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xxheartofgoldxx: can sum1 tell me;
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
everyone has to move on in life.. ye you might want to take things slowly but if your past relationship is still bothering you dont get into a new onewhy do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
unouwantme2: everyone has to move on in life.. ye you might want to take things slowly but if your past relationship is still bothering you dont get into a new one
thats what im saying,why start sumtin if ur not ready,
xxheartofgoldxx: can sum1 tell me;
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
Is that not just another version of the 'it's not you, it's me' get out line? A bit more sensitive than saying that the person isn't all that you thought they were....
xxheartofgoldxx: can sum1 tell me;
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
some people make the mistake in expecting everyone to behave as others have.. trusting someone new is easy if u blame the past on th eoffender and not the world.
some people use the past as a convenient excuse
xxheartofgoldxx: thats what im saying,why start sumtin if ur not ready,
some people might think they are ready but thats not good enough because you get into a relationship and then hurt the other person by saying ''oh sorry im not ready''skyblue43: Is that not just another version of the 'it's not you, it's me' get out line? A bit more sensitive than saying that the person isn't all that you thought they were....
it could b sky,but if der is feelings on both sides ,then what do u think??
xxheartofgoldxx: it could b sky,but if der is feelings on both sides ,then what do u think??
There won't really be feelings after a few days or weeks. Its a gentle let down...nothing more, nothing less...
unouwantme2: some people might think they are ready but thats not good enough because you get into a relationship and then hurt the other person by saying ''oh sorry im not ready''
its a very crule way to hirt sum1...
xxheartofgoldxx: its a very crule way to hirt sum1...
they see it as being kind.
skyblue43: There won't really be feelings after a few days or weeks. Its a gentle let down...nothing more, nothing less...
ah you never know it could be some nutter who falls in love after one date xxheartofgoldxx: der could b,
and i would'nt call it a gentle let down,
and i would'nt call it a gentle let down,
Not from both sides if one is prepared to walk away after a few days/ weeks. And it's a lot more gentle than being told bluntly something that might hurt...and the list there is endless in its range of possibilities...
xxheartofgoldxx: can sum1 tell me;
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....
agree completley... i'v encountered that twice in the last few months.... i mean, come on!!!
xxheartofgoldxx: im sorry,but i dont think its kind,
me either..personally id be upfront and total brutally honest..but not everyone is hon.
xxheartofgoldxx: im sorry,but i dont think its kind,
You've seen threads here about people who have types or non negotiable deal breakers. A lot of the time friends may convince people to move outside their normal 'type' and suggest that they are too closed minded. If someone then tries dating a person outsite of type but finds that they still have a definite type I think its more gentle to say they are not ready than to say you're too fat or old or grey or bald or short or common or.....
xxheartofgoldxx: sometimes thats all it takes..
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why do guys/girls let der past get in the way of a new start,as in,
they start a relationship with sum1 and then a few days/weeks later they say that they dont want to be with the other person coz they were hirt in the past.....