Is he interested,not interested,or just afraid? (34)
Hmmmmmmm 
Does sound like he is backing off....
What was the problem he had previously??? That might explain
his thinking.....?
Does sound like he is backing off....
What was the problem he had previously??? That might explain
his thinking.....?
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yabbadabbadont: Hmmmmmmm
Does sound like he is backing off....
What was the problem he had previously??? That might explain
his thinking.....?
Does sound like he is backing off....
What was the problem he had previously??? That might explain
his thinking.....?
Hi thanks for the reply.He told me that there was a problem on here before and thats really all I know.I feel like giving up at this stage and letting the whole thing go
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It appears he doesn't trust this way to meet someone so I think he's just spending time here flirting and not really looking for a serious relationship due to his previous problem. 
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ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
only he himself can answer these questions ferarri...we can all say we think this and think that but that is our train of thought not his..he is the only one who can give you a true answer..
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Web cam. only way to go. Then you can see the real him. Ask him to web cam, then you can really have a heart to heart talk.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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ferrari75: Hi thanks for the reply.He told me that there was a problem on here before and thats really all I know.I feel like giving up at this stage and letting the whole thing go
Tell him that is in the past and each experience is different from another or other.and each person, too.
Good luck to you!
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Certainly sounds like his backing off, either that or he wasn't been completely honest with you in the first place, as it seems strange to me that all was fine until you mentioned exchanging numbers.
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Thanks all for your replys.Yes Angelcake its all very strange,im totally confused about the whole thing
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Hello ferrari75! Now did you tell him he was very sweet? let me explain to you a man's point of view
If you tell a guy he is sweet then you have put him in the nice guy category so this means that he does not push your buttons in other words you like him but you are not attracted to him
so why if he is looking to date would he continue to talk to you if he knows you are not attracted to him 
His ego has been damaged and he won't wish to talk to you again now. My advise to you would be to move on and find a man who will light your fire and don't waste anymore of this poor lads time.
If you tell a guy he is sweet then you have put him in the nice guy category so this means that he does not push your buttons in other words you like him but you are not attracted to himso why if he is looking to date would he continue to talk to you if he knows you are not attracted to him His ego has been damaged and he won't wish to talk to you again now. My advise to you would be to move on and find a man who will light your fire and don't waste anymore of this poor lads time.------ This thread is Archived ------
ferrari75: Thanks all for your replys.Yes Angelcake its all very strange,im totally confused about the whole thing
All I can say...is... don't let it get you down....
You're a honey....
Love will find you.....
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HOUSTON4: Hello ferrari75! Now did you tell him he was very sweet? let me explain to you a man's point of view If you tell a guy he is sweet then you have put him in the nice guy category so this means that he does not push your buttons in other words you like him but you are not attracted to himso why if he is looking to date would he continue to talk to you if he knows you are not attracted to him His ego has been damaged and he won't wish to talk to you again now. My advise to you would be to move on and find a man who will light your fire and don't waste anymore of this poor lads time.
I can't help but laugh....I'll keep my mouth shut though...
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Jeeepers: Web cam. only way to go. Then you can see the real him. Ask him to web cam, then you can really have a heart to heart talk.
Good luck.
Good luck.
I would actually agree with that, Jeep Man.
It takes away any doubts about what the person looks like, sounds like and they can introduce you to their home also if they wish.
I know it put me at great ease before I took the leap I did.
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ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
tell him how you feel and you want straight answers life is to short to be pissed around, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
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Bodecia: I would actually agree with that, Jeep Man.
It takes away any doubts about what the person looks like, sounds like and they can introduce you to their home also if they wish.
I know it put me at great ease before I took the leap I did.
It takes away any doubts about what the person looks like, sounds like and they can introduce you to their home also if they wish.
I know it put me at great ease before I took the leap I did.
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if his answers are not to your satisfaction then say bye bye plenty more where you came from.
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ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
He's being very cautious - if you like him that much, don't push it give him some space - and show him through your actions that you are not like the others... that old cliche "mother time"
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ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
He might not be interested in meeting.
Have you checked in his profile for what is he looking for?
I have made a big mistake, I was flirting with someone but then he did not write any more then we exchange a couple of more messages but I did notice that he was cold and I made some questions to him but he did not answer them. Then I went back to see his profile and what we were looking for was different.
It was just a big mistake of mine.
Anyway, there are many great guys in here and out there in real life.
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Ferrari, if he only backed off after you mentioned exchanging phone numbers, then it makes me wonder whether he is married or has another girlfriend. Personally, though, if you were my girlfriend, I sure wouldn't be looking for anybody else!!
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Thanks Lifeisadream and me buddy craig.
In his profile he wants a longterm on it but I do think he maybe a bit shy and afraid to trust.
Now I know the most of you will most likely give out to me now when I tell ya all this but anyway.....I did e-mail him last night and told him that I put a post up.I think he must of read it as he told me he was interested so thats all I can tell you at the min.
I hope hes not pissed off that im writing about him if he sees this
In his profile he wants a longterm on it but I do think he maybe a bit shy and afraid to trust.
Now I know the most of you will most likely give out to me now when I tell ya all this but anyway.....I did e-mail him last night and told him that I put a post up.I think he must of read it as he told me he was interested so thats all I can tell you at the min.
I hope hes not pissed off that im writing about him if he sees this
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I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
The last few days we keep missing each other online and unless im mad I feel sometimes its possiabe he signs off when I go on.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx