out of mine. After talking we realized we weren't compatible personalities but I am glad we at least tried. I am starting to wonder ow many good people I have passed up simply because I have a low self-esteam.
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She is totally out of ur league Rob!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I do???????????? News to me.
ur turn
RE: "League"
NO I honestly do not know who you are talking about. If you're refering to Josh...you are wrong. We are friends. Period. You took yourself out of things for no reason at all.