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Sep 8, 2011 11:44 AM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
skyblue43: You've seen threads here about people who have types or non negotiable deal breakers. A lot of the time friends may convince people to move outside their normal 'type' and suggest that they are too closed minded. If someone then tries dating a person outsite of type but finds that they still have a definite type I think its more gentle to say they are not ready than to say you're too fat or old or grey or bald or short or common or.....


i understand what ur saying,but if u both like each other after a while chatting /dating or whatever and u tell each other how u feel then why would ya just come out and say ''im sorry because of my past im not ready for this''
Sep 8, 2011 11:48 AM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
LiamMG: well if that is true its better you find out early than let it drag on i wont hurt as much


it still hirts no matter how long its bn going on..
Sep 8, 2011 11:49 AM CST past
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: i understand what ur saying,but if u both like each other after a while chatting /dating or whatever and u tell each other how u feel then why would ya just come out and say ''im sorry because of my past im not ready for this''


With all due respect will you wake up and smell the coffee...its dating, its what happens. I've been on both sides. I've cried when someone has said no and caused anger when I said no but most dating situations don't end friendly...most end with one side not returning calls, not returning texts etc etc. In the words of one or two in here 'NEXT'!
Sep 8, 2011 11:51 AM CST past
fitandfun79
fitandfun79fitandfun79Laois, Leix Ireland62 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: im sorry u went tru that,


ah it's ok... but when someone is talkin bout there ex constantly during a first date and how they got hurt, you kinda know it's not going anywhere!!! more annoying than anything else...

i'm not lookin to waste anyones time and don't like mine being wasted either
Sep 8, 2011 11:53 AM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
skyblue43: With all due respect will you wake up and smell the coffee...its dating, its what happens. I've been on both sides. I've cried when someone has said no and caused anger when I said no but most dating situations don't end friendly...most end with one side not returning calls, not returning texts etc etc. In the words of one or two in here 'NEXT'!


ok ,sorry for boreing u...
Sep 8, 2011 11:54 AM CST past
LiamMG
LiamMGLiamMGClondalkin, Dublin Ireland30 Threads 4 Polls 2,049 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: it still hirts no matter how long its bn going on..
here its all part of life and life isnt always fair but you gotta move on build a bridge and get over it
Sep 8, 2011 11:55 AM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
fitandfun79: ah it's ok... but when someone is talkin bout there ex constantly during a first date and how they got hurt, you kinda know it's not going anywhere!!! more annoying than anything else...

i'm not lookin to waste anyones time and don't like mine being wasted either


very annoying,
Sep 8, 2011 11:56 AM CST past
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: ok ,sorry for boreing u...


You're not boring me. I love the chance to exchange opinions. Its just fairly straightforward...that I'm not ready to move on line is just that 95% of the time..a line, an excuse. People don't set out to hurt others and when one feels more than the other the break up can be messy...
Sep 8, 2011 12:00 PM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
LiamMG: here its all part of life and life isnt always fair but you gotta move on build a bridge and get over it


well i hope it never happens to u..
Sep 8, 2011 12:02 PM CST past
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
i agree with most of whats said.. relationships are extremlly messy thats why your better sticking to ''no strings fun'' laugh
Sep 8, 2011 12:03 PM CST past
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: well i hope it never happens to u..


I'd be amazed if it hasn't happenned to most people at some point...
Sep 8, 2011 12:05 PM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
unouwantme2: i agree with most of whats said.. relationships are extremlly messy thats why your better sticking to ''no strings fun''


that mayb ur type of thing but not mine,each to der own..but thanks anyway
Sep 8, 2011 12:07 PM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
skyblue43: I'd be amazed if it hasn't happenned to most people at some point...


has it happened to u then??
Sep 8, 2011 12:08 PM CST past
LiamMG
LiamMGLiamMGClondalkin, Dublin Ireland30 Threads 4 Polls 2,049 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: well i hope it never happens to u..
well it kinda has happened once before but very early so i didnt have feelings for her and like Sky is saying it was just a line she wasnt interested in me
Sep 8, 2011 12:10 PM CST past
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: has it happened to u then??


As I said earlier in the thread it has...and I did a song and dance, to be honest I probably hassled the person to continue...But I was wrong to...
Sep 8, 2011 12:10 PM CST past
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: that mayb ur type of thing but not mine,each to der own..but thanks anyway
it just proves never get into a relationship unless you no the ins and outs of things really well
Sep 8, 2011 12:11 PM CST past
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
its not me its you laugh
Sep 8, 2011 12:11 PM CST past
xxheartofgoldxx
xxheartofgoldxxxxheartofgoldxxmeath, Meath Ireland6 Threads 347 Posts
LiamMG: well it kinda has happened once before but very early so i didnt have feelings for her and like Sky is saying it was just a line she wasnt interested in me


cant understand that tho ,if there not interested then why bother go out with them,dunno
Sep 8, 2011 12:12 PM CST past
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
skyblue43: As I said earlier in the thread it has...and I did a song and dance, to be honest I probably hassled the person to continue...But I was wrong to...
its only natural if u still have feelings your not just gonna lie down and say ''ok thats fine cya then'' lol
Sep 8, 2011 12:13 PM CST past
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
xxheartofgoldxx: cant understand that tho ,if there not interested then why bother go out with them,


As you go out with someone you realise more of their habits, mannerisms etc and often times people just feel the attraction lessen....
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